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stickit55 29 Reviews 343 reads
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I agree if I had a meeting with you and walked in to see you with blonde or red hair I would ask about it. If you look pretty much like pictures I see on your website or ads my assumption would be it's your real hair

I have a question for the group. Do you think it is rude for a guy to ask a young lady if her hair is real, weave, or wig?

Pussy hair.

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NoYellowEnvelope373 reads

For a gentleman, yes.

And that is where I was going with this. Thank you!

JakeFromStateFarm456 reads

Like if we're in doggie and I want to hold onto it like reins.
YEEE-HAH!

Wouldn't it come out when Jake pulls it if it were a weave or wig. In which case wouldn't it be important to ask?

Posted By: AdinaAndrews
Lol....don't worry. I will hold on, you just keep pullin 😀

JackDunphy356 reads

In your scenario, what is the girl in question's hourly rate?

show her with different color hair in various pics, then it is OK for a guy to ask if she is now a blonde, has red hair, etc. Same would apply if some pics show long hair and others short hair. Most guys don't like surprises when they open the door.

I agree if I had a meeting with you and walked in to see you with blonde or red hair I would ask about it. If you look pretty much like pictures I see on your website or ads my assumption would be it's your real hair

Depends on how he goes about it....i think it could be politely asked without offending.  

Posted By: AdinaAndrews
I have a question for the group. Do you think it is rude for a guy to ask a young lady if her hair is real, weave, or wig?

A woman with a weave is wearing her hair. She might have dyed her hair, styled it some way or another, adorned it with tortoise shell combs, ironed it flat or teasd it up. Hair is dead. If you dye it fire engine red and tease it up into a towering bun, who cares? It's like if I saw you were wearing purple nail polish and asked if that was your real color. Or if they were an even two inches in length and I asked if they were your own or artificial.

What women do to adorn themselves is in one sense none of my business, but in the case of a provider or even a civvie date, I consider complimenting a change of color or length or style of hair as open territory. I wouldn't generally walk up to a lady in a coffeehouse and ask of it's her real hair, but, for instance, I personally would rather a provider didn't wear a wig when in session with me. I have no problem with a weave though, nor with a wrap. The wig just seems like something one should take off before getting on the bed. I feel that way about heels as well, and a lot of men think that's really sexy to wear your heels to bed with them. But like, would you thnk it sexy if I left my socks on?

OTOH, if you wear a wig and I don't notice it, then to my experience it's your real hair. So...

I would rather you wore a wrap if you want to hide your 'do.

In this hobby, it is not unusual for a client to want to run his hands through her hair.  It never occurred to me to ask about this until one day I did so and pulled the gal's wig off.  She was bald, a result of chemo therapy she was receiving.  I am not sure who was the more embarrassed, but we got over it and enjoyed the session.

So, if asked politely, as an overture to wanting to caress her scalp, I think it is OK.  Obviously, if asked in a derisive manner, it is not OK.

And by the way, I don't see how the gal's age enters into it

he should ask that... but he could be polite and ask if he can pull it or not... and then go off his own judgement from there lol

I would say, from your pics I see you wear your hair many different ways an I like that. Then she can tell me what's going on. It's just like I wouldn't ask a girl if her boobs were real. An especially not ask if she was pregnant.

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