During the affair, I was in my late 20's, and he in his mid 60's.  I was totally smitten with him... the silver hair, the wizened mind.  Maturity can be such a turn on.  

I think of him FONDLY to this day.

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When I was about 20/21 I dated guys with kids older than me. The guy was really nice and treated me like a princess - so that was nice. But did I have the hots for him - no. Did I think he was handsome - yes. He daughter (26) hated me. His ex-wife called me a trollop.His mom thought I was his son's girlfriend, but when she learned the truth had to sit down. Older women used to give us dirty looks. So much fun, I had to end it.

I think someone being twice my age and considering them seriously for a real relationship is probably never going to happen. Mainly because I act like I am 9 most of the time, and he would get sick of me sitting yoga style on the living room floor eating oatmea,l and watching Yo Gabba Gabba and iCarly every morning. (If you have kids, you know these shows very well).

Plus, when I was 21 as cool and sophisticated as I was, I know he wasn't with me for my superb intellect and meaningful conversation. I think it was the fact that I never wore a bra and was firmer than Gov. Arnold's ass (Back in his prime)  LOL

with anyone else i have met up to this point in life, i would say that age 60 and up would be pushing it as far as me still being sexually excited and aroused by a man...however this particular man is a few years beyond that point and still causes that mysterious chemical reaction. perhaps the fact that he has the sex drive and stamina of someone 40 years his junior...SANS any pharmaceutical assistance (and yes, i know this for certain) has something to do with it.

so...32 years.