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johngaltnh 6 Reviews 163 reads
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At your level of practice, I think your approach makes very good sense.

Personally, while I think the whole "fake name companionship" thing makes sense in a lot of cases; I also think it gives ladies a false sense of security. Real security for women comes from the same place as real security for men: choosing one's companions wisely.

WhiteEnvelope438 reads

Call me crazy, but I seem to be more attracted to providers with normal names, like Nicole, Summer or Lauren. I am not knocking any provider that goes with a name like Candy SuXXX or Trixie Treats, but I tend to think a normal name seems classier.

Am I crazy, or do you guys agree?

:-)

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keystonekid245 reads

appearance, donation, performance, and attitude (in no particular order).

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WhiteEnvelope218 reads


I agree for the most part. The name is just icing on the cake I guess...especially in forums. I tend to overlook posts by providers with bad porn star names.

I must be crazy.

haha

Posted By: keystonekid
appearance, donation, performance, and attitude (in no particular order).

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literbike237 reads

Posted By: austinpfeiffer
Call me crazy, but I seem to be more attracted to providers with normal names, like Nicole, Summer or Lauren. I am not knocking any provider that goes with a name like Candy SuXXX or Trixie Treats, but I tend to think a normal name seems classier.

Am I crazy, or do you guys agree?

:-)
Guys board names have me intrigued sometimes and I don't mind mentioning that some of them have discouraged me from seeing them. Sometimes a name can tell a whole lot about a person..even when we are all on an anonymous internet board.

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WhiteEnvelope208 reads

Posted By: literbike
Posted By: austinpfeiffer
Call me crazy, but I seem to be more attracted to providers with normal names, like Nicole, Summer or Lauren. I am not knocking any provider that goes with a name like Candy SuXXX or Trixie Treats, but I tend to think a normal name seems classier.

Am I crazy, or do you guys agree?

:-)
Guys board names have me intrigued sometimes and I don't mind mentioning that some of them have discouraged me from seeing them. Sometimes a name can tell a whole lot about a person..even when we are all on an anonymous internet board.
You hit the nail on the head and said it perfectly.

Thank you:-)

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literbike224 reads

Now, this form of screening is not foolproof but especially on a board such as this, name and personality (which is gleaned from board posts), can be a good tool. Although having said that you could get a guy or girl who is a complete asshat on the board, but great in person.  My feeling on that is it's all well and good, but if they are standing in front of you and you two are alone, and they are just like their unsavory board persona, it's a bit too late then. I prefer to lower my risk and not bother to see them.

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ziggy440195 reads

People are much more abrasive on forums and in emails than they are in person. Having been involved in numerous forums where I met people online and then met them in person, the in-your-face jerks and flamers are usually pretty nice people. It is the passive aggressive snarks who turn out to be really unpleasant.

Or to put it differently, the loudmouths with the obnoxious handles are most often pussycats in person, while the ones who make subtle digs and are touchy about how and what others say to them are the truly unpleasant humans.

YMMV, of course.

As for providers, sure I pay attention to their names. It is part of how they are presenting themselves, and it seems reasonable to assume that how they behave in person will tend to follow that. Truly trashy, suggestive names imply a (possibly wonderful) trashy, PSE experience. A classy, restrained name suggests more of a quiet lady who can be a tiger in private, but will be a lady in public, etc. So I do take that into account as part of the whole impression of what I am likely to get.

I actually think that is more indicative of the tone of the experience than the tone of the reviews since each reviewer's definition of wild, trashy, PSE, GFE, etc, will be somewhat different than mine, so unless I have seen some providers in common with the reviewer, I will rely more on the tone of the provider's presentation than the atmosphere reported by the reviewers.

And I will almost always choose Nicole over Bodacious Betty. There are ways that Bodacious can overcome my resistance, though.

Zig

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AWomanLikeNoOther114 reads

Agreed. I'm a petite girl. If your name is 12inFuxAllNight, I'm probably not going to see you.

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Radcow210 reads

Some providers have really bad or even overused names, but in the end, does it really matter? Not if her reputation is in the right range. I agree that some names that can off-putting. Providers who have names of cars are one example. Mercedes, Benz, Lexus, I guess I'll wait for someone name Scion before I take the plunge. Then there's the Diamonds and other assorted gem or precious metal names. Give me a break. The porn names are the easy targets, but I won't see a porn star that has tits as big as watermelons. That's a style thing for me, I guess. I just felt up the best 34 Ds that a Dr. could put in on a 5'3" frame and I asked why do need to be 36 GGG unless they are naturally so? So with a good rep. most any name will do. That is why we pay, right?

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mrfisher213 reads

"...But he that filches from me my good name
Robs me of that which not enriches him,
And makes me poor indeed."


Iago, Othello Act III, scene 3.

Related Link: More of the context for you English Lit buffs.

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johngaltnh250 reads

Imagine you book her for a dinner date and a colleague spots you.

Just imagine the fun that could start with: "Ms. Tanya Tittyfuck, this is my colleague Jim Jones of the Guyana KoolAid Company. Mr. Jones, this is my friend Ms. Tittyfuck whose parents obviously didn't like her very much."

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Radcow197 reads

I happen to know someone by the name of K. Goodhead. The first time she introduced herself, I about guffawed. I haven't seen her in years, but I bet she is still a very comely package.

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literbike170 reads

Mike Hunt, I sure as shit would change it

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literbike154 reads

Just remembered a name that I saw somewhere..Dick Dickless..I would shoot my parents for that one

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laurensummerhill573 reads

"Adora Cash"

I think it makes sense that you might be attracted to women that put on less of a porn star persona and try to present themselves as average people in society. There is a sense of comfort related to that.

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literbike187 reads

I saw name that and laughed..at least she makes no pretense that she's in this biz for the sex alone or the social aspect.

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johngaltnh172 reads

Obviously, there is a bit of a science to picking a name. Soft vowels -- like in Lauren -- sound sexier for some reason.

But it's just crazy IMHO for a lady who ever intends to have dates longer than 60 minutes to go by some crazy name under which she can't be introduced.

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SerenaSinful188 reads

Posted By: johngaltnh
Obviously, there is a bit of a science to picking a name. Soft vowels -- like in Lauren -- sound sexier for some reason.

But it's just crazy IMHO for a lady who ever intends to have dates longer than 60 minutes to go by some crazy name under which she can't be introduced.
Needless to say I would never introduce myself to a gentleman's colleague/friends as "Serena Sinful". I have, however, introduced myself as having a normal last name or merely "Serena". The normal last name prevents the gent's buddies/colleagues/employer from finding my ads--something which has appealed to a few gents I've seen.
Related Link: Serena [Insert last name here]

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laurensummerhill192 reads

By the time a gentleman is introducing me to someone in his life, he knows my real name.  He's trusting me with his life when I meet colleges and friends, I think some even ground is called for.

I wouldn't even want to be introduced to waiters or hotel staff by my companionship name.  One rule: a companion name should be easy to remember.  Second rule: anything easy to remember is easily googled.

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johngaltnh164 reads

At your level of practice, I think your approach makes very good sense.

Personally, while I think the whole "fake name companionship" thing makes sense in a lot of cases; I also think it gives ladies a false sense of security. Real security for women comes from the same place as real security for men: choosing one's companions wisely.

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laurensummerhill188 reads

Well said. If you don't trust him, don't see him.

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LuckyIrishPrick143 reads

She has to be named Bertha or I will not see her. That's my new rule.

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