Instead of being drawn into a discussion of what will be done at the beginning of the session, suppose instead you discuss what won't be done between consenting adults. She says: "I don't swallow, and I don't do greek," instead of "I do BBBJ." Would that maybe be enough to counter a bust or beat the rap?
Those answers still imply that she _would_ do other sexual acts. Just using the lingo of the biz shows she's not naive and that can be used against her.
Any discussion of specific sexual acts in combination with an agreement for money, barter, or whatever is solicitation for prostitution. When it is stated what will not or will be performed it is still frank discussion of specific sexual acts.
I see it on virtually all the boards I read. Essentially, "I know that this isn't where this post belongs, but it's SO important that it's O.K. for me to knowingly put it in the wrong place so more people will see it." (sigh)
to possess little real knowledge. This is only one of many examples where you read something, think that you comprehend all of the complex issues surrounding a topic where real experts are more than skeptical.
My advice, given in the best of intentions, is now that you take a serious break from this, and review where you are with respect to your knowledge and experience. To put it bluntly, reading one googled article neither makes you an expert, nor one who is "well informed."
I've met several on this board in person. I am constantly impressed with the caliber and accomplishments of many. I am also impressed with their generosity, kindness and knowledge. In fact, one gent I met, provided me with a different business model - which I think I might like to adopt....
You? well, I guess you think about things, but when in reality they would be put into practice would be either impractical, harmful or worse, illegal.... in short you do not project your thoughts out. And that I find to be truly offensive.
Which makes you an abusive, manipulative horses-ass, too. And slimy to boot as you now adopt kindly tone to give me good advice, which happens to be, get off the friggin board.
If it offends you it gives me every reason to stay and continue to post. My opinion is still as good as yours. I'm proud of what I've done too. You want to make corrections, make them. You want to attack me personally, I'll verbally crack your skull.
"My response previously was to gently say to you, recheck your facts prior to posting. When I post on academics it is because I have spent the past 5 years of my life working with academics to use their knowledge for the betterment of mankind. And I exagerate not, when I say that one of these erudite asswipes, raped the daughter of his friend. (For the record, I was an academic prof, who brought in not just the required 60% of his salary but 100% from grants, and STILL was required to teach - with grad students, undergrads and med students all thrown in.)..... I am helping about 6 students network to gainful employment. And I quote direct data with respect to funding. Academics promote themselves with little thought for the community they live in.......... when I draw conclusions, it is because I have what is referred to as hard data.
.....I suspect you really don't know what goes on in academic politics... it makes Hillary and Bill look like saints. And for the record, I didn't appreciate the remark "egalitarian conservatives can be about ignorance when it votes for them" Whatever makes you think I am that simple minded? My positions are fairly complex... based on logic AND emotion....."
Sound familiar - as it was written to you.... to stop posting half bake concepts that some might mistake as fact!
Again, feel free to correct my facts-- in public. I found it condescending that you decided to go private-- with that! The reason why I welcome tactful correction: I make mistakes and have time restraints! You want me to check facts?
DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA HOW LONG IT TAKES ANYONE TO DO ALL THE READING, RESEARCH AND FACT-CHECKING, AND DO IT UNPAID?
(Especially on one of them you gave me which had a title totally different from the subject, leading me to think you misunderstood).
HOW FAST DO YOU THINK I CAN EVEN READ??
Do you presume I don't have a life and NEED TO GO TO WORK? Do you expect me to take a weekend off, plonk down $100k, and earn my Ph. D. just so I could give an opinion and be treated with respect? On a fucking discussion board?
I do my best, Bizzaro, presenting things that would actually do with the best knowledge I have, which I present truthfully.
If you have facts, CAN'T YOU FIGURE OUT IT'S TIME EFFICIENT FOR YOU TO PRESENT THEM, THEN??? CLEARLY? CONCISELY? CUTTING THE PERSONAL ATTACK?
I can be amiable about that public service. I like to be corrected on facts. I read all the time, I read about science. Now that I know your a scientist, you might find that I can respect your facts. Before your writing was so all-over-the place, I sometimes couldn't tell if you even understood the subject. Call it miscommunication.
Frankly, I wouldn't be so skeptical of your intelligence if you realized and were sensitive this. I find your DISREGARD FOR TIME EFFICIENT POSTING OF FACTS TO BE WASTEFUL AND STUPID. Which is how I know we're equal.
You might even find that I can respect you again and even be mindful of your credentials.
And if there's any better illustration of arrogance, it's that you swear to my incomplete knowledge that all academics are immoral assholes, except you~!
Perhaps we could also get Ahmadinejad and GW Bush, Hillary and Bill to all join our group therapy...... lol! Basic assumption that I make on this board, is simple. If one puts facts out there - and states them as such, they have some level of expertise in the subject matter - or can provide a source - even if it may be a biased source. I also respect those who form opinion from fact, no matter how different their conclusions are from mine.
Where I find trouble is in folks who parrot what they read.... or go with a poster on the board as a follow-on! You're present post is original, funny and adds concepts to the debate.... rather than parrot others....
Thanks, as things today have not gone well, this was a break....
I will be posting what happended... later... on the GD board and on the Philly board.
I want to find out why I should be skeptical of every academic but you. I just practice what you preach, Bizzaro. I do as you say and consider all academics untrustworthy. Don't be surprised, as the nearest academic, if I don't treat you that way. You could bet I don't parrot you. Probably what upset you the most.
that again you are INCORRECT! Your ignorance is only surpassed by your arrogance. and again, I've no desire for harm to come to anyone.... nor do I will ill to befall any....
to quote you:
"I don't care if you've walked on water. Posted by zinaval , 5/13/2007 1:15:17 PM
(See Link) BTW, your remark about "Take the lithium" in that message was EXTREMELY insulting and snide. Even six weeks ago, you were being an asshole. (See? I do check sources.)
Two weeks later, on 4/19, do you remember what you said about your friend??? I'll have mercy and not quote it or link to it.
Arrogant: I guess by your estimation, anyone who stands up to your ad hominum attacks, insults and abrasiveness must be arrogant.
For the record, Bizzaro, I'm very glad you made it through the yesterday now. That's not a retraction, but an expiration: I felt the opposite yesterday. Feelings are ephemeral (usually). Breathe easier, feel safe, my hostile emotion that I didn't act on didn't kill you.
I have to note: it's a cushy moral code that allows you superiority for what you *don't* think, or even cushier, what you don't feel. You're slouching your way into heaven, aren't you.
I'm an atheist/Inceptivist. My morality doesn't matches yours mostly, except on some important points; one being that it doesn't matter what you believe or how you feel if you don't act on it. Hostile feelings and beliefs only matter morally from the actions you take, or in rare instances, what they cause. Feelings and beliefs neither make you better nor worse, until they an impetus for action.
So, come off it, Bizzaro.
Again, correct me. Discuss things with me. Don't attack me. That's my ethic on discussion boards. You attack me, I don't care how good your arguments are, and I cut you a lot of slack on it. But no more now. We could carry this on as long as you want.
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