*** MOM WATCH ***
Back in my junior-high school days, when I had a girl over to study, mom always made me study in the livingroom. If we were in my bedroom, we had to keep the door open to make sure there wasn't any monkey sex -Ooops! I mean MONKEY BUSINESS going on.
Mom was always listening, and would look in now and again to make sure we didn't "need anything".
He may have carried that feeling over into adulthood... That he still has to SNEAK sex.
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*** Orgasm Stifling ***
I think that some teenagers (not me of course) have been known to sneak into the bathroom with a Playboy to glance over.
When desire reached a peak, and Mom was again wandering around the house, some guys trained themselves to STIFLE the "melodious cum sounds".
After all that self-restraint training, it can be a little startling to hear someone be so free with their passion. It startles, even though no one may be around to hear.
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*** WHO CARES? ***
Or if they do hear, who really cares. HE may not have that "So what - Who cares" attitude, while you clearly do. He could be a more shy kinda guy, who tries to NOT ATTRACT ATTENTION to himself in daily life.
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*** PARIS HILTON ***
I do not travel and stay in hotels a whole lot myself. Those guys that do may have a better feel for what activities hotels tolerate, what sounds are considered normal, etc.
He may just feel he has to err on the side of quiet out of inexperience and politeness to the hotel, even though they see this stuff day in and day out, and it is very old hat to them.
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*** PAST HOTEL SHUSHING ***
He may have been shushed at his last hotel stay, and that experience is still in his mind.
AN EXPERIENCE OF MINE: I got into my hotel after midnite one time, and had only been in the room for two minutes when the phone rang.
It was the front desk, calling to tell me that the guy in the room below me had called to complain that I had been "STOMPING AROUND MY ROOM ALL NIGHT and that I had been KEEPING HIM AWAKE". They told me I had to quiet down. I was stunned, and offended, and went to sleep angry. I still remember that night.
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Keep cumming LOUDLY.
He will get over it.
Men love to hear you cum, and love to get that reward for our DATY.
I got wood just reading about your hotel stay. Lucky Bastard.
-SR
-- Modified on 10/14/2007 3:59:48 AM
Recently I was having a weekend stay with a Friend of mine. Over lunch we drank a few beers, got giddy and started playing under the table... Well, the waitress kept giving us Mean Mom eyes, so finally we took our lust back to our hotel. I'm sure we scandalized whomever monitors the elevator camera, and by the time we finally got the door to our room open I think I was almost topless. The DATY was incredible and I just had to let the world know it.
And I got shushed.
Not offensively, but it took something from my high.
So we moved from the sofa to the bed and as he had me on my back while holding my legs up in the air I came like crazy and couldn't hold it in. So melodious cum sounds surely bled out from under the door and floated through the open window...
And I got shushed again.
WTF?
He's not married, has no GF, and we always stay at the same boutique hotel when we meet; they know our habits. So why the shushing? Is hearing me cum upsetting him? Does it turn him off? I asked him why he shushed me and he said he was worried about disturbing the neighbors (we were between two empty rooms).
I have been stewing and brewing over this since it happened and thought I would ask you guys about it.
Have you ever shushed a Provider? Why?
While making love loudly, hotel security came knocking at my hotel door and asked us to keep it down. Please remember that we are under the rules of the hotel, not our rules even though we are paying guests. The only time that doesn't apply is if you are a huge time big shot who has taken up the whole floor of the hotel, then they will look the other way. But for us little people, they expect some decorum and can make you leave for anything they deem inappropriate and that includes loud sex noises or too much foot traffic to a room (which they have done to many providers). Once you are blacklisted, the hotel doesn't honor any future reservations for you. If your friend uses this hotel for other purpose, like business meetings, then he might not want to jeopardize his ability to make a future reservation. I know when I am at a hotel, I tend to want the lady to be less vocal since the walls are extremely extremely thin and the doors have a huge gap at the bottom (so they can slide those bills under at 3 am LOL), so people can hear you even when they are walking down the hallway. Sounds like the two of you need to get in a car and drive to a romantic spot and do some howling at the moon instead. LMAO
*** MOM WATCH ***
Back in my junior-high school days, when I had a girl over to study, mom always made me study in the livingroom. If we were in my bedroom, we had to keep the door open to make sure there wasn't any monkey sex -Ooops! I mean MONKEY BUSINESS going on.
