On a societal and private level escorts provide a valuable social service.  I have been a user of provider services for 30-years (before there was internet).  I have become friends with several providers over the years.  I have learned how difficult their job can be and how they can be abused by hobbyists.  Safety is always a foremost concern.  Dignity and Respect are important issues for escorts too.  Their service is personal and valuable and they should be compensated appropriately. Escorts are the important members of our community.  And as a community we all have a responsibility to maintain a safe, dignified and respectful environment for escorts.

Should they hire mongers like you to protect them from the dregs out here?

Or are you referring to all of the boards that discuss hookers and johns?

And what are you talking about a "valuable social service"?  I just stopped in to the social service organization next door to me to see if they offer BBBJCIMNQNS....The had no clue what I was referring to.  Is this local to Portland?  

You're correct we should treat the ladies with respect and most of us do.

Your thread sounds like you are running for president of the professional hobbyist association, but I think they already have one lol

What do you mean that providers "can be abused by hobbyists." Do you mean literally, physically? Or did you mean by posts on this board?

They you say "they should be compensated appropriately." Are you saying they aren't now? Your post is very vague and hard to determine what your point is exactly.

after you beat the shit out of her...PAY HER.

I'm sure most of the guys also agree. Even though some of them do "poke fun at" or make jabs at some of the ladies now and then I think at the end of the day everyone realizes that we are a community and we need each other to keep this going. We share something unique, which the "civilian world" probably doesn't comprehend. In Biological terms we are like lichen and moss = "mutualism" one can not survive without the other. So to keep this going we do need to have mutual respect in person; on the boards - well, a little levity and debate keeps things lively!

he's in the hunt for some delicate lovely on the boards. That is all preliminary to initial contact. You watch and learn, he will post a review in a few weeks. I know that code book, hell, I'm on the editing committee.

In Portland that the OP is referring to?

Nothing like that here in ChiTown...most of the gals that work in social service are older than the typical hookers here on TER.  At least those that are over 45 in TER years.  Makes them near 60...and give that GILF fantasy for the guys seeking this.

Maybe they're looking to franchise the network?  Get some hotties and younger workers that offer BBBJCIM?  And they'll check in on those who need assistance?

but Mathew is starting early with his grass roots campaign, and fund raising efforts. I got a couple of phone calls form his statup campaign. CPA had my vote last time. I am ready for chage, but I would like to hear what else he has to say first.

Let alone having the ObamaCare covering these needs.

I got that call too...He didn't realize who he was calling  

I think he may be promising to send some new hookers to the Islands though.  Should be a good deal for you.  Watch for it  LOL

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but Mathew is starting early with his grass roots campaign, and fund raising efforts. I got a couple of phone calls form his statup campaign. CPA had my vote last time. I am ready for chage, but I would like to hear what else he has to say first.

Well said. I'm sure all of the ladies were happy to read your post. Have some respect people. He's obviously an older gent. Ever heard of respect your elders? Why do so many here bash any one who has something nice to say??

then I will form my opinion. Not saying Im ready to throw you out, but I am open to other ideas.
Im sure things will get exciting as election season gets into the final stretch and Im looking forward to the town hall meetings and actual debates. But its way to early now to make any decisions or even form an opinion.

With all the hookers?

If not...can you ask around and get back to me on that?

Some guys...and gals were just too busy to read them.

is there yet. CPA's tenure has been well thought out and has covered many areas of the social and economic genres. I think we are looking at a 2 term president for sure, the new guy just has not proven anything to me yet.

The Matthew speech was basic and what everyone wants to hear, you know be nice to the ladies, we love the ladies, pillars of society that keep marriages together and happy. Personally I need to hear more, I'm not sold just yet.




