I feel repeat visit is TLC for me, but I had my regular friends send me surprise gifts in the mail.
I spoil my regulars by sending them photos of myself on a regular basis. I love to dress up & take photos. I use my cell phone, and the quality sucks sometimes, so a camera was on my Christmas list. I know for sure I am getting shoes, and sexy clothes, but the camera is something that could be a real surprise for me.
What would put a smile on your face? be most special? be most practical?
Is a tip the same thing?
that if you want to impress someone, then carefully observe what they wear, what they speak about in terms of their likes, dislikes, etc.; and also should you happen to see it, observe their home. Get a sense of what that person likes and buy something that complements their taste and adds to their coterie of treasured objects.
Not only will you be fortifying their collection, but you will be seen by them as someone that cares about them, and that is often a very good thing.
The private residences I've visited have usually been very pleasant. However, there was one place where the most appropriate gift, based on my observations, would have been a gift certificate for a renovation / remodeling job.
that if you want to impress someone, then carefully observe what they wear, what they speak about in terms of their likes, dislikes, etc.; and also should you happen to see it, observe their home. Get a sense of what that person likes and buy something that complements their taste and adds to their coterie of treasured objects.
Not only will you be fortifying their collection, but you will be seen by them as someone that cares about them, and that is often a very good thing.
Okay, Fisher you're K i L Linnn ..... me ๐
Come spend the night! ๐๐๐๐๐
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Couldn't agree more! Being thoughtful and taking one little comment or joke, remembering it and getting her something that will show her you sincerely care and listen goes a long way!!
. . . all of us have our Achilles heel I guess. But I relate to this question a lot!
Tips are great! Nothing better than cold hard cash that I can put to use how *I* need to. But beyond that, a lot of folks now have wishlists on their pages. I'd pick something from there.
Me, I have a lot of books and some toys that I want or giftcards to places where I can get said things. I love reading books with my clients and discussing it together. And of course, toys are a mutual investment if you know what I mean
but as the above stated...I think a nice gift or gift card is even better. I personally would appreciate it so much...I love the little things though. Sometimes it is just a bottle of champagne or really great book I've been dying to read. One of my favorite gifts over the years has been chocolate covered strawberries and a handmade corset. Money is great but it's not very personal and goes faster than something I can enjoy throughout the years or even for the day..
Xoxo,
Maddy
...for someone to book me.
My Christmas plans fell through, and all my friends will be out of town this year, so I'll be home alone ![]()
"home alone", would you like me to send over Daniel Stern and Joe Pesci for a little excitement?
Check our wishlists, which will, if they are like mine, give you a plethora of items that you can choose to gift your provider.
Caris Quinn
Twitter: @MSQuinnXO
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to her favorite store, are great options. New laptop or any sort of electronics would be practical also I think.
a big tip (ha ha!) or a gift card! I am very picky about my clothes, perfume, what books I like etc so most people strike out when trying to buy me an actual gift (though I never let it show!). Its much better to just give the gift of cash/gift card so that she can buy what she needs or wants with it.
The universally accepted standard is that a providerโs gift should be 20 times her hourly rate. For example, if the provider charges $400, you should spend at least $8,000 on her gift. Any thing less is an attack on her dignity and diminishes your worth in the eyes of God. And, donโt make the rookie mistake in thinking a gift means you donโt need to leave a tip as well.
Christmas comes but once a year โ so donโt fuck it up.
She must see cheap guys! ![]()
Yes, funniest!!
I am sure we have all heard about the guy who gave the girl a car, but hade it delivered with the gas tank on empty. and If you are going to gift a plane, you do know that planes don't fly themselves. Don't be THAT guy.
Details guys, details. lol
I like the "Universally accepted standard"
I did not know this Rasha ๐
Xo
Youโre kidding right? So if I saw the $400/hr lady every week , thatโs $20k to her. And Iโm supposed to tip her $k or 40% otherwise itโs ungodly and an insult to her.
Is that some kind of FinDom response?
Hookers like money! Extra money!
Oh, and vodka... the good stuff!
Happy holidays , folks !
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P.s. Mo, I am stealing that tag line >
"Lies people tell" ๐๐๐
Thanks for the giggle!
Merry Christmas ๐
I would never expect a gift, but if a gentleman brings me one, the thought alone is enough to put a smile on my face.
Most practical would probably be a tip, which is always appreciated. Gotta pay down that student debt, haha.
