I will be traveling back to an area that does not have alot of ladies available.

Last year I thought we were all set for our date, but at the appointed time, I was stood up with no explaination.  I'd later sent an email expressing that I hoped the lady was ok, since we didn't meet.  I never got a response.

I stumbled across her new ad, as she has changed names since last year, and the reviews continue to be outstanding, as are her photos.

Should I try again with her?

TIA,

RocketMan

but obviously not a rocket scientist, are you?

you were stood up once, no explanation.  Now you see she had to change her name.  You are a glutton for punishment, aren't you?

I am not someone to give second chances but if you think you will regret not seeing her, then by all means go for it.

Maybe PM the other reviewers and see if they have had any issues. Also be prepared for disappointment just in case.

No explanation, no apology? Dude, no matter how great you might have thought she would be, is she worth risking any real money on now that you have a glimpse of her real character? Pussy is the second most commodity on the planet; the first is dirt. Dirt is free, pussy is not. Does that help you?

Unless you like to reward women who demonstrate total lack of professionalism as well as common courtesy.

 Don't let yourself be a goddamn doormat by continuing to pursue a hooker who doesn't have the consideration of making a 30 second telephone call informing of her unexpected unavailability.

 

 

I wouldn't. She didn't even explain why she NCNSed you. Then she changed her name, sounds like a flake. There has to be other ladies in the area that are attractive and have good reviews. Give one of them a try. Or take your chances, maybe she'll show up, Maybe not. But my time is worth to much to waist on a maybe that didn't even have the courtesy call or explain why she never showed. But that's me. It's your call, but I wouldn't.

Based on what you are stating, no... If she had emailed you or had any respect for your time to bother calling you or telling you what happened or even apologizing, then maybe...

but if she couldn't even be bothered to do any of the above, why does she deserve another chance? also if she could care less about your time or giving you any respect, how do you think she will treat you in your session?

That's just my 2 cents

I had an NCNS before. After 3 months, I tried again and she was on time. It was a terrific session and have repeated 3X since then.

There could be several reasons for it - maybe she had to lay low, because of LE or family ?  Could be the reason you're not gettin answers.  I've known 1 lady whose agency got busted and they had to lay low, and then she changed her name to another name.  All her good TER review was in her former name.

Another lady had to go to court to post bail. When she got busted, I saw her BP ad with another name. She stopped using her old name, and she also got a new phone number.  

These are things they will not share with you since they don't really know you. So her 'name change' could be due to a bust and she had to hurry and change identity.  Or something else that prompted her to change her identity.

your hopes up.  Pretty good chance if a reg calls her or she just isn't in the mood you will have the same experience as before.   NCNS is bad enough , but not responding to your email gives you a good indication as to her chartacter.  But hell , if she is the only game in town whacha gonna do?

Whatever her excuse was, is no matter. Everyday I deal with people who make excuses for not doing what they're supposed to. I'm not interested in their excuses, nor are the people I have to answer to in my life, interested in my excuses. People don't want to hear empty rhetoric, they only want to know how you plan to rectify the situation. She did nothing - treated you as irrelevant and not worth her time.

And you plan to reward her for this by giving her the money you could be giving someone else who might actually give a fuck about getting your business?

Check your temperature.

and a bitch will always be just an arrogant inconsiderate bitch.

HELL NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Was that too harsh? LOL

NCNS is unforgivable.

but maybe not unforgivable.  I had a NCNS one a meeting that was set up a week in advance.  She just simply stopped communicating the day before so I felt the NCNS coming the day before.  

I tried contacting her several times over the next few months without success when out of the blue one day she sends an email explaining how life had been kicking her ass and it has taken some time to get family and job situation straight.

We set up a new date and time, she tells me she will make it up to me, she shows up as planned, and it was excellent to say the least.  

All I am saying is give her the benefit of the doubt...  shit happens.

Now with that said, she does it again, just move on.

My regullar NCNS'd me about a year ago. She called me afterward and said she had some family issues that popped up at the last minte. We scheduled another appointment, had a great session, and that one time was never mentioned.

RM,
Where are her reviews?  TER?  A lot of other sites are not so reliable...  with no enforcement against self reviews & such.  If the reviews are from a reliable source, PM the last couple of reviewers & ask if the picts are real & the provider reliable.  Especially find out if she's a "first one to arrive gets the girl" operation...  the rest she does not pick up the phone.
The pictures might not be her.  Even more likely in a small market.
Changing her name...  can also indicate trying to ditch a bad reputation for scams, upsells, NCNS...  

This is a risky proposition in terms of actually getting to see her.  If you have a small window of opportunity, I'd go with a TER well reviewed lady.  
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There is a difference here between your story and the OP. That difference is she had enough respect to contact you and explain herself. In the OP she did not. NCNS is not unforgivable but not apologizing and explaining it, that's different. Especially sense he emailed her to give her that chance afterwards. It is about respect and that lady showed none. I have also seen a provider after a NCNS but she called me the next day and explained she flushed her phone and didn't have my number to give me the second call then apologized. We worked it out and we are now real life friends and I see her professionally as well. But she contacted me to explain and that is a huge difference.

Best answer is depends!

There are circumstances beyond our control.

Could be she will call.  Mine was months later.  All I am saying is I choose to fall on the "benefit of the doubt" rather than immeidate "condemnation"   side of the interaction.

Completely IMHO

In general, I wouldn't give her a second chance without any previous response from her.

That said, if the pickings there are really so slim as to have no decent options, then you could try, knowing that you risk a second NCNS.  If you try to book her again, it is up to you whether or not you mention the NCNS. There are possible plueses and minuses both ways.