We all know hygiene is important. A provider may see multiple clients a day. I know some providers may not have time to clean themself between clients.  How to politely ask the provider to clean herself, or even take a shower?  She might be upset if I ask.  I can make sure I am clean, but I want to make sure she is also clean.

Do some providers really see clients that close together that they don't have time to properly refresh themselves between times?

... to be sure everything's fresh and clean. Would you join me and scrub my back?    "

They do, believe me, even including highly reviewed providers.

Wow. Amazing.

I know they have time, but they might not take a shower, or wash their private throughly. They might asume they are clean enough to go.

If you are so repulsed by providers (whorephobic), then why exactly are you booking appointments? You are making a lot of sweeping generalizations and assumptions.

I always take a shower in between dates.  Always.  And another after my last client of the day. Because guess what?

I am not whorephobic.  I have no problem to taste whatever the whore has.  I just try to avoid to taste whatever left from the other guy.  

Thank you Debbie.  I appreciated you honest.  That's the thing I try to avoid.  But not every provider is like you.  

Posted By: DebbieNoonerGirl

I always take a shower in between dates.  Always.  And another after my last client of the day. Because guess what?  
   
 I LIKE to be clean AND don't want to smell like anyone other than myself. My dogs don't like it when I smell like someone else, either lol!  
   
 So while it's been years since I had someone ask me to shower in his presence to prove to him that I'm not (literally speaking) a dirty whore, I would decline as politely as possible.   And then tell him that we're clearly not going to have a "love connection" (shout out to Chuck Woolery!!) so I'd like him to leave.  
   
 Other ladies will be more laid-back and perhaps even invite you to shower with them, but to me that request just signals bad news.    
   
 Oh, and I don't take showers with clients unless it's an overnight date.  Just personal preference.    
   
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i always find the best approach is to be sweet as honey. "would you be willing to do me a huge favor? is there any chance you could hop in the shower for a quick rinse?"

If I ask her to take the shower, no matter how I say it, it will show some disrespect to her.  Nobody is stupid. Just like I am not stupid enough to believe whatever the provider said to me.  I think I might just choose to don't think about it.

You will find that Debbie is hardly in the minority.

Thank you for the reply.  I am wondering probably everybody stay in this hobby long enough might has the opportunity to taste body fluid from other guys just like whore did.  

Then you can have fun washing each other and know you both are clean. And it is really fun and sexy.

Nice ... thanks for adding to the whoreaphobia here. Poor bastard was probably thinking, "Wow, she's really wet!"

Find someone who is willing to talk or email a little bit about the date you'd most like.   Be clear that what you want to relate is not graphic, explicit or fetish-related.  Perhaps write it as a short story?  

That depends largely on the provider. I've had them fix their hair and make up, brush their teeth and rush out the door to the next guy ...

Which is why you had better jump in the shower with her to control the time, or 45 minutes later she'll be getting ready to head out the door for her next appointment, "Wish I could stay, Babe! ... you have a great shower ... call me"

I focus on the food, not how many mouths the fork has been in.

Or have you met a provider that needs a shower? Are you assuming that most providers see lots of guys or that they do not clean up before the next?

Maybe you need to take a shower and a lesson in humanity.

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Of course it's guessing.  But I highly suspicious this happened to one of my favoraite provider.  I am 99.99% sure that the prior client just left.  And her private tastes and smells differently from before.  I have no idea whether she took the shower of just simply wiped it.  Of course she said I am the only client she saw in that day.  

I don't think I am much cleaner than a whore.  We are in the same boat. As for hygiene, this is mutual.  I am not talking to a specific provider here.  But this thing did happen.

Well first you say providers don't have time between clients to wash up and then you say providers do have time but they purposely don't wash between clients. I mean, which is it? Your prejudice is confusing even you.

Well, let me do my thing and he'll be outta here in no time. lol

....I never thought this might be the real reason why! That they think maybe I didn't clean myself well enough.

Watching a woman bathe is a huge turn on. I never dared communicate that predate. Personally I never had a provider not smell fresh, if did I would likely walk. But have asked for mutual showers, and to watch her shave in bathe. It is a huge turn on. But I usually don't do so on the first date. Did it once and she took me wrong and the whole date was awkward after. And I never got my show. I have turned a few ladies do you want to rinse off into fun bath time by saying half jokingly "Yes, especially if you join me. Now that sounds fun." while smiling. Sadly a few say no and I shower alone.

Agreed. Of course we shower between clients.  
Not showering is something u expect from a strretwalker.

Step 2: If she goes into the bathroom to take a pee during an appt, don't say, "You girls make me shower, so I better hear the shower running so I know I"m not licking your pee"

and almost every one of them takes a shower before the session and then again after the session, and these are "bar girls" that a lot of people here would look down on.  

Aramis was my father's cologne of choice. he passed away 18 years ago ... so i'd probably ask a friend to get in the shower, too; not because the scent is offensive, but because it's very emotionally evocative for me.

Place it on the soap dish in the shower with one hand on the water valve .
She may buck a little but be strong !

I want to thank you everbody who has spent time and replied this post.  I also want to apologize for any words I used that has offended the providers.  I have no intention to look down any lady friends here.   I think I got my answer.  You are all super clean.  The problem is me, not you.

When I "offer" a provider the use of my shower or ask if she wants to "freshen up", I'm just being polite. You probably don't smell like a homeless person (or I'd decline the date), but if you drove awhile and smoked 3 or 4 cigarettes on the way here ... that piece of gum isn't going to cut it. I'm surprised at the number of providers who decline.
 

