I had a pay for play session recently where the woman I hired had several ads where her stated age was 38 and 39. But when she showed up she was a woman clearly in her 50's. So i got to wondering.......we check to make sure a guy is legit and not LE and we check as best we can to make sure a women is legit and not LE but it doesnt seem we have any means to check ages. Shouldnt we, especially in this day and age of high tech? I just felt ripped off. Dont get me wrong, she was the same person from her pics and she was nice enough but it is just troubling to spend 400 hundred on a woman that lied to me. In between rounds she was saying she had younger children but i think the younger children she was referring too were her grandkids, in all honesty. Women, why do you do it? Wont that just end up hurting your cash flow in the long run? Gents what are your opinions? Cant we come up with a service that checks for age and maybe picture accuracy as well?

i mean, there are clearly places in provider profiles to indicate age and photo accuracy. My question is this: you said her photos were fine and that she was definitely the same person? that wasnt the case though(you can be the same person and have inaccurate or outdated photos) then do a problem report on her profile (assuming she has one).  

There is never going to be a way to verify our ages, or our photos, it's just not going to happen. But that's why you read reviews and etc., to make sure you're more likely to get what you desire. A lady continuously lying about age and likeness is going to have those comments in her reviews.

I stayed and paid because she has my personal information. Yes, maybe from your perspective it would be best to just leave but i kinda felt she had something over me, if you know what i am saying. She could have made a scene in the hotel too for all i knew and it is scary enough being in this illegal business. Try and look at it from my viewpoint and you might feel differently. There are some providers who are not stable and I didnt want to risk it. I just feel so taken. Why do girls do this? Why cant they just be satisfied how they look and go after the cleintele that like older women? I just dont get it.

I so agree! Some ladies have a reverse issue in that they look 10-15 years younger than their age and it would be such a loss to the lady and gent if the were to to judge her based on her age alone. Authenticating pics on sites that offer that service is a great idea, I also try to attend tons of Meet and Greets when I can to let clients have a taste of who I am in person.

She is lying to her guys. And your reasoning sounds a bit weak defending her. For example, if i ask for a steak at a place and they conceal it and it is really turkey, yeah i might miss out on a great turkey dinner but i wanted steak! I am glad you are honest with your age though. I dont know how common or uncommon that is. Ladies just tell us your real age like Ms. Kole. You want to be told the truth about us right? Shouldnt it go both ways?

That didn't seem to work? Or am I missing something else?

Are you from there or unlucky enough to have booked a gal from there that fits your description?

And good luck with that ID idea for the gals. If they show up and are decades older looking than their hooker age just tell them NO!

While I do agree reviews here are  a starting point to see what a provider's age range is.
But it might not always be accurate if she does not keep her profile here updated.
If you have a question or wonder if indeed the pics are a true representation why not ask some of the guys who have reviewed her in the past?Of course you are getting another guy's opinion on if the lady looked like her pics or if the pics were outdated.There is google images and tineye but guys use those to make sure the pictures are not stolen and are indeed of the provider they are interested in seeing.But it does not mean those programs to check for age or how old the pictures are.

Although Tobi has some accurate and considerable points, a good check list would be does she look exceptional or well for her age and does she have an equal concomitant in the performance department. If she meets the requirement in the aforementioned, then it should be a go.  Granted not everyone is going to be Julia Ann but if their looks belie their age then there is no need to raise suspicion.

I’m not suggesting it’s right to do so. But, I’ve lost count of how many times I've seen someone say that no matter what age stated, he will automatically assume she’s 5, or even 10 yrs older.  

Do you know my friend Moses?

Pics were not accurate that was the problem. I mean I could tell it was the same person but from like 12, 13, 14 years ago? I just wish women could be more honest.

I dont know your situation hotplants. Maybe you have no worries and have nothing to lose. Her having my personal info is very intimidating. Maybe she wont go crazy in a hallway of a hotel but maybe she will black list me? Or contact me at work to get the money I stiffed her on if I just walk out? I dont know your situation so please dont pretend you know mine!!!