Mom was always listening, and would look in now and again to make sure we didn't "need anything".
He may have carried that feeling over into adulthood... That he still has to SNEAK sex.
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*** Orgasm Stifling ***
I think that some teenagers (not me of course) have been known to sneak into the bathroom with a Playboy to glance over.
When desire reached a peak, and Mom was again wandering around the house, some guys trained themselves to STIFLE the "melodious cum sounds".
After all that self-restraint training, it can be a little startling to hear someone be so free with their passion. It startles, even though no one may be around to hear.
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*** WHO CARES? ***
Or if they do hear, who really cares. HE may not have that "So what - Who cares" attitude, while you clearly do. He could be a more shy kinda guy, who tries to NOT ATTRACT ATTENTION to himself in daily life.
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*** PARIS HILTON ***
I do not travel and stay in hotels a whole lot myself. Those guys that do may have a better feel for what activities hotels tolerate, what sounds are considered normal, etc.
He may just feel he has to err on the side of quiet out of inexperience and politeness to the hotel, even though they see this stuff day in and day out, and it is very old hat to them.
------------------------------------------------
*** PAST HOTEL SHUSHING ***
He may have been shushed at his last hotel stay, and that experience is still in his mind.
AN EXPERIENCE OF MINE: I got into my hotel after midnite one time, and had only been in the room for two minutes when the phone rang.
It was the front desk, calling to tell me that the guy in the room below me had called to complain that I had been "STOMPING AROUND MY ROOM ALL NIGHT and that I had been KEEPING HIM AWAKE". They told me I had to quiet down. I was stunned, and offended, and went to sleep angry. I still remember that night.
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Keep cumming LOUDLY.
He will get over it.
Men love to hear you cum, and love to get that reward for our DATY.
I got wood just reading about your hotel stay. Lucky Bastard.
-SR
-- Modified on 10/14/2007 3:59:48 AM
I"ve never shushed a provider. I realize hotels have thin walls, but I enjoy it when a provider is vocal. If the hotel staff tells us to keep it down , then we would. Until then, I'm perfectly fine with being very vocal.
I dunno. Some guys have lots of trouble distinguishing real orgasms from the fake ones... I suspect that he's had a lot of the latter in his civilian life and certainly there are tons of providers who use the fake cumming technique (go figure) to hurry a session along... Some men see the vocal types as being phony or he could really just be embarrassed. Since he is single and no GF, have you had him in a private place such as your home or his home? Sounds like he's not done this before and since I know that you are being you, either he's never gotten you to this place before or he's been able to keep his negative emotions in check.
I remember awhile ago in Vegas while staying at the Rio, I was coming up to my room from the pool. I was in a room that was toward the end of the hall. As I was approaching my room, I saw a group of people standing in the hall. I thought this was strange since I had had hardly met anyone in the hall before. But as I got closer I started to hear noises....loud moaning and some rather nasty talk for the lady coming from inside a room.
The group, about 6-7 looked like a conventioneers, were laughing and making the usual comments. I hung with for a moment then proceeded to me room. Of course, I had no way of knowing that the girl was a provider or a gf/wife. But this girl had a potty mouth.
I often think about that scene when I'm with a vocal lady or being vocal myself. Sometimes it makes want to shhhhh sometimes it makes want to be louder.
