The best argument to me is:

 
Life is short, then you are dead for a very long time.

I get it but I hate the term “Hobby” in this lifestyle..

I don’t know what else to call it though 🤔🤔
Lifestyle??🤷🏻‍♂️

We’re all creatures of habits. The longer we do something, the more familiar we become with it. Familiar brings comfort and we are drawn to it. At some point, doing it is more familiar than not doing it. Stopping creates a hole, something we crave and miss. And the better you are at it, and the more pleasure you get from it, the more all of this is true.

 
This reminds me of one of my earliest experiences with a provider, one whom I discussed before. She didn’t need the money. She escorted her way towards an Ivy League degree. She initially thought she would stop once she entered her new degree barring profession. She even married a very rich man. They later divorced because he found out she was escorting behind his back. Not for the money, but for the lifestyle.  

 
Fast forward to me meeting her, she still didn’t need the money. She turned my 90 minute outcall, to an incall that was a date going out and staying overnight with her. She drew me in to a longer date and insisted it wouldn’t cost me more. I paid for her meal and mini golf, but hardly count that. When it was time for me to leave, she insisted on paying for my Uber back to my hotel. She did this all because she was drawn to a lifestyle she had enjoyed for many years, initially out of need.

I agree. Of course, being a provider comes with its challenges, but the good days are so fulfilling in many different ways. I think I'd feel off if I retired.