that she has an age minimum.  Its usually not an arbitrary number, but rather based on her own experiences with younger customers.  The numbers I most often see on provider websites are 30 and 35 for minimums.   There are other providers, mostly 20-somethings, who have age MAXIMUMS, but every once in awhile I will see a 30 year-old provider advertise that she doesn't see guys under 35.  

 
My advice is, unless you are planning on handing over your ID to a woman you don't know, just tell her you're the age that she wants.  Unless you look 10 years younger than you really are, once she see you, I doubt she would say anything.  This may sound dishonest, but nine times out of ten, I can guarantee you that SHE is not the age she told you, either, so fudging up or down a little is part of the game for everyone in P4P.  Lol

Just lying to her?

Seriously, who can read someone else's mind and reasoning? It is hidden to us unless she says why she has set that limit.  

 
She decides and sets her rules. You really have two choices:

 
* Move on to a provider with different rules;
* Try to see if she will be flexible in her rules and see you.

 
I'd hazard a guess that maturity of mind and behavior underlies a minimum age limit. Arguing to see her despite her rules might belie the maturity of mind she desires... not saying it could not be done, but to succeed I'm guessing it would have to be artfully done.  

Just my humble 0.02

I have no problem meeting anyone's age minimum these days.  But there have been discussions on the boards about general screening parameters, whether it be age, ethnicity, or length x girth. Each provider sets and modifies her own rules, but the feeling is that age requirements are to screen for mature, gentlemanly behavior. If mature, polite emails or phone calls are reassuring, she might relax a 35 yo minimum to 33 or 30 or whatever her bank balance allows.
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Some Asian providers have rules about seeing ONLY Asian clients and some have rules about NOT seeing Asian clients. I think the former requirement is to ensure a language and cultural match (e.g., Chinese - Chinese). The latter is thought to be due to the closeness of some K-town or C-town communities in large cities. A K-girl who lives in Queens (NYC) and works in Manhattan (NYC) doesn't want to risk bumping into a Queens neighbor BCD in Manhattan so she simply says, "No Koreans."  I would only guess that if a K-client convinced a K-hostess that he is from out of town or doesn't risk much of any other friend or family overlap that she might agree to meet him.  
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Contrary to the other opinions, I suggest being more truthful about your age. Many people have an impression of themselves that is not shared by others (e.g., Dunning-Kruger effect). YOU might think you have the maturity of someone much older than you are but what does SHE expect of her 35+ visitors?  You might think you can fool her easily but she might recognize a behavior that is typical of the kind of guy she does NOT want to be with. If you can convince her of your maturity rather than your (fake) age, I think you'll be much better off.
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Good luck!

meaning "No Blacks Allowed." Others don't want to see guys ABOVE a certain age. It's called discrimination. And while we abhor that in every other profession, this service is selling the most intimate activity available. Which gives them the right to discriminate.

one of my favs has a 50 minimum (no problem for me!). I asked her why, and she said she likes the maturity of older guys (she’s mid-50s).  She’s grandfathered a couple guys she’s seen for a long time who’re under 50, but otherwise she holds to it.

Age restrictions are not uncommon in this industry.  

Some women don’t like the immaturity. Some don’t like the youthful stamina. Others don’t like the cougar vibe.

Similar to older guys not wanting to see younger ladies, many older ladies do not want to see younger guys for the same reasons.  Have kids that age.  Feel creepy.  Nothing in common.  Cannot relate.  Clients below a certain age tend to be less responsible and more likely to flake.  Furthermore, older guys are usually more likely to be one and done yet still prefer longer engagements.  They also tend to have more disposable income and are more likely to want companionship vs. getting off as many times as possible in as short of an appointment as possible.

Get a fake ID

Lots of girls fake their age.

Just like Men have their preference so do we.

Whatever her reason is ... its her reason. This may be a business but it's still a very intimate business and providers and hobbyists have the right to see who they want regardless of donation amount. As hobbyists you decide who you want to see and as providers we have the same right and shouldnt be judged for it.

Personally I have an age limit of 30/35 because not all but most men of a younger age usually feel that when they come to see me that its some kind of porno audition and they have something to prove. They think its about one thing and thats all. Now is this true for every guy under 30 ... No, but its been true in my personal experience and I am a GFE provider not PSE. Can i be PSE yes but also if my date is GFE.

Just my 2 cents xoxoxo

She's looking for a well polished, refined gentleman. She wants the date to be an experience and not just a hit and run thing. Personally, from where I see it, it helps me in deciding and it's only a plus.
It seems to be a mature woman thing as who wants be bed down with a guy close to her son's age....creepy, no?

Ladies with age requirements...I think ya better rethink that.

So if all these young guys hear this guy out, then they might decide to leave the confines of their mom's basement. Those that made a few bucks just might want to finally get laid..I'm feeling a boom coming soon ladies....Keep an open mind and think outside the box here, Work with me on this...so huh, you feeling it? C'om now....lol