But it seems like that's something that reviews should be safeguarding against.  

Would you have scheduled with her if you knew her real age? Probably not. That's why they do it. At a certain point, if they have been doing this....and getting away with it, so to speak, they will continue to do it. Most guys will react like you did. Feel ripped off but go through with the whole process anyway.

If you don't actually want answers---don't ask.  

I have a VERY young look in person.  Face and body.  So does my best friend who is Asian.  In photos, I look somewhat mature but I had a new client recently ask for my ID just to double check that I was of age.  It was kindof ridiculous, but a good problem to have!

-- Modified on 2/9/2015 1:58:07 PM

Look I got black mailed because I wrote what I thought was a positive review of a lady and shared it with her to make sure I got the profile right I sent it to her. Because I gave her an 8/8 she threatened my wife. I no longer share my handle because of that. On this very board I seen a BSC provider try to get a guy banned over a 7/7. Sorry but I get why a married guy, or a guy who's livelihood depends on discretion will not risk it. I am nuke proof but, most guys here aren't. And it isn't the Backpage ladies that go BSC over reviews, it is the ones that look professional. They have more to loose.

You called actions I took for self preservation "silly." Those "silly" things I did or didnt do possibly kept me out of a very bad situation. Yes, I asked for answers NOT to be demeaned. Pretty simple. I guess you didnt get that memo?

I didnt think my posts/reasoning needed any more explanation but obviously one person here doesnt get it. Thank you for sharing your experiences!

If he getz all defensive and can't take it, it ain't on U.  And hoo carez about a BL?  Worse shit haz happend. The dood should go to a Meat & Greek or get some frendz for BC info.  O, and stop wining.

I havent decided whether or not yet to write reviews. I am understanding, from posts like scoed's, that there may be significant downside risk in doing so. I started in this hobby to have fun not to be threatened in any way or feel intimidated by it. I have met the most wonderful ladies and while every experience hasnt been great, I havent come across someone this flagrantly misrepresenting themselves.

...or you would have spotted the signs. I'll never understand you guys who whine about this. I don't think it is that difficult to determine a ladies ballpark age. I've not been surprised yet, and if I was, I would have graciously excused myself.  

but if I wasn't I doubt seriously that I would give up my real information.

I think it's more fair to say that hardly any guy is 'nuke proof'. I'm not 'nuke proof'. If he doesn't want to give his personal info, he doesn't have to. He definitely should not be if its going to make him this paranoid. There are other options. He may have to forego seeing a provider who insists on it. I'm sure he'll live.  

but I wonder how effectively that works, or ever can work. I went on one appointment with someone age "39" who is at least 20 years older, maybe 25 and looks it, and in not one of pages of reviews was this discrepancy mentioned. Well it is now. So I wonder how often there is a gentlemanly tendency to not mention the taboo subject of a lady's age. I consider myself a gentleman but lying and then airbrushing the shit out of pictures to support the lie is where my chivalry ends.

Got it. Then you just got ripped off. False advertising is a blatant rip off. I think , as you stated you're learning , the lesson is if they are advertising they are older, the odds are higher they MIGHT be lying about how old that is...and it's likely higher than they say.

-- Modified on 2/9/2015 12:18:48 PM

And not just once.  Maybe Hawkeye is embellishing somewhat, or even trolling...but make no mistake this happens frequently.

But i have read that there is downside to writing reviews? I hear women will pm or emial you and threaten if it is a grade they do not like? I am just not sure I need that hassle but i did not know you could write a review anonymously like you say with an alias. Will the alias show that I have reviews and that I reviewed this woman? Its seems like there are many crazy women in this business by reading all the stories on here and other boards. I just want to protect myself as best I can from them but I am sure they are not the majority, thank goodness.

You can do a search and come-up with this same scenario, over and over.  

Some of these broads must think we're blind not to see the signs of their shady tactics!

but in all seriousness, it's the guys too chicken to stand up to a "lying cheating ho" and then come on the boards to whine about it that are every bit as much to blame as the ROB's themselves.

