or really any person's place? i am just wondering because last week a provider gave me a bewildered look when i slipped my shoes off at the door and walked into her place, "um why are you barefoot?....." is this an uncommon practice? i've been doing this ever since i was a kid, same with many people i know. i do it no matter how "clean" my shoes are or how nice the person's carpet or floor is. it is a sign of respect when entering one's sanctuary and it prevents tracking in germs/dirt from the outside. it is also a subtle way of showing you are not a threat and that you have good intentions by making yourself comfortable and even somewhat vulnerable, actually.
or really any person's place? i am just wondering because last week a provider gave me a bewildered look when i slipped my shoes off at the door and walked into her place, "um why are you barefoot?....." is this an uncommon practice? i've been doing this ever since i was a kid, same with many people i know. i do it no matter how "clean" my shoes are or how nice the person's carpet or floor is. it is a sign of respect when entering one's sanctuary and it prevents tracking in germs/dirt from the outside. it is also a subtle way of showing you are not a threat and that you have good intentions by making yourself comfortable and even somewhat vulnerable, actually.
Korean/American, in fact, though not a K-girl. And she could care less if I wear shoes into her place. Same for everyone else I see. Despite my many faults, I never track dirt all over anyone's carpet.
It's almost always the pure breeds who are more connected to their roots, for obvious reasons. Even among pure asians, it's clearly divided into those who are "white washed" versus those who look like they just arrived here yesterday. These two types of asians (even tho they look the same) don't usually hang out together all that frequently due to culture shock, primary language they use, and other subtle differences.
As for the half mutts, in many cases they can't speak their asian language fluently. This affects their ability to truly connect with their asian roots. Almost all my half-asian friends have Caucasian fathers. The asian mother tends to go along with the cultural stuff of the father. Well, maybe a little bit of both here and there for compromise.
What I find interesting though is when I introduce my half white/half asian friend to my white friends, they always refer to the mutt as the 'asian guy' even though he's half German too. Somehow they forget about the German part.
Does this mean white folks think that Germans are irrelevant compared to Asians? LO
I guess it can't hurt to take em off and error on the safe side of being polite and respectful, But then their incalls are not where they reside, it's where they work So it may not matter all that much?
Any K girls or asian girls with similar practices wanna chime in preferences?
However, I feel the OP is thinking too much about it. My shoes cum off soon as I sense that sex is imminent. It has nothing to do with being asian, trying to be clean, or polite. It has everything to do with the shoe getting in the way of sex. lmao
When women take their shoes off.. It's a sexy state... It may seem like no big deal... But she has already acknlowaged you are a clean guy, with a clean place by simply taking their shoes off, and walking around. That basically means she would fuck you.. Play your cards right... Those type of things are what women call "signals"
You're going to swap bodily fluids with a hooker and you're worried about "germs" from the bottom of your shoes getting on her carpet?
yes, because i knowingly pay and volunteer to drop bodily fluids with a "hooker". that doesn't mean i should disrespect her by bringing in phlegm, spit, oil, feces, chemicals, pesticides, and who knows what else people track in by walking on the street.
If you must, bring a can of Lysol to your next session, spray the bottom of your Crocs on her door step and fk the broad already, ok Mr. Germ-a-fkking-phobe??????
the shoes have to go quick... just for comfort. But the SOCKS! They must go soon after, and before anything else. Nothing less attractive and less manly than a dude in socks alone.
Most people, most often, remove shoes, first one, then the other, and sometimes they walk around their living room or bedroom in their socks. Eventually they remove them, too. When going from shod to barefoot, they usually follow the same pattern of taking off their shoes and then their socks.
Going into a session, I remove my right shoe, then my right sock. Then my left shoe and immediately my left sock. This is the most graceful way to avoid the thing of walking around in your socks in front of the lady. Shod or barefoot seems cool to me; socks seem like something I'd expect my country cousin to do if he ever got laid.
It's actually not carpet (marble)...I guess maybe a sign of politeness nevertheless nothing wrong if it doesn't happen.. I guess in nowadays.. Politeness can be measured in additional ways..
...I'm sure there are those that do it whatever their reason but I've lived all over the U.S. and never done it nor been asked to so Yes I would say it is an uncommon practice.
I do remove my shoes in the in call when I'm going to the shower and don't put them back on until dressing to leave. Yeah, I know kind of obvious but well there it is.
When I'm at an incall at a hotel, it's not gonna stay on long so I just talk with the girl and wait til I gotta jump in the shower. When I'm at a friend's place, I take my shoes off only when the owner takes theirs off too. At a provider's place, I abide by her rules same. If she takes em off, then I take em off. If not, shoes stay on. Well, at least til cloths come off.
When I'm at MY place though, it's different. I always take my shoes off. I don't want outside dirty shit getting on my floor. I keep my floors clean enough that I don't worry about getting outside dog shit and grass on my cloths when I lay down. When others visit my place, especially contractors, I give them a lot of shit if they don't take their shoes off.
I don't feel like vacuuming and mopping my floors every time these folks fuck up my floor. Some people claim they need to keep em on for their job. I tell them "my place, fucking take them off or I hire someone else who will". (I actually said just that few years ago)
It's very offensive to walk around with shoes on in an asian man's home. I might not pull out my gun but I'll definitely give the "WTF DUDE? Are you privileged?" look and kick em out if they don't get the hint.
(Probably because of the heavy Asian influence here). A porch at a local party often looks like the picture below. Of course you will also notice what we use as "shoes" here. It's also common practice for some folks to leave the party early and "trade up."
- good girl takes her hills off when she goes to bed - bad girl put them on
as at my place - please off ... everything has to be off - then robe would be offered if I visit his place - hotel or residence ..I always have bedroom hills for change ..
As soon as I'm inside my house, my boots come off. In my entry way are socks for people to put on after they take off their shoes or boots. A sign there say please take off your shoes.
I wouldnt have thought anything of it if a gentleman came to see me and did this. I take my shoes off at the door on an Outcall to someones home if I see shoes by the door or if they have hard wood floors, cause im always in heels and not trying to accidentally leave a mark (dont know why im so paranoid about that...)
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It's also common practice for some folks to leave the party early and "trade up." 