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We providers do supply a important service. Whether it be personal or social that is determened by the individual. And yes we all deserve to be treated with respect.
What we do provides phyical and mental stimulation. So we do end up providing a social service for some.For example: if a Client  of mine is too hard on themselves about various things, I will tell them and point out things I know about that individual that he should be proud of because I want my people to truely happy before they leave. Not just phyically

Really people you are being hard on Mathew. He had an opinion and shared it. Some agree some disagree. There was no reason to pick at him

My mother always said providers benefit society by providing a sexual outlet to gentleman that have no other sexual outlets in life. Her feeling was that fewer sexual assaults would be committed by these gentleman on local women since the providers are servicing their needs.

He buys an hour...expects two hours since he gets real close...and then can't finish.

Still doesn't want to quit...you keep on jerking him off...gets real close...still can't finish.

This can go on for hours.

And the reason for his diatribe.

Maybe he needs to join cubbie man...get a hot nurse to massage his prostate.  Tbat may do the trick (pun intended).

just randomly rape women instead. Thank god providers are taking the would-be rapists off our hands.

Of all the idiotic things to say...lol...

UDO. Illustrating once again that the fruit does not fall far from the tree.

Hope it was great...really!

Did you bring your new bride to the States?

Does she wear a female condom?  You're not going BBFS on her...are you?  God I hope not.  Does she know that you were fucking Tijuana hookers bareback?

Do you know where this social workers center is that the OP is talking about?   Is your wife there seeking help?  Is she a hooker there?

Almost posted at the same time.

See...great minds do think alike.

How you doing?

please tell us something that we dont already know..

Pleasure and pain are experienced very differently by everyone. It is absolutely impossible (IMO) to do this job without tolerating what some would consider painful/uncomfortable/gross. Except in severe circumstances, the show must go on. Some would probably look upon that as abuse, I guess. And, not all clients are nice. I had some VERY awful experiences with an agency back in the day, and I'd say that probably all women in this line of work have had something similar happen to them at some point, agency or no.

Whether or not we are compensated appropriately is a matter up to interpretation. Ask any civvie what her 'price' is and she'd probably say several mil, lol. I think his point is that it's NOT all fun and games, and can't be. And if you take away the fun/games aspect of it, it's not so pleasant, can be indignifying, and also very dangerous. There is really no fair price for that, morally speaking (not talking in terms of market/economics).

I wanted him to clarify exactly what he was saying. To me it came off as "we shouldn't drown innocent puppy dogs." We'll, not shit Mr OP. thanks for sucking up to the ladies and trashing the guys. Those posts are worthless. As I just tried to explain to Patricia, If a women addressed the female community and said "hey ladies, we all need to treat the gents with respect. They pay our freight." Wouldn't u be like "ummm,, no shit honey, what's your point? Does it really need to be said? Do we really need to say we should knock down old ladies, steal candy from children? It was a pointless and infantile post. I respect you and every lady in this biz. I have close friends who do this work. I don't need a condescending jackass to lecture me or anybody here about the importance of your satefy. I teach it to ladies I mentor almost every day. That's all I am saying tg.

Works every time!

Even Lina will tell you she didn't invent that line.  Where ya been, dood?

Nothing like a nice random rape to take the edge off...

I don't reply to his posts, so I'm glad you posted here. Would you do me the favor of explaining to him that rape is a crime of violence and power, not of sex... and that  a rapist is never just a guy who isn't getting enough, he's also a guy who has serious mental problems.

But I think my effort would be about useful as trying to explain nuclear fission to a house cat.

I applaud your willingness to express an unpopular point of view and have to say I honestly feel the same. The ladies here do in fact provide a very needed and appreciated service and are not here just to fulfill the hobby wishes of random rich guys. I can tell you with absolute certainty that my provider has helped my marriage rather then hurt it.  It took me a while to ease into this new experience but once I did my home life has gotten much better with much less resentment.

He never said his age. Are you guessing because he said he has been hobbying for 30 years?
A lot of us in our 50s have been hobbying for 30 years! Pre TER. Pre internet. Pre it being called a hobby!

And neither do most of my friends in the biz. We sometimes receive inquiries from men in their 30's but its not the majority. Most guys in their 20's don't have the $$$ for it and can get it w/o paying lol. If you've been in the hobby so very long, why only have 5 reviews? I bet he's much older than 50!