It happens all too often that a woman will overstate her age by a decade or more, yet STILL get positive reviews from a couple of dozen guys. Guys that know damn well she is lying, but are too fucking cowardly to say so. This also goes for weight, appearance, etc. Guys either have no standards, are blind, or are just plain chickenshit and don't want to "make waves"

So yes, I do get what you are saying, and for the record I do mainly agree with you.

If the profile says 41-45 and I think she's over 60 will the profile be changed on my say-so? It's not like I saw her ID, and her ad at the time said 39. It's since been changed to 41, I guess to match the TER profile but of course stay at the low end of the range. In the massively airbrushed pictures she looks great for "41." Infuriating.

And I did do a search here. Of YOUR handle. And lo and behold, what do I find, but YOU getting involved in petty ass arguments with SO many members here. Time after time after time. I get you now hotplants. You are a provocateur, a shit starter. That's your gig, your board persona. Your posts are constantly negative and condescending to other posters. Thanks for the advice about searching. Its amazing what one finds. Now go find another poster to start shit with. With your track record of finding them, you wont have any problem.

an asshole just like me for that matter.

I think I have said the EXACT same fucking thing a hundred fucking times on this and several other boards everytime this topic comes up.

If a guy can't stand up to a BSC ROB hooker, don't come whining to the rest of us. Grow a set of balls and out the bitch. Or if you are too big a pussy to do so, STFU.

Hey HP, how am I doing so far??? lol

The fact of the matter is, rewarding bad behavior is contributing to the problem, everytime a guy gives a hooker that has deceived him his hard earned money, he is simply reinforcing to her that she should continue doing what she is doing.

I feel like I've said that before

I see thats what some do here when they are called out for what they really are. ;

Just because she lies to her clients won't make me de-friend her. C'mon! I know you're pissed and I get it, but settle down a bit. And I never defended her. I don't agree with it, as I don't do it, but you specifically asked why a woman would do it and I told you why. Nothing more, nothing less.

"Negative posts?" And you post about gals lying about their ages? Who's the shit stirrer?

You were afraid to walk away, and now you're afraid to write a negative review?  Dude, get your testosterone levels checked.  
Wtf is wrong with you?

I keep losing track of whether I'm a MHB, or an asshole.  

So let me see if I got this right. You come on her and rant against her bad biz practice and you may or may not review her? Oh wait. She has your personal info. My bad. Damn you're sharp.

Anybody that intentionally defrauded that many people would not be a "friend" of mine. Maybe we just have two very different value systems? Seems so but you get to make the call as to who your friends are and I get to make the call for me. Thanks for responding.

New handle cumz on the board an he:
1) Wines.
2) Has gate idea to improve site.
3) Is fulla testo-steroni.
4) Gets advise and don't like it so he wines sum more.
5) Duzn't get it an so he argyoos.
6) Ansers every poste he duzn't like, creatin drama.
Sound familiar?

-- Modified on 2/9/2015 5:29:43 PM

In fact I will go one step further and say, no one should do something if he/she can't live with it becoming known. But he did.  

and write an honest review of a poor experience---because they're afraid of some kind of retaliation? I have no answer for that. Other than---make safer choices. Or grow a pair.  

Who knu? An other peace uv the puzzle!  Don't worry, doll, UR secret iz safe with Uss!

I suppose you've never lied to anyone, ever, about anything? None of your friends lie either, I suppose. Get a grip. She's not "defrauding" anyone.  

But I would be pretty pissed that she lied to me and didn't look anything like her photos if it was really obvious.
But here is the thing, I might doubt myself, and think maybe it was just me, that perhaps she had flattering angles, etc., that hid her age.  I'd hate to be a dick and insult a lady by expressing my disappointment UNLESS I WAS 100% SURE that I was correct that it was her representation that was wrong, and not my perception.

If you like mature women ask them if they smoke, do drugs or drink.
 If they answer say yes then be sure they will look older than 35 years old despite the fact they might have 35 years old for real.