I saw a provider last week and before I left her hotel room she made sure to ask if I was going to write a review.  I didn't think much of it other than knowing she had received a poor review not too long ago and I know she was concerned that the one bad review could hurt her.  The day after I saw her she texted me to see if I had submitted my review.  Again, I didn't think much of it other than her being concerned about her reputation here on TER.  

I e-mailed her to let her know why there was a delay with my review and in her reply back she said "be sure please that to write a lot and that its a 10/10."

That statement really rubbed me the wrong way.  I noticed that all of her reviews since the bad one were all 10/10s.  While I felt she gave a great performance and I know everyone has different ideas of what they find attractive - but I find the 10s for looks to be a bit of a stretch.  She didn't offer to (or even hint that she might) give me anything in return for giving her that kind of review.  But now I have reservations about her past few reviews and about her in general.


I've never had to deal with anything like this before and I'm not exactly sure what to do.

Alert TER Admin that a working girl is trying to influence her customers with regards to reviews and ratings. The girl's statement would have rubbed me the wrong way as well. Thank you for having respect and integrity for the TER review and ratings process. Hopefully, TER will investigate her other reviews and pull those that are questionable.

Either dont write it at all, or write one and score her how you'd like to.

I would never tell a guy how to score me.  How pathetic.

What score would you give her?

If you wait a while to post a review, after a while she may forget who you are. That way she won't be able to figure out who you are by ter handle. I personally would wait a month or two, and then post the review. To keep the details fresh I would just write the review on word perfect, and save it to my computer then cut and paste to your review.

I'm asked to give the highest score possible by the salesperson on their bull shit survey, even though the service wasn't up to snuff, and they acted like a fucktard the whole time they were helping me.

People ask for shit they don't deserve all the time, and often get it.

Yes, people do ask for undeserved ratings all the time and some actually get it (e.g. EBay). Just because it happens does not mean that the rest of us should stop protecting the integrity of the review process. One way we can do that is to alert the proper people whenever we discover someone trying to "game" the review system. It is the only way to ensure that the review system continues to be relevant and useful.

In TER's case, I am sure that the TER Admin and Staff would be very interested in stopping those who threaten TER's relevance and usefulness by "gaming" its review process.

That's a good idea. I believe TER allows one up to 3 months after a session to post a review. That should be a sufficient amount of elapsed time post a review "anonymously" in a sense.

Only requests I've ever had requested a "Honest Review".  Scores were never mentioned.

Reviews have no integrity as it is, reviews are based on opinion and personal prefernce, we're only human.

IMO my opinion is the only opinion that matters to me.

Write an honest review on a word processor, save it. and then wait a month or two then submit it. Hopefully you did not give her your TER handle. If you did you may want to use an alias review handle to submit. If you felt she was serous and was trying to pressure you to give her a 10/10 consider reporting it to TER by the "contact us" button or perhaps forward it to TER. I would. I would also include her comments in the review.

If you want TER's Email to forward her email or report it, it is: [email protected]. I think you are the only one who can judge her intent as you are the only one who has seen her comments and knows who it is. God, knows I hate agreeing with MSHSEX, but if she is gaming the system by pressuring it needs to be known by TER.

To make this post more easy to swallow. (Agreeing with MSHSEX, gives me indigestion.) Here is a photo of Cayenne from TheLifeErotic.com.

Can TER's Admin and Staff fix a problem I'm having with negative Ebay feedback too?  It sounds like they practically walk on water in your mind.  I sure hope that you're not setting yourself up for a fall.

LE is adapting and if you bridge an obvious connection between getting sexual acts and making it obvious that you're helping her prostitution business with your review, you could find yourself in trouble in the category known as 'aiding prostitution'...

That would be a felony, not a misdemeanor.

Something to think about.

They are working on the uranium enrichment problem in Iran.  It will be another day before they get to the 10-10 problem.

Thank you for the feedback everyone.

