Why do some Providers say in their ads they are in their mid-twentys when you know they are much older? If I like a provider I will see her regardless of her age unless she is underage.

Because many guys won't.  If age is a criteria for search, it comes down to "do you wanna be in or out" of the group.  I know a lady that advertises a number a bit lower, and I honestly probably wouldn't seek her out at that age.  She's dynamite, and worth every penny.  I don't think any of her reviews comment that she looks older than her profile states.  If she can pass for it, why not.  If she can't, the reviews should expose the issue.

...Escort years = Real Years - 6.

I met a lady last week who is 34 but her agency advertises her as 25. If she advertised that she is 34 then some people might assume she is 40+ and not all guys are turned on by the idea of that, though many might be. The lady was great either way and I would have still seen her had I known her real age.

Of course not all ladies lie when it comes to age/stats/photos/nationality, but it is a BS industry on the whole. Some may feel forced to exaggerate because of the industry and the assumptions that potential clients may make. Other could not care less and take a "I am what I am" approach. Whatever works for them and brings home the bacon.

Besides it is not just a provider thing. Age for some women is a touchy subject. One aunty of mine has been 49 for at least the last ten years.

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Adding 6 years to the advertised is an good rule of thumb.  


Another good rule of thumb is to "believe when you see it" . Assume that everything is misrepresented to some extent in the marketing pitch (age, pics, weight, education, all the laughable adjectives used in ads, etc..).  Keeping your own expectations in check helps minimize the potential disappointment.

More demand for younger providers, price goes up.

Sorry but a liar is a liar, period.

If she feels she has to LIE about one thing who knows what else she is lying about.  She could have HIV for all you know, right?

I believe in being HONEST, period.

The angle of the dangle is proportional to the heat of the meat.

I learned that back in 7th grade.  

wrong...older is a niche, young ones are a dime a dozen.

Another thought....I put my real age on my site just because I am that honest...I service Augusta-Columbia area and realized I am the only 47yr old in this area. I hide my face yet tell everything else about myself so anyone who knows me would know it was me just by reading my site! So I've seriously thought about changing my age (not by much, maybe a few years) so anyone who stumbles across it might think twice about who it is.

That's unfortunate that you feel that way and even more unforunate that it's the truth. There are some of us that do not fudge anything...age, height, weight, education or photos. OK so I will admit the rarity but please leave room for those who don't.

Maybe  they aren't just pieces of meat, objects to screw and leave, but maybe they are actual human beings with emotions, egos, and a desire to make a living.

Or maybe I am just wrong?

Nah.

{sarcasm off}

She was 38 years old and said business was slow. I told her the competition between the 20's and 30 somethings was brutal. I told her to post as a 40 year old which puts her in the MILF group and is a lot more select than the younger girls. There are many guys like me that seek out women in that age group. I love to occasionally indulge in a 25 year old but the 40+ girls are closer to my age and easier to relate to, and I think they are at the peak of their beauty and sexual prowess at that age.

By the way, the provider took my advice and eventually things picked up for her, especially when she started to market herself as a MILF.

I don't really care about the age.  As long as the appointment is hot and we both enjoy ourselves then I'm happy.  Honestly the younger girls usually don't perform as well as the more mature ones.  Upper 20's and early 30's women get the best out of me.  Not immature and really know what they are doing and know their own body at the same time.  My best 2 experiences were both with woman that were the same age.  Surprisingly they were born on the same day in the same year.  The very best esperience was with a beautiful Thai lady that will soon be 32.
Just my opinion.

...If I applied the same sort of deceit that the typical provider does, in my own business, then I would find myself sacked, unemployable and maybe even in prison. Based on my own experience the standards are generally very low when it comes to honesty both here in the UK and in the States. It is a fantasy sort of business to an extent. A different legal position does not help either based upon some of my experiences in places like the Netherlands where it is de facto legal. Too many providers assume that hobbyists are too horny or scared to complain.

Which is why there is always a place in my heart for those who play it entirely straight.

...why should providers be any different? Beyond an acceptable little white lie to hide their real identity. Problem is, it usually goes much further than that.

Honesty 1. Lies 0.

B4I4QU RU/18

Thank you

mrfisher i could be wrong but I think your equasion should also factor in the "torque of the pork"

Talk about age, some providers flat out refuse to see hobbyist over a certain age, 55,60 or 65.

Why since it is not the age but the services paid for by the hobbyist that counts.

Well providers?

The term usually conjures an image of a middle-aged woman.  Since women enter their child bearing years in the teens, once can assume that a 20-yr old could be a milf.  I know of a lady that's in her early 20's, with child, that's a dynamite milf.  Matter of fact, she'sgot some great reviews here