Most special would be a gift that shows that the person has taken the time to get to know me a little. This can be something small, like getting me vegan chocolate. I have gotten a couple very special, more extravagant gifts, that I feel a bit odd sharing, because they make me feel so spoiled ๐ค
I enjoy gift cards as I can get what I like and model it after.
However, if you're feeling like "Santa Claus Plus";
~ a nice cash tip
~ Prepaid Visa {to pay bills with}
~ fresh purple tulips
~ do a nice loving gesture for yourself;
The San Diego Humane Society is offering Free Adoptions up until
Christmas, so you can provide a warm, happy home for a furball.
Happy Holidays Everyone!
Bebesitos,
Angelina Jones
I picked up a few visa gift cards , one sent and got a thank you. Another lady seems to be blowing me off.. I was unsure how to send a gift asked her for suggestions.. even said โ I was thinking of buying a gift card and emailing you the info... crickets.. I guess thatโs her way of saying โgo awayโ
Nothing like being snubbed :
I had a client who worked at a hair salon and brought me high end shampoo and conditioner (and he even made sure it was color and keratin friendly). Best gift ever!!!!!
OH Yes..and then SeX..with my gift giver
If a lady is on Twitter or Instagram you can sometimes get a sense of her tastes that way...
My favorite gifts ever have been several bottles of a perfume I loved that was discontinued- a client tracked them down for me- and a framed print of one of the photos that a client (who was a professional photographer) had taken of me, along with one of his beautiful landscape photos, also framed.
If you just want to be practical, yes, cash is king... but the best gifts are things a person would not buy for themselves, even if money is not an issue. I like to give my sister and her husband gift cards for nights out- restaurants, show tickets, and sometimes I've even arranged a sitter for their kids. Something like that (or a spa groupon!) is great if your ATF is a busy lady or has kids that you are aware of.
Personally, if I was your favorite provider... I would love eat24 or grub hub gift cards, to have a nice meal delivered wherever I was staying. Uber or Lyft gift cards would be nice too.
But... there is nothing quite like opening a box from a Jeweler or lingerie boutique... or getting into the room and seeing your favorite shoe or handbag designer's bag or box on the bed! I think I have literally shrieked over a Jimmy Choo box.
If you follow her social media or look at her site, you may find favorites beyond the well-known status brands we almost ALL adore (Louis Vuitton, Louboutin, Gucci...) I know I would be stoked if a client noticed my love for Leibskind Berlin handbags, quirky Betsy Johnson earrings, or cozy Ugg Boots, and got me something that was really "me". Or got me an Akira gift card because they noticed I am always tweeting outfit pics from the Akira dressing room. But that is a lot to expect from a boyfriend, let alone a client! Maybe just get her a nice robe from Cosabella? They are sexy enough for dates and comfy enough for breakfast...
A tip is always nice. It brings a smile to my face to know that my "friend" was happy with my services. I love to please.
Any little gift is a sweet thing. It shows thought, and it doesn't even matter what it is.
I have a gifts section on my website and so do many ladies.
Gift cards to stores like...
VICTORIAS SECRET
MACYS
BATH AND BODY WORKS
SPA
WALMART
PUBLIX
Amazon
*Also see if she has an Amazon wishlist*
Candles
Perfume
Jewelry
CASH
Her favorite alcohol
Some gifts I've received ...
Wine glass set
Marylin Monroe picture
Fluffy bathrobe and slippers ( I loved it !!)
Sex toys
Groupons
Lingerie
Steak knife set (My client knew I loved cooking and it was a very very nice set)
Crock pot
Once you get to know a person you can get an idea what they like, if you visit them at their home think of something that would go good in there...if you see them at a hotel get them something they could use like a cute travel bag, or makeup bag.
I feel repeat visit is TLC for me, but I had my regular friends send me surprise gifts in the mail.
I spoil my regulars by sending them photos of myself on a regular basis. I love to dress up & take photos. I use my cell phone, and the quality sucks sometimes, so a camera was on my Christmas list. I know for sure I am getting shoes, and sexy clothes, but the camera is something that could be a real surprise for me.
Happy Holiday's!
My favorite gifts have been spa gift certificates as I rarely book spa visits for myself.
But honestly there is so little I actually need, as I have the means to provide for myself, thanks to a fabulous job and lovely clients.
So this year I was thinking I would like some spectacular reviews for Christmas. It makes me so happy when I read about my clients experiences and how satisfied they are.
Is allways Nice and Exciting
The smallest things make my heart flutter. Chocolates, sour candy, a bottle of Dom or Moet. Its up to them what they want to bring and so far my friends have great taste and they know exactly what I like.
Dick me down and have good time.....thats what I want.
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