I have still been holding off with writing the review (I have her at 8/9), but no matter how I end up writing it I'm pretty sure she'll remember me for 2 reasons - 1) my draft of the review pretty much gives away which client I am and 2) she asked for my TER handle as part of the screening.   However, I'm not too concerned about her connecting me to the review.  I'm not planning on giving a bad review - I'm just not planning on giving the review she requested.  But I am still very wary of her last few reviews.

There are a handful of psycho providers in NYC area that demand 10/10s, and threaten guys. They are also known for fake self reviews.  Would love to know who  this loser of a provider is?

Here is the same cure that I shared earlier with the TER mod GaGambler that will help your indigestion: learn not to personalize things (i.e. in layman's terms, don't take things so personally).

1) Ignore what she said and write whatever review you want.

2) Respond to her email, and tell her you're happy to help her if she helps you.  Suggest 50% off your next appointment, or whatever you think is fair. Business is business.  If this strikes you as rude, remember that she started the game, not you. If she doesn't go for the deal, you still have choice #1.  And remember that you still have the power to review your second appointment.

There are a lot of pansy-ass 'hobbyists' on this board who will try to convince you that option #2 encourages ratings manipulation and destroys everything that TER stands for. They have not thought it through. Trust me -- tit for tat is common in this biz and every other high end entertainment. And if you don't like it, the BEST thing you can do to discourage it, is to make them work for it.

If you're going to suggest option #2 to the OP, then why not show how business-like you really are by upping the ante and offer him a 3rd option?

Why don't you tell the OP that he should blackmail the provider into giving him sessions for free? Like you said with the other options, this 3rd option also goes on in business in the forms of greenmail, extortion, etc.

The vigilantism that you're proposing in your options rarely if ever works and can backfire on the vigilante more often than not.

...groan.  Why do I even bother?   But what the hell...

..Because I assumed that the provider is not as stupid as you, MSHSEX.   FREE sessions just for a better review?  What kind of idiot girl is going to go for that, or even assume it's a reasonable exchange?

I threw 50% out there off the top of my head.  But the exact percentage is for the OP to judge. She might not even go for 10% if he isn't a very influential reviewer, or doesn't have the ability to write a really compelling review.  And she shouldn't.  But if his review could really make a difference to her business, then she'd be smart to pay him for the advertising.  Her call. I don't blame her for trying to get the free advertising for free in any case.  Smart.  Like the OP said, probably lots of guys would go for it.  Many probably have.  

As for normal tit for tat being extortion or blackmail...  Seriously?  He's simply asking for better service to match the excellent review that he'd love to write.  He's giving her another chance to earn the 10/10 that she ASKED for.  That's him being a nice guy, IMHO.

Perhaps you are unfamiliar with the concept of "blackmail". It's a process where someone extorts another person with the threat of action otherwise. There is no "exchange" involved, reasonable or otherwise, be it better reviews, etc.

First off, this silly provider should know better.  While I have had providers ask me to write good reviews, when they know they have provided a good session, they have never demanded a 10/10.  a 10 / 10 within TER's guidelines are nearly impossible...

But as to this person's demand... it would not matter because of how I use the reviews...

I toss out the highest and lowest scores... then I read one of the remaining high reviews, and one of the lowest reviews.... within a year.  I look for key information - such as consistency in activities performed (was it ALWAYS a BBBJ, was kissing always allowed... etc).  On looks, I try to ascertain was age and weight accurately reported, and were the pictures a reasonable representation of the person....

