It does seem strange to me.  I wonder why she wanted the photo and --above all-- why you agreed.

Seems to me that would be a big no-no!

how the heck do you think pictures of celebs, politicians and business execs wind up being obtained?  You think they use their real names?  but they are "they"

With ALL the questions that have been posed on TER about photos - one would think that one as participatory as you, would see big red flags all over the field on this one.  just a few RANDOM thoughts....

She puts it on her web site - and oh, if you have a teenage kid, they find it.....

She uses it to approach you for a "gift?"

She has a thing for you - that turns to an obsession.....

ya never quite know.....   I've film of me and some select providers - the film is NOT on the web, nor is it stored on the computer... it is a single DVD - and stored in a safe place - safe from my kids, co-workers, girlfriends (not many of those), other providers, ex-wife, bosses... the press, etc...

Things to think of....

Have you seen her before?  Was this a first - has she ever mentioned it before?

Do you intend to see her again?

Can you ask her why the photo??

can you ask her for a copy...?

is she hot? & was she nude when the photo was taken????

From you note, I am not clear of who requested the photo - you or the provider....  if you and it was your camera - no problem... if it was her, then there is a problem... as she now has the photo.

Finally, I was head over heels for a provider that I visited when I was first divorced... she was charming, intelligent, funny, sexy and beautiful....   we got along well.  I asked to take her picture on two occasions.... and she allowed it (dressed in PJs!)

She left the escorting scene... and her pictures disappeared... gone - vanished - you cannot find a picture of her anywhere.... no small feat... since she was also a porn star....  and all I have to remember her by is those 2 photos... which are never to be shared....

Seriously dude, if she took and kept the pics... it would creep me out.

Re: There's a lot wrong with it...

Regardless of your fake ID, think of what could happen with those photos. How well do you know her? Does ANYONE know you be both your fake and real ID. Just a very uncomfortable scenario in my opinion. Depending on her situation, it could be a poor decision for her also.

I'm sorry, I'm confused....

Your post seems to say she wanted and took the picture, with your consent, yet you say, "I had a provider take photos of me and her together via her mirror." Did you request the pictures or did she? Who's camera was it? Who has the pictures? Perhaps it's all perfectly clear to everyone else and I just need my second cup of coffee. Sorry if that's the case.

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No CHEESE, please!!

WOW!

I find that disturbing.

You can say no, you know!!

I am at a loss for words.

Hopefully a huge number of people will read this and learn from your mistake.

I hope you know her as well as you think you did to allow such a thing to occur.

Good Luck

xoxo

Sexy Carolina

I have learned of two gals who do this. I don't know what they are thinking!

Sara

You better hope the pics do not end up on the 6 o'clock news

That's what is wrong with it



Thank You
2008=27

Was this the first time you saw her???

I would definitely question those pictures.

At this point I would be having a very funny feeling in my Gut.

You didn't mention where you found this provider and if she is a member of TER. Have you seen her before?

I'm betting you left fingerprints all over the place

If she was up to no good, she's got you. For what is the question. who knows but that sure is strange to me.

All I can say, I hope your not some public figure because she has the goods.

Good Luck
 Kisses Haley

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I think its weird. This is all bout discretion right, just say no ...

Re: Whats wrong with taking unannounced photos?? Has this happened to you??

Uh, no this isn't ok.   Not to me anyways.   Seems to me like they want them for other reasons and I'd have hid my face, ran, or something.   Gee if I wanted pics I could go into amateur porn and get paid to plaster pics of me all over,,,lol.