but in my mind, each time I am with a man, he is the only one that exists in my mind,  during our time together.   I am fully into him during our interlude.

-- Modified on 9/24/2012 5:19:15 PM

a whole lot more...

than my SO would find acceptable both civvie and P4P

I stopped counting when I went "full-time" as a provider. I figured it was irrelevant at that point.

At my age,

it's hard to remember.
Actually, never tried to add them all up.
I know marriage, made the numbers a lot lower than they would of been. ( a good thing, i love my kids )

Civvie life, but lost count when I started traveling more. Lord knows now... I had always tried to keep my circle small professionally, but over the years even a small circle morphs over time, so the numbers get out of my reach. I will one day try to sit down and count them all. I think it will be a good mental exercise.

...then as my sluttiness became more and more pronounced trying to remember every name and incident just made my brain hurt, lol. then i married a man who adored my slutty nature and took full advantage of it...at this point i don't even try to guess, i am just grateful to be a good, old-fashioned, SAFE slut with a lot of great experiences.

when I need to like when they ask at an HIV test. I give them my best estimate and sometimes round down. I know for sure how many and who for the past 6-8 months out for health purposes. After that window, unless I am currently seeing them, or if the sex was unforgetable, then they kind of fizzle out. Most important to me is being safe always, having fun, and being the best slut I can be! The smiles outweigh the numbers any day!

.....of 14 (lol .... 1/2 I really really really really really regret) but after providing lol hell no.

2 in my civie life. One of those really did not involve actual intercourse but close enough that I count it as "sex". The other was a drunken one night stand . Did not orgasm with either one.
5 different providers. Only two of those had actually made me orgasm.
I know I am an anomaly but you asked........
I'm 45, about 160 lbs., and just extremly shy in case anyone thinks its due to my physical apperance.

-- Modified on 9/25/2012 4:38:35 AM

Gotta be well over 300 partners.  Maybe 500...who knows?

When I first moved to NYC, I was banging two or three different girls a week, with most girls lasting no more than a month.