Just a "write what I feel off the top of my head" type of post... =)

I don't profess to be Doctor Daty, I can only take credit for my effort and willingness and enthusiasm.

I had two very different DATY experiences in the past week.

One was with a PSE (A-list PSE), I dined for 25 minutes while she writhed.  Wow, I stayed hard throughout the 25 mintues just from the vocal feedback I was getting.

The other experience was with a GFE who was much less vocal, she (supposedly) came in 5 minutes.  But, I didn't see any tell tale toe curls or blush faces or anything.  Her clit wasn't even hard (not that I could tell, anyway)

Can women really come in under 5 minutes???

Absolutely some women can come in less than 5 minutes.  Was your GFE faking?  That's a different topic which has been done to death.  

As for the lengthy DATY you describe, I asked about that on the boards a couple of months ago, and a couple of providers told me kindly but firmly that if it's going on that long it's time to move on.  Since then I've come to believe that its a YMMV deal from the woman's perspective.  I know a couple of providers who truly seem to love extended DATY, and may even have multiples in the process. But I also believe that for most women 5-10 minutes is enough time to hit the O or move on.  

PS The gushers (eg Anneke) are the best.  They leave little doubt

Women often need more time to come, as is well known....  there needs to be a sensory build-up, with some flirtations, an attraction, some kissing, fondling....  When the build-up has occurred, and we are so hot and ready!, then yes, 5 mins of oral will often, and very likely, take us away.  But if I walked in the door and you immediately started oral, then no, would take more time, and maybe much more time.  Need a sense of connection first.

Just as you wrote, the sensory build-up is what does it for me. Just talking and feeling an attraction gets me wet and ready sometimes. Having my nipples played with and/or doing fellatio does it every time.

Just writing about it is getting me excited! :-P~~ I can hardly wait now for the hot weekend activities I have planned.

"But I also believe that for most women 5-10 minutes is enough time to hit the O or move on."

It depends! For me, personally, if it's been 10 minutes, I haven't orgasmed yet- but I'm almost there, please don't stop! There's nothing worse than being nearly there only to have the man switch it up to intercourse. I orgasm both by penetration and by clitoris stimulation, but they are definitely two different types of orgasms.

I once had someone do this to me on a regular basis. I tried and tried to think of something that was comparable for the male... the best analogy I could come up with was having the woman riding you incredibly well, only to hop off as you're about to orgasm, and tell you, "okay, you can jack off now". (Not quite the same, but close?)

Dunno about women, but I can cum in 2.3 minutes...but only for the fifth pop.  LOL EOM MA

Women have been cumming less than 5 minutes for centuries. It all depends on who is doing the licking, and how it's done. If you do it right the first time, then there should be no issues. If it takes more than 5 minutes, I would suggest the man to get read up on how to use his tongue the right way.



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Tryster friened of mine loves it.  She always uses it sometime during our sessions.  Usually it's to start off, because I love to watch women get off.  She will regularly cum with it in less than 5 minutes.  Then, her pussy is scrumptiously hot and wet for the rest of the session. Nothing like hot dinner at the Y.

However, it does make me wish I could make my cock vibrate.    Maybe that cyber-enhancement is cumming in the future?