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Advice for someone that comes into money
RepentantHobyist 2204 reads
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My one and only advice that I could give someone that gets a lots of money, in a short period of time like and inheritance, and unexpected windfall from stocks or small business ,  etc.  
Two words;  Golden Rule
 --------------------NEVER REPEAT ------------------------------------------
I’m referring to never have sex with the same woman twice, even if she blew your mind, you will cherish that one time, and will never get disappointed on a repeat visit becasue there will never be one.

Remember there are literally billions of women out there that you havent fucked.
I wish I could have go back in time and just stick  to that rule, I would have a lot of money right now, instead I got carried away with a lot of woman, and ended up regretting those relationships.
Remember like the inverse  Suze Orman says Money first ,  people way last.  

I would lik to hear more advice on this issue, thanks

I'd rather be a regular with a small variety of quality providers than have a different encounter each and every time.

Yeah, there are billions of women out there who we haven't bedded.
What's your point?
It's not possible to bed all of the women in the world.

Posted By: RepentantHobyist
My one and only advice that I could give someone that gets a lots of money, in a short period of time like and inheritance, and unexpected windfall from stocks or small business ,  etc.  
 Two words;  Golden Rule  
  --------------------NEVER REPEAT ------------------------------------------  
 I’m referring to never have sex with the same woman twice, even if she blew your mind, you will cherish that one time, and will never get disappointed on a repeat visit becasue there will never be one.  
   
 Remember there are literally billions of women out there that you havent fucked.  
 I wish I could have go back in time and just stick  to that rule, I would have a lot of money right now, instead I got carried away with a lot of woman, and ended up regretting those relationships.  
 Remember like the inverse  Suze Orman says Money first ,  people way last.  
   
 I would lik to hear more advice on this issue, thanks

I would much rather sick to my 2 top notch regulars then having to deal with the feeling out of a new gal. I have developed a good relationship with these 2 ladies over many visits and things are very comfortable now. They are very good at what they do and manage to still surprise me with new tricks to keep me interested and not lose the feeling of newness all the while knowing what works best for me. They have mentioned I might want to try a lady they know here and there but I still keep going back to them. I believe they appreciate my business loyalty and because of that I always get top notch service. Of corse if you feel the need to go on a bang fest have at it.

If I won the lottery I know one Lady that could stop providing! Lol

It's taken me a long time to find one provider who I really click with....so I beleive in another rule:  If It Ain't Broke, Don't Fix It.  And like Tallman, if I had a lot of money my regular wouldn't have to provide anyone else except me.

I. like many others, have often thought how nice it would be to win the big lottery; and what to do with my winnings. Obviously, after charity, family/friends I would use a significant portion to fund my "hobby."
But that is where you and I would part company. Sure, "banging" a different woman each day sounds appealing - but in reality these ladies are not just "cock receptacles." Every lady I have met is unique in her own way and I do develop a fondness for each- not just because of "hot" they look or how great the sex is with them - and I do desire to see many of them again. For me, a perfect world would consist of an "inner circle" of a few favorites who I would see every week or two. Of course I would continue to see new ladies periodically and then invite them into "my circle" if we have a "connection". Just my 2 cents.

live frugal save it and control yourself xx

Sometimes the Session # 2, 3, 4 are better than Session # 1 because the girl is more comfortable with you and vice-versa.  That has been my personal experience. Yours might be different and that's O.K.    

Your physical, emotional needs and desires are different than other John's, and that's perfectly fine. But there is no one rule, and has nothing to do with amount of money you have or you don't.

 
*Edited for Grammar.

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GaGambler385 reads

because this makes about as much sense as telling other hookers not to "give it away, even for your own enjoyment"

To the OP, I will fuck who I want, when I want, as many or few times as her and I decide to.

WTF is it with these fucktards who think their way is the only way? Some women I fuck one time and never look back, other women I fuck for years. What's wrong with a little balance in your life? sheesh.