...I pretend I'm a dog and give her the "sniff" test.  If she doesn't pass, I suggest a shower.

Thanks, I'll add those to the FC2 and individual packets of lube I have ... GREAT idea!

Posted By: Courtney.Ova

Step 2: If she goes into the bathroom to take a pee during an appt, don't say, "You girls make me shower, so I better hear the shower running so I know I"m not licking your pee"  
   
 *all while I'm about to pee - that can be stressful - to know a guy is listening to you take a pee - and while I'm pulling out this wonderful cleansing towelette that cleans all the crevices of a vagina, and anywhere else the trinkets of potty water may have splashed... also way less irritating than the soap you have in your bathroom, for more comfortable, fresh sex. Probably also more sanitary and better after taste. lol.*  
   
 These go a LONG way. If you are supremely afraid of dirt, and it's an outcall, leave a few of these on your counter - just like we leave mouthwash for you that most don't use, and the soap that never unwraps in the shower lol. The difference is, most providers will have their own sanitary things that work better than anything you could think of for freshening up. After all, us ladies have our secrets that work and clean/freshen up all of the crevices of the private areas, including twat, clit, labia, legs, and ass/crack/hole after the 10-15 minutes of waiting for you to arrive so you can say, "I just freshly showered an hour ago".  
   
   
   
 Of course, my guys always smell wonderful.  
 

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I found these Healthy Hoo Hoo's ... Too much?? I do like the name better.

Posted By: Courtney.Ova

Step 2: If she goes into the bathroom to take a pee during an appt, don't say, "You girls make me shower, so I better hear the shower running so I know I"m not licking your pee"  
   
 *all while I'm about to pee - that can be stressful - to know a guy is listening to you take a pee - and while I'm pulling out this wonderful cleansing towelette that cleans all the crevices of a vagina, and anywhere else the trinkets of potty water may have splashed... also way less irritating than the soap you have in your bathroom, for more comfortable, fresh sex. Probably also more sanitary and better after taste. lol.*  
   
 These go a LONG way. If you are supremely afraid of dirt, and it's an outcall, leave a few of these on your counter - just like we leave mouthwash for you that most don't use, and the soap that never unwraps in the shower lol. The difference is, most providers will have their own sanitary things that work better than anything you could think of for freshening up. After all, us ladies have our secrets that work and clean/freshen up all of the crevices of the private areas, including twat, clit, labia, legs, and ass/crack/hole after the 10-15 minutes of waiting for you to arrive so you can say, "I just freshly showered an hour ago".  
   
   
   
 Of course, my guys always smell wonderful.  
 

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I can see it now... A little wine, some soft music playing in the background, some passionate playtime, finishing up with a nice bubble bath together, which would probably lead to more playtime... Damn, now look what you've done!

That's how you ask her exactly! That is very unprofessional for ANY lady in this line of work not to take a shower between appointment. If I have to ask a provider to take a shower, I'm sorry but I'm leaving! Are you crazy Papi, read between the lines. I hope she doesn't work during her time of the month the smell must be morbid. I'm always honest.

Dear Ms. Kane:
Would you say the approach when bringing up the subject of hygiene is one that you should always approach tactfully? Also would you broach the subject as a suggestion and initiate it with yourself taking a shower and saying I would appreciate it if you would join me?  Just trying to get a woman's point of view.

In the intial email say that you want to have a shower together when you arrive...fun and naughty and gets the job done!!

To answer your question, yes they do work, and they think we can't notice the smell. Here's a clue, if you can smell it...you bet your ass we can too  

Tell her you are willing to pay 30min. of her going rate in addition to your regular donation if she spends that 30min. before the session showering.

Yes, I believe so. Certain cultures prefer to shower beforehand and I completely respect that. However, it seems a bit rude to insinuate that providers are unclean. I don't mind taking showers with clients but usually they are regulars and I put my hair up and have no make up on.  

I usually have a shower cap, someone, I don't remember who, needed one and now I need to buy a few more. I buy toothbrushes by the dozen. Keep lot of girly body washes in the shower and usually offer (sometimes)but only my regular providers have used my shower. Go figure.  

Being squeaky clean is part of the job description. So you're saying you saw a provider NOT wash up before heading out to the next client?

To a hooker to say Asshole, take a shower" to a john standing right in front of her?  

A 45 minute shower and 15 minutes for him for full ride...sure. But if he was that much of a dbag, I'd still rather turf his ass out. Not worth the aggravation. But I like the way you think when dealing with that type.

to take a shower. If they smell, I sure do or lie like a rug and get them to leave. This guy wants to ask any hooker to take a shower, it seems even if they small fine...he did not make that distinction. And for sure take it off his time.

A trick who tried that whoreaphobic attitude would be asked to leave OR as court suggested, take a freaking long ass shower or bath and take it off his time.

Germaphobic clients

My first regular client when I came to NYC would invite me to his nice apartment every other weekend.  

To shower I would probably be mortified. I have one client that I always use the shoer(actually bath) when I arrive but that is due to his allergies to smoke. When I come in I place my clothes in a bag and immediately shower. It protects him, and I get to keep a great client.  

Of course anything can be done politely so during screening you can express that upon arrival you would like both parties to take a shower for you to feel comfortable.

I'm a very clean woman and if any guy ever said that to me, I'd immediately turn around and leave.