I often post on TER when visiting a city.  I always get very nice responses and almost always end of meeting someone and having a great time.  I try to respond back to everyone that responds favorably to me.  Often the fee is too much for me, and I am honest about that. Ladies would you prefer that I say my general donation ability in the original post?  But I do not want to encourage a barrage of responses telling me I am a cheap bastard!