Plenty of guys tell us the wife is deficient as a provider. There are lots of threads about hygiene and what guys do to prepare for a session with a hooker.  So,  let  me  ask  those guys,  do you shower,  shave, brush, floss, gargle, manscape  and take care how you dress and behave for your wife as well as your hooker?  Is it possible that  some  of the  behavior or hygiene  that would be off putting to your ATF was to your wife as well?  One more question : Have  you  bitched at your wife over a $100 pair of shoes or $200 dress before  happily picking up a $100 Victoria's Secret gift card to gladly GIVE to a hooker in addition to her $300 fee for an hour?  Ever wonder how great your wife could  have been with shoes she loved, a dress she coveted, a gift card,  and a shaved, brushed, flossed  polished up husband on his best behavior?  Just asking. Ladies who've been married,  was your husband as clean and polite as you expect of a good client? Did he try as hard to please you?

I'll do all those things. Right now the wife has a cushy life, expensive car, big house and an old fat ass.

Plus there's a plethora of other reasons. I pay for fantasy and for diversity and things she just can't give me. Just like that LV purse and Cartier watch gives her something I never could.

Troll.... after troll.... after troll.....

If your wife would leave you alone after an hour and greet you at the door with a hug and a kiss a lot of men would treat her the same way...

Thanks.  That's what I'm saying.  You want the strange. You want many. It's not the wife's fault.

I have never once eaten a nasty casserole prepared by my hooker's Aunt Edna. I've never her changed her 4 babies shitty diapers. I've never gone to the Safeway at 3AM to buy my hooker tampons and Chunky Munkey Ice Cream. I've never carefully popped that giant zit on her ass and swabbed it with alcohol. Never loaned her asshole kid brother my Mustang and then paid for the repair of tail light, he busted I've never bailed my hooker's big brother Fred out of jail for slapping his wife, and never washed a load of her blood stained panties after making her hot tea and lemon cause she wont get out of bed cause her cramps are horrible this month.

I've done all that and much, much more for my (ex)wife.

Now piss off, you wanker!

Peace, Love, Dope...

I have done everything for my wife that I do when I spend time with a provider. I have always kept myself in good shape, I shave the package, and I always have cologne on.

Let's flip that around. If I have continued to keep myself  maintained and well groomed should I expect the same in return? You better fucking believe that I do. In an effort to save my marriage I have tried easily  a half dozen times. You know what I found out? One person can't turn it around.

Bitching about shoes, or clothes, or getting her hair and nails done would just be stupid. I live by the mantra of whatever makes her happy. Fuck I don't care, get 2 pairs of shoes.

I expect out if any civie relationship exactly what I put into it. It takes the mutual respect of each other and I can't just be one sided.

MM

May I please ask question of you?

Do you only practice hygiene when you get ready to see a provider?

Move up, threats about hygiene is mitigated to a large degree. Been in the hobby close to 10 years and never have come across provider with bad hygiene and if I do, I will leave.

Basically, either you practice hygiene routinely or you don't. That simple.

Wow I'm pretty lucky, I have found her lol

MM

You changed her babies nasty diapers?  Your babies.

Posted By: glowerlord

I have never once eaten a nasty casserole prepared by my hooker's Aunt Edna. I've never her changed her 4 babies shitty diapers. I've never gone to the Safeway at 3AM to buy my hooker tampons and Chunky Munkey Ice Cream. I've never carefully popped that giant zit on her ass and swabbed it with alcohol. Never loaned her asshole kid brother my Mustang and then paid for the repair of tail light, he busted I've never bailed my hooker's big brother Fred out of jail for slapping his wife, and never washed a load of her blood stained panties after making her hot tea and lemon cause she wont get out of bed cause her cramps are horrible this month.

I've done all that and much, much more for my (ex)wife.

Now piss off, you wanker!

Peace, Love, Dope...

I am just letting you know, that I know bwahahahah.

Sorry, London, I love you,  but  you  don't  know  shit. Tell everybody what you  know.

But, I was the fool that married them.  If I ever again decide to be institutionalized (and marriage is an institution), I make sure it's with someone that treats me like gold.

I  fear there is some  truth here.  Think about it if your marriage isn't hopeless yet. Six years after our   divorce, I fucked the  shit out a my ex after  our  daughter's wedding. (her new husband and my girlfriend were looking for us)

Oh honey,  you just didn't marry the right guy...

Damn right I am jealous! I don't want some civie girl taking you away from our little community lol. I don't care if you hobby or not, but I want you on the boards! You got that?