Just curious how many men want to marry a porn star.  Zoe Zane

the big deal about someone being a porn star.
F**king and s**king on film is just not something that ever struck me as a qualification for anything special.
Can't imagine that making an impression on a resume' -
"It says here that you blew 99 guys in the film 'Oral Archangel.'" Perhaps you would be good at managing a large computer network. Do you work well with men? LOL

Besides, you get married when you want to stop having sex, and just have pleasant companionship forever after.

Guys who pay thousands of dollars to see porn stars make me disappointed with the capabilities of males.
Surely there is something better to do with one's time and money.
But then I've always liked the Playmate next door type for under $500. The "porn star mystique" just seems to be on the superficial side, something for Hustler readers who can barely read. But then I expect more of the human race than it is producing just yet.

That depends on the porn star  (EOM)

Hell, I can't even get married with a non porn star.  But like it was said, it depends on the individual.  Take care all.

Well I am not married???  Legally.  zoe zane  What is the difference between a porn star and your wild girlfriend who cannot get enough?  The porn star did it front of the camera and a lot of people can watch her fuck and suck.  Thats all, plain and simple.

I have personally never been with a professed "porn star", although I have to say the idea has some (limited) appeal. Two things I like about the idea of having a porn star as a provider: 1. I can see what she's capable of, before I book her for an appointment. 2. I can see what she looks like, from all angles, in full motion, before I book her for an appointment.

Neither of those criteria in any way modifies my interest in her as a PARTNER of the civilian variety, whether for marriage or simply for dating. Presumably I would have seen her naked, in full motion, in PERSON, before deciding whether or not to get engaged, right? So, having the video is beside the point.

The idea that a woman is a porn star doesn't turn me on, any more than the idea that she is a model or a stewardess. If, however, I SEE her and find out that she LOOKS GREAT, then I'm turned on, and that's more likely if she's capable of getting the job of model, stewardess, or porn star. So, really, it's not that she's been on film; it's that she's hot enough that someone else wanted to put her on film.

The idea that a woman is a porn star does, to a slight extent, turn me off. I worry about her association with a cocaine-addicted community of multiple partnerships and intravenous drug users. Some porn stars will have all the problems associated with those vices. Those will be women I probably don't like, and probably don't want to be a partner with (ether paid or civilian). But other porn stars will have no problems, and will instead "have their shit together," and women like that are hard to find in any business, porn or clean or in between.

So, it's more an issue of the woman, than of the profession. But, if she's "typical," I'd be running the other way, because my definition (prejudiced? whether right or wrong, this is my definition) of a "typical porn star" includes drug-addiction and general stupidity. So, if she's an atypical porn star, she's got some proving to do before I'll give her a chance.

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"you get married when you want to stop having sex, and just have pleasant companionship forever after"

very funny

glad i've never been married

I have no problem with it.  I am sex addicted and if she is sex addicted as well, we might have a wonderful partnership. I am not convinced that I need her to be totally monogamous with me anyway, so what do I care if it is in front of the camera.  Hell I have been infront of the camera too!

Well some interesting thoughts on the subject.  More and more film stars are married or have significant partners.  Sex workers need love too.  It is nice to come home to someone who adores you even before you decided to fuck on film.  A lot of the internet stars are swingers anyway.  That is where I began and did not plan on getting where I am now.  In fact I thought no way, but here I am.  AND I am a late bloomer.  zoe zane

Zoe,
The fact that a porn star did it in front of the camera places her in a category that is not mainstream.  She is unconventional.
Disapproved by mainstream society, it is an enormous turn-on. For me, add a few tattoos, which is something my wife would never do and would frown upon as blue collar, and I have instant hard-on. Porn-stars provide the fantasy of a sexual liberation that is often missing in a conventional life. My own personal experience has taught me that indeed they are human and no different then you and me, but the fantasy is a powerful high.  WHich is why they can command such high prices...