I read the post below and decided to post my own two cents worth. I had a similar experience this week.

I have been rating based on what I thought was as good as it could be in the hobby. I have only been doing this for a year so perhaps I don't have the experience as many other guys out there have. No disrepect to all the wonderful ladies I have met, perhaps it has been my lack of experience in how I have approached my dates that prevented me from having a date that truly did not feel like a service at any time during the entire evening.

I have had some wonderful experiences with some wonderful ladies who I can't beleive I have had the pleasure to spend such quality time with. However, this week I experienced a different level of intimacy that I did not think was possible to have with a provider.

It was a true 9 in the every sense of the definition of a 9. I never at any point felt like it was a service. It was like nothing I ever anticipated to experience with a provider. We were completely in sinc at every level, physical, itellectual and emotional. It was also a 10, once in a lifetime, since it has opened my eyes to what is actually possible out there.

Of course I will see this new provider again. However, I want to go back and visit some of the ladies I have already met now that I have found this new perspective on what is actually possible.

Some amazing things can happen.

Go back and see the other providers.  Use what you now know.  But don't set your expectations with them so high that they can't be satisfied.  What is possible with for you one woman may not be with others.

i am now well into my 3rd year and as i look back on the ratings i've given... i see them as internally inconsistent. i wish it were possible to revise the numbers without changing the text. ah well.....

fortunately, for my own purposes, i've never taken "the numbers" seriously. i read the reviews and the reviews of the reviewers to figure out what they mean.

numbers do not convey enough information, they can't. chemistry is so much more complicated than a scale that maxes out at 10!

but i WILL stand behind every 10 i've given! it's the rest that are the problem....

Hey, did I say MY performance marks? Those would surely be 3's and 4's.LOL

I stand by my appearance marks. Subjective as they are, they still seem to be consistent with others. You should see my reviews on other sites. Quite the diff. from here. Toned down,but very explicit.

that is why we keep doing this, just looking for the right "one"... then the right one next month, and the one after that..etc..

What is visually appealing is consistent so my scores for looks are consistent.  The performance scores are far more variable depending upon what I am looking for that day.  I try to be consistent, but it is more difficult.  I provider who does all the right things to push the right buttons one day can get a 9 from me.  The same woman doing the exact same things in the same way might get a 7 on a different day because MY itch is different that day.  Not fair, and I try to adjust for it, but I think there is some of that in my scores.

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