Was in a situation where a lady once got shushed...and that was during a three way...where one of the ladies did the shushing. She was the renter, so I could understand her desire to be discreet. Personally, I have no problem when a provider wants to get loud, and have never felt the need to shush a lady. Only good reason I can think of is if he were hosting, and needing to maintain a low profile, e.g., he was renting the room during a business trip, and his company was picking up the tab. That doesn't sound like the scenario you described, but his explanation about not calling attention to your activities seems valid.
however the neighbors were pounding on the wall once in Chicago... you can always turn the tv up & tuck a towel in that large gap under the door.
Did the wall pounding stop us? Nope, just changed positions & took care of business then had a good laugh in the afterglow!
While in a hotel I always turn the TV up and turn the AC on or Heater so it makes that humming noise 
Now the pounding on the wall from the headboard um
But, I have stayed in some places with thin walls and I was downright turned on listening to some humpy action happening next door.
Hey, everybody could use a little naughty talk or naughty moaning or even a low howl.....
Yeah, I had the wall pounding thing happen once... it is distracting --
never shush a girl when she's cumming, my goodness, let her enjoy it, life is to short...
At a "legit" massage center where naughty stuff wasn't supposed to happen, I managed to use the old Mr. Fisher charm to get close to the therapist. As I started to praise the lord above she put her fingers on my lips and said, be quiet, you'll get me in trouble.
She had a good point.
I kind of liked the taboo part of it, but next time we met at a hotel and prayer until the cows came home.
I was shushed I remember it was my very frist call , this little rich CEO son..and he shushed me ..but he had a penthouse ..he had the whole floor, there was no one there but me an him. I was then and still now baffled.
The NSA, which monitors our encounters, has bionic ear technology and can here an orgasm, especially fake ones, from a radius of 1.7 miles. I spoke with them in a recent interview and here's what they had to say:
Artifical female orgasms are easily recognizible through their patterns of deceit and waveform deformities. Since they know married women are frigid, these can only mean prostitution is taking place or someone has donated to a charible cause. Since we are the latter, we are safe. But it is important to note, it is easy to confuse the two when scrubbing the soundwaves. A rookie NSA dude could come busting down your door and you could end up on Gitmo before you can say "shush".
The best technique is not to shush, but rather turn it down a notch. It is best represented by turning an imaginary knob to the left in the air while you are fornicating. A simple finger to the lips is also OK as a backup. Doggie stylers should be cognizant of reflecting their gestures in nearby shiney surfaces.
My SO shushes me all the time and we are in MY house! You are right, it completely kills the mood and momentum!
I dated a civvie once who was a "singer". It threw me off at first, but once I got used to it, it was pretty cool (except once when my early teen daughter was with me that weekend and came through the door to see what was wrong...)
This is why I carry a door-hanger sign with me to switch blame.
"Do Not Disturb! They kept me up all night too!"
Let 'er rip!
Renting a hotel room doesn't give you the right to be loud and obnoxious. Have fun, but remember to act like a big girl. This should be self evident.
Its all about freedom of speech or other articulations (such as they may be in delicto flagrante).....a lady must be allowed to cum and gush without a shush. It could be physiologically damaging to hold it back and psychologically devasting! Human passion is the farthest thing on earth from being obnoxious.
I seem to remember once reading on these pages the commentary of a wise woman along the lines of...."these things should be discussed at the start of our meeting to make sure we are on the same page..." or some such thing.
So, as the frogs say "chacun son gout" but a woman in vocal ecstacy is very much a mon gout!
DG
I was the one who had to do the shushing. But my method was a great kiss! To me, vocalization, when real, is the best compiment possible. However, in hotel rooms, we are not alone. And, too often, everybody else is so jealous they could get really mad (LOL).
I always take care of hotel accommodations with this friend, and we use the same one each time. I ask to be placed between two empty rooms and they oblige with no hesitation. He had never shushed me before during any of our fun times.
But I saw this Friend again this Monday, the day before my surgery, and he told me very quietly that he loves me... So now I'm wondering if his shushing might have been (in some strange way) motivated by emotion. Frankly, this just confuses me even more.
And if my typing is not so good, please forgive me. I'm on oxycodone and valium for my tender new boobies. Pics of my new toys coming soon!!