And that's exactly what I will do if tomorrow I have 6 figure (disposable money) to fuck.  

If your big head and little head says go for the same girl, go for it... If your big head and little head says NEXT...well...NEXT..

Lots of lezzies in this biz, Curly!  I have probably fucked several without knowing it.  Still, I wouldn't fuck Suze Orman with your dick!

I am sure lesbians fuck for money. But fucking someone for free is another ball game.  

FWIW, I wouldn't fuck Suze Orman either. She is just annoying as hell...

This is just a question would a true lesbian have sex with a man?

I've yet to see "I blew millions on escorts." Maybe it's just you. In most cases people buy real estate, 200k vehicles,  take extended vacations to other continents, give a cut to friends and family etc. Bottom line, if you can't afford to hobby...don't! If your only goal in life is to bang as many women as possible, that's a MENTAL problem, not a money problem. There are hundreds of guys here who can see the same providers without getting attached, because they have their head on straight. If you can't do that, don't blame that on money. Money has nothing to do with it.  

 
I agree with Natasha about being more pissed if a mate was blowing MY money on hookers, vs. just him putting his d(ck in one. The way I see it...if I was no longer fkin him, it would mean I was no longer "interested in fkin him," and we would soon be over with. It is one thing if a guy makes all the money and the wife does not work, but if I am busting my ass 50 hours a week and find out my Botox money went to his bs, it would certainly be an issue.

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Whoa I can’t believe all the nay Sayers BELIEVE ME I write this because of painful personal experience, if your with a provider more than once you’ll get attached and thrust me it’s a matter of time you will start losing a lot of money if you get attached, SO think with your big head please.
For me I lost money on gifts and cars (bought in full) so getting attached is for inexperience dummies. You have to be shallow and smart to not lose money

if your with a provider more than once you’ll get attached and thrust me it’s a matter  
You are a fucktard.. I have fucked women 10-15-20 times over span of 2-3-4 yrs, and still have no attachment issues. The only time I PM them or text them is when I want to fuck them.

I am not making a commentary on whether one should get attached in P4P situation or not. Its something too personal a issue for me to talk about in general terms, but to assume that just because you see a hooker 10-15-20 times, you get attached to her, is as stupid as it gets...

Please tell me that you ain't from Ohio.. Please say it ain't so :D

GaGambler401 reads

Your advice, while well intentioned is like an alcoholic preaching that EVERYONE should not even have a single drink because YOU can't handle your booze.

Believe it or not, some of us can actually see a hooker more than once without buying her a house or a condo. You really need to substiute the word "I" in place of the word "you" when giving this "advice". Just because you have some compulsion to give away all your money to every hooker that smiles at you and fucks you like she means it doesn't mean all the rest of us do.

Getting attached is not for inexperienced dummies, giving her all your love and all your money is for dummies, inexperienced or otherwise.

You do realize that lavish gifts are not going to buy your way into any woman's heart, quite the contrary, it makes most "nice" women a bit uncomfortable, and brings out the worst in the gold diggers. You have no one to blame but yourself

Posted By: RepentantHobyist
Whoa I can’t believe all the nay Sayers BELIEVE ME I write this because of painful personal experience, if your with a provider more than once you’ll get attached and thrust me it’s a matter of time you will start losing a lot of money if you get attached, SO think with your big head please.  
 For me I lost money on gifts and cars (bought in full) so getting attached is for inexperience dummies. You have to be shallow and smart to not lose money.  
 
Really???? No offense but it sounds like you are a little easily swindled and can't keep things compartmentalized. I've seen the same 2 reg's now for years one for 6 and the other for 3 and have never had the inclination to buy cars or pay there bills etc. Thats what I pay them for so they can do their own banking. That's not to say I haven't bought them gifts from time to time as more of a thank you for just being the great ladies they are and the wonderful service they've always provided. Always a small thoughtful gift, not a big extravagant thing. Remember this is still a business relationship!!!!!

