Was wondering what should be an acceptable time frame to get a response about a date. I understand that a first date requires some screening etc so that might take a little longer. But a what point do you follow up? Just curious because it seems that it takes longer and longer to hear back & sometime not at all. Would love to know what others think.

If I am interested I send an inquiry with my info -  if I hear back that's fine and if not that's fine - I don't fixate on any one particular "date" -   if she is interested based on the information I've supplied she will let me know - meanwhile lotsa pretty fish in the sea.....

Of course many girls will get back to you quicker than that, but it's based on their sched that day.  

I try to set the date in the morning, three days prior to the evening I'm hoping to visit her.  So 90 hours of "anticipation" time. Don't expect her reply right away, but if I don't hear from her by late afternoon the next day--about 30 hours after the first email--I contact her a second time. Then, if there's nothing in my inbox when I wake up on the third day, I send a "doesn't look like it's going to happen" message. And...play it from there.

If you would be a member of a verification service you would usually get a quick and expedient answer. If you are just giving references along with email, then you would be waiting a little longer because the provider needs to hear from the verifying provider.  Thus the time can vary from as little as maybe 20 minutes to three days or more. That is just one reason it pays to be a member of a verification service in addition to having reviews here or on other boards.

My policy is ,Three days MAXIMUM.
THEN MORE ON TO THE NEXT PERSON.

two to three days, you will not hear back at all.  

I absolutely refuse to fill out any of those insipid screening forms as well. As he just said "I have never filled out a website form, and I never will"

Aside from that i do actually agree with what Jack said.

I rarely book more than a few hours in advance, but P411 makes that a breeze in most cases.

If I contact a lady in the morning for a same day appointment and haven't heard back in an hour or so, I usually move on to someone else, If I hear back from the first lady hours later or even the next day, no biggie, most likely I will still book with her. Just because I see someone on Monday doesn't mean I won't be horny again on Tuesday. lol

I also rarely contact a lady more than once without a response, if it's someone I really want to see, I may reach out again after about 24 hours, but no way am I sending three unanswered emails. As a very wise man said "I will beg for pussy, and I will pay for pussy, but I will not beg to pay for pussy"

Aren't you that "very wise man"?

It seems to be part of my recent pattern that I don't get any responses from anyone the first time I contact. It takes at least two emails or calls from me to get a response. Maybe the word has gotten out.

Unless, of course, you simply say "hello"  or "are you available " at 2am, then never.  

I would have to go back to fucking civvies if that were the case, as I refuse to have to jump through hoops to pay a woman several hundred dollars for an hour or so of her time.

Of course, I barely notice if a lady takes her time in getting back to me, if it takes her a week to get back to me, no biggy, I have most likely already seen two or three women during that time, so nothing lost from my perspective. When she finally does get back to me, chances are I will still be interested, but I am not about to simply sit around with my dick in my hand waiting for one single hooker that may or may not ever call me back. That kind of defeats the purpose of what we do, don't you think?

I never fill out forms either. Ever. But the OP was possibly wondering why he may not hear back from a provider and not following her preferred contact method of filling out her form is one of the possible reasons, is it not?

The first couple were written ten years ago, so he's hardly a noob.

I probably would have skipped over you suggesting he "follow their rules" by filling out the form, but you put it first on your list, so I felt obligated to chime in about those insipid forms. Your advice was correct though. As usual I might add, but don't go getting a swelled head over it. lol

than CPA's! LOL.

I would say acceptable time to wait for a response is 24-48hr.If you do not hear back send another email inquiring if she received your request sometimes emails do go into spam or don't go through.
Sometimes ladies take breaks,on vacation,unavailable,etc it would be nice to have an automated response that states this but sometimes that is not the case.

Thank you for asking

In my opinion, 24 hours at max.  Keep in mind your initial email or her response may have gotten stuck in Spam Folder

Ya know, they have a life too. Last one, I sent request Saturday morning and received response Monday morning. If I had not heard from her, would have sent a quick, just following up on a request sent XX days again, thanks! email. If nothing heard on follow up, move on...