I had my second ever session a couple of days ago and I thought it was absolutely magnificent.

I emailed her today and asked if she would like a review on TER since she doesn't have any. I said I would give her 8/9, thinking that was pretty good and she would be happy.

Well, she basically told me to fuck off and never to contact her again.

So there you have it.

I'm probably done with the whole thing (right!) but at least I'm done with references/reviews forever and ever.

The only time I would ever give a reference....

is after he contacted me...and then all I am doing is confirming I saw You...what else is there to say...keep Enjoying the Hobby

saying that each gentleman and provider who benifits from that should be sure the provider who is giving this info out is comfortable with such action.

Checking the providers website to see if there is a note about what she might need is a first step. On my website I have such a note.

The gentlemen should contact and ask for that reference before giving out any info. Keep her safe and be sure this new ladies info is related in an e-mail to make it easy. All contact info matches. I am cautious of wives and LE.

Fuzzy, there are many ladies who don't want any kiss and tell. You shoud always ask before posting a review as her personal info will get more attention from this site. If you are ripped off please post that review and don't bother asking.

Don't give up on enjoying yourself just because one lady gets upset with you. Plenty of ladies are happy to be listed on TER so why choose an unknown.

Kisses Haley

I HATE 'EM!

I don't like to advertise who I'm seeing and it's certainly none of anybody else's business.  

I've had providers call me asking why I'm seeing someone else and that's a very uncomfortable discussion.

As an older person, I don't like the "kiss and tell" aspect of it.

I know, I know, there are a dozen reasons why they're a good thing for the provider but they absolutely suck as far as I'm concerned.

From what I'm told

WHEN a lady asked another for a reference is the other said 'he's cool'.

Simple. To the point.

I don't ask who referred me because I really don't give a fuck.

I don't think a single one can say we had a bad date or won't repeat.

But then again, I could be wrong...