Guys- having been in the hobby for almost two years, I've observed that most of the ladies offering BBBJ and CIM seem to be a little older, say over 35. Maye this is just due to the subset of reviews I've read and providers I've seen, but the younger ladies don't seem to be as likely to offer those particular services. Has this been others' experience as well? Maybe to attract those clients that might not otherwise seen an older provider? Ladies?
It has been my experience that older providers provide more in general than younger ones. I'm guessing that is because the younger ones are banking on their youth and younger looks, and not dependent on range of service menu or quality of that service.
I have also found fatter ladies will do more than thinner ones and those lacking in the looks department will do more than those that are blessed in the facial features.
It seems the range of activity is often balanced by appearances. Not always, but often.
I also choose ladies who offer BBBJ, and my experience is that this option is not offered to make up for lack of looks or body type or youth - it's just an option that some ladies offer and others don't. For those who don't, it's OK - for those who do, thank you very much!!!
I have also found fatter ladies will do more than thinner ones and those lacking in the looks department will do more than those that are blessed in the facial features.
It seems the range of activity is often balanced by appearances. Not always, but often.
since my return I've been with a half dozen gals, all of whom offer BBBJ. There are very few who offer GFE that doesn't include it though a few in NY get away with GFE no BBBJ. It's not a deal-breaker for me, I just wanna know beforehand so I"m not disappointed. The gals I've seen are all in the 30=40 range.
Ignorant stereotypes and gross generalizations based on one persons experiences.
Of the ladies that I have had the pleasure to spend time with they all offered BBBJ. It was not by accident but by choice.
Four of those ladies were VERY YOUNG considering my fifty years on this planet.
The youngest of them ranged between 18 and 22 years old and even with my respectful three second warning allowed me to finish CIM.
I have found it's more common among the 30+ and the 22-, not as common in between.
In my experience age was not a factor. It was offered by providers with ages ranging from 20 to 45.
I agree it all depends on the provider personal choice, nothing to do with age or looks
This is an interesting conundrum and it's not the first time that I've heard this theory. There might be some truth to it for some, but I don't really believe it's completely valid. And I'll share with you why ...
I'm an older (much) and fatter companion. I freely admit it. And my boundaries are vast. But I sincerely do not believe that it has much to do with my age or weight. I was somewhat slutty when I was younger and height/weight proportionate. And although I wasn't as experienced then, I just adored men (still do) and was pretty much open to a lot of different experimenting.
Now, and my location is Dallas and Chicago, I know quite a few younger ladies from other boards and a few from this one, and I can freely say that there are MANY ladies who are young and slim who also do not have many boundaries.
Men are spoiled in Texas and so it's almost a requirement to be able to do oral sex and swallow and otherwise play with semen. I hope that I'm not being overly graphic but that's just the way that it is.
The reason for my success IS that I tend to just honestly enjoy a man's company but also, frequently I'm able to extrapolate what he might like to try or experiment with. So although I'm not perfect, it's my intent to be an all around vessel for his pleasure.
Unless I'm doing some domme work. Then the parameters change significantly. ![]()
Good topic!
Sincerely,
Elisabeth
P.S. Another situation that I've noticed is since I'm older, my client base is getting MUCH younger. Guys in their 20's and early 30's are telling me that they want to try something different. So that could be some fuel for fodder.
Smarter ladies offer this and get many more appts. Those ladies might be older and wiser but men seek services to satisfy needs not met at home and this is one of the most common unmet needs.
every single one i have seen, and that i have read the reviews on, allows bbbjcim usually spits though and they are usually always in there 20's, or at least they look like they are in there 20's. i loves me asians girls.
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maybe geographics come into play. A majority of girls (in 20's and early 30's) I've seen do BBBJ/CIM but I usually hobby when I'm in Las Vegas and very rarely where I live (San Diego). Most likely girls in LV and LA allow it.
I don't believe there is any correlation between age and willingness to perform bbbjcim. How many ladies has the op seen? He's written a grand total of 2 reviews in 2 years.
have anything to do with it. Ladies of all age both providers and civvies alike seem to be more willing to cim and swallow. I think its the free access to porn for a lot of the younger ones. I hear it all the time that watching porn is where they get most of their instruction.
I favor younger providers, so I'm not that familiar with what those over 30 offer. It has been my experience that better looking girls are a little less likely to offer BBBJ and kissing. Although I enjoy those activities, it is not a total deal-breaker for me. I have consciously weighed the trade-off at times and chosen looks despite a limited menu, with mixed results. I've also found that some of the very best looking girls have no limits at all. Just not as many as I wish.
While they did not all allow cim, only a couple did not offer bbbj. The two that didn't bbbj are friends so I was not concerned about it with them. In general, no bbbj is a deal-breaker for me, so in my research, that is what I look for. If it's not available, I move on. There are more than enough out there who will do bbbj, so why see them if they do not.
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accept I won't work with girls under 21 and some men consider 21 to old but what I find is that young girls who have healthy mouth, meaning no cavities are more apt to do cim than not.