GaGambler384 reads

Not you of course, but the OP.

Why else would someone be buying hookers cars and other lavish gifts and then be crying about it on a public board? It sounds like he is desperately trying to get these women to "like him" and they eventually peg him as a stalker and run away from him as fast as their new car will carry them. lol

Sure hope you didn't buy this one a house  LOL

Looks like the OP is standing in the doorway to greet his honey

GaGambler444 reads

or more accurately "her" house, which will be nothing more that "fat broad shit" in a matter of hours. lol

It's a shame your experiences were so bad and have left you so twisted and cynical. That must be a shitty way to see the world every day when you wake up. You are definitely not in the norm. But,,, it is your life to live, your body to use and your money to spend, do what you must.

Your advice would never bring real satisfaction nor comfort to most people, either men or women. Frankly, if followed to the letter, would likely backfire, even leading to depression, addiction, madness or suicide. Maybe even worse:  to Scientology.

I wish you the best.

PEACE.LOVE.DOPE.  :)

GaGambler357 reads

but that was funny as hell, no matter what uptight asshole is reading it. rofl

and I am sure that you know when I say you are a "real fucking dick" you know I mean it in the nicest possible way. lol

PEACE, LOVE and DOPE right back at you!!!

But don't tell Tom Cruise or John Travolta.

It's called "Dick I Am!" It will be a best seller.

You know Gambler, in past lives, I would pepper my writing with emoticons, parenthesized acronyms (j/k) , and other web board appropriate low-brow literary devices to help guide the more sensitive gentle reader  past the idea that I was intending a personal attack on them or their friends and into the ides that I was just writing shit that was (hopefully) different, maybe funny, and slightly askew, but nonetheless, all in good fuckboard fun!

That do no good for the dull and the haters. So now, in this life, I just write it and see what sticks to the wall.

GLAD YOU GOT A CHUCKLE OUT OF IT!  My work here is done. LOL!

GaGambler401 reads

No, that's a fucking lie. Can you imagine me getting my feelings hurt over what someone said to me on a fuck board??? rofl

You are correct, no matter how hard you try someone is going to take this shit seriously, so why even bother. I think it's hilarious that the likes of Taylor really thinks she's being attacked, I know she is too smart to use the "search message" tab as she already knows everything about everything, but she would be shocked to read some of our post from a few years back.

Posted By: glowerlord
Maybe even worse:  to Scientology.
ROFLMAO!!!!!

Geesh!  When will people stop projecting their own preferences and history on the rest of us?  Why not add that it's gay to like greek, even with a woman.  Or that DATO is gross.  Or that only spinners will do. And on and on.
There IS not single way to play this game.  I don't repeat often but after a few years of this I know there will always be a select few I will see over and over again, even if it's only once a year.  I don't give them anything but my best performance in every way, and a full envelope.
Works for me and I don't think they mind a bit.

Never repeat?  To assume that fits for everyone is to assume (1) everyone is after the same things that you are, with the same values, and (2) every lady in the world is ONLY after your money.

There is nothing that says you must tell a lady how much you are worth just because you see her more than once.  I think Nicky has it about right, as he usually does:  if you want to see a lady on a repeat basis, do so.  Treat her with some respect, enjoy the date, and don't fell you owe her anything after you leave--just as she owes you nothing.

How much money you do or don't have is dependent (among other things) on HOW MANY escorts you visit, but not really a function of how often you see the same ones.

This board is full of negative energy every damn day!

The issue of getting attached to females is more of a self control issue than it is a financial one.  I would venture to guess that guys who easily get attached would not be able to stop seeing a particular lady after one session.  Especially after a couple of sub par sessions while remembering a particularly good meeting.  

Now I do think getting overly attached is a good way to spoil a good business relationship.  I think better advice would be to not get overly attached no mater if you see a lady once or many, many times.

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