So, you see, this person would not have gotten past a through reading of all her reviews... and You should post what you feel in terms of score, but more important, you should provide adequate details in the review itself... as that is where I go for true info.

and write the review she deserves.  An 8/9 is certainly not a bad review.  I write the draft in my hobby email that is private, not a word processor.  Then wait 30 days or more.  Use a fake date (month).  The only problem with waiting is that ds may expire & you may have to look up a current ad for the link.  
If she comes back at you, LIE!  Say your review was not approved.   I'll see ladies with 7/7 reviews...  consistantly.  I watch out for frequent swings link 9-10 to a 2-3.   I also discount one high review & one low per most recent page.   Any unique pairing of 2 unique indivuals may have a miss match, just no chemistry.  I don't hold it against them, I just discount it.  I do however read it closely because sometimes reviews say "She wasn't my type, I went anyway...  we didn't hit it off!"
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When I was leaving, I asked the provider if she'd mind being a reference for me in the next few weeks.  She graciously accepted, then added: IF you write a really good review for me... of course I can be a reference.

I had no agenda. By the time I got around to doing the review it was a month later.
I took the option of being transparent & mentioned the good and the not so good of the service she provided.  

Out of the blue, she pm'd me saying the review was totally false.  It was not even her. She was not there.  I informed her that my caller id has her phone # & I have her on voicemail.
Next she closed her ter account.

Taco Bell can't give you a taco in 2 minutes & expect you to call it a Filet Mignon.  
But I guess some providers think their taco is a filet.  I appreciate even more the ladies who truly provide that 10/10.

I'm hungry and now you've got me trying to decide between tacos and filet mignon.  Maybe I'll eat a steak and then go for a fish taco.

Word Perfect? Are we in a time machine? lol

If you are going to review her have the balls to let her know who you are!!!!!!!!! Why do you need to be discreet about who you are if you are giving an honest review???????
I personally think the reviews should be used to make sure the girl is legit, & not a rip off, b&s, le, etc..... performance issues, was she a bitch, mechanical, did she rush you, not how well she can use her mouth, the next guy may not think so.
The rest is private....these girls see alot of people each day & its hard to deal with many different personalities.......My sessions really can go either way depending on someone's personality.....
here's some examples, u find out 1/2 way through the session that I won't do bbgreek,  & u start acting like a baby trying to talk me into it & then your suprised cuz no matter how hard you try to make me soooo horny, i just wont do it, the session may not go well, I've actually had to tell a client or two that we can sit here & waste the rest of their time arguing about something or we can get on with trying to have a good time.....then I find out that guy wrote a review, he doesn't mention what he did to put me in a so so mood.
Or the guy who waited 3 months after he saw me, to write a review of me, after he saw a provider that for some reason doesn't get along with me..( well it's because I've been with clients when she was calling them begging them to come see her, cuz I do actually dinner & movie dates with clients & she is very jealous & can't stand that these guys still see me after they have met her but they always come back to me after they find out her personality & realize the bad stuff she has said is all bullshit & she knows I have some serious secrets about her that she doesnn't want to get out there). So anyways then he writes a review of me, really, an somehow it just wasn't that earth shattering experience.....Really, will every encounter be? I think the session really go one way or another depending on the guy & how I feel when he walks in the door,

IF YOU ARE WRITING A REVIEW, Own up to it.... Why wouldn't you???? Why worry if she knows it's you, unless you aren't going to be honest. Really I think the other guys on ter are who u wud want to hide from, cuz if they have all seen the girl & had a really good time & u come along & write a bad review, then they will look at what's wrong with you that u couldn't enjoy yourself with that girl. If all her reviews are 10s that suspicious. If you are recieving a discounted session for a review that states she's a 10, then I don't feel it's a real review. I don't give any discounts for a review, & prefer they not be written, if they have to be I always ask to please be discreet about what goes on. Each client is different, if I know a client has done bb greek with certain girls no I probably wont do bb anything with him.
If you are asking for a referral then she should get a review in exchange.

Alot of providers in my area all offer discounts or even a free session for a good review?
I actually know of a provider who advertises this & I've seen the backlash the guys have gotten for a bad review or a not so awesome experience with one of the girls who will not stop until he retracts it, but all the sites let her get away with it....hmmmm,