I told her I was forty minutes away. She told me to call her when I get in a mall nearby  her place. I call he back, and she told me to go around streets that she didn't even know (she was from out of state) After twenty minutes of going around and around, I told her to text me the hotel address and she sai that for her safety she can't do that and that we can see each other next time, and she hung up on me.

Did you read her reviews? Any mention of this behavior in them? I have never heard of not being able to give the hotel address right before the guy is about to head over...that's freaking retarded! You don't usually get the ROOM number before you arrive, but damn...this idiot won't even give the address lol. Wow.

"Can't tell you the address."  That just makes no sense.  It's not like you aren't going to know where you are when you get there...

Of this shitty behavior. Maybe your homeys can drum her outta business

She probably was looking out of the hotel window and trying to see you and your car. Or possibly she had an "associate" who was in THEIR car down on the street or in the parking lot. Did she screen you? Did you do or say anything that could have spooked her and made her especially cautious/paranoid?

where I was on my way to a confirmed date and communications
were excellent that day and she said sorry or was not there??????

This is without a doubt the most ridiculous post I ever read ! How about the other guy paid extra and she fucked this 1 over ! The LE crap lately here is getting tired ! Yeah Mr.Fisher is really Lt. Colombo ! CPA and Me are Starsky  and Hutch ! Curly is Kojak (sorry he's bald curly but he was cool ) and Nick is TJ Hooker ! U girls need to get out a little ! Sorry get out "ALOT" . An "associate" ! Hey op good 4 u , take the $ s and spend it on u !!!!!!!!

I was merely offering one possible explaination, which is what the OP asked for, no? "Associate" was a nice way of saying her boyfriend, husband, pimp, or her female doubles partner. I feel 90% confident that either the provider, or else someone she travels with, was trying to get a look at him, his car, and his plates before confirming the address and the room number.

mo really, I just told her straight tha i have been driving around for a while and to give me the hotel address.

she was booked for the eve and you being late, was gonna mess up her schedule?
Were you late?
If so, you have to give yourself plenty of time when you don't know your destination.

after reading a few of his reviews, it's obvious why this is happening. Not that it should excuse it, but freaking duh. Car dates and 15 min. quickie gals are usually not concerned about professionalism.

if the gal was from out of town...  in a strange hotel...  she really might not have had anything at hand with the hotel's street address on it.   It IS her mistake.  She can't exactly call the front desk and ask for their street address so her gentlemen callers can find her!   Providers SHOULD discreetly acquire the street address because clients will need to know.  
I'm not familiar with the city hotels (where I would have no business) so I have taken the trouble to record the street addresses of nearby coffee shops (where I might find myself in need of a brew) in my GPS...  just happens to be within sight of a hotel.  With my travel distances & uncertain traffic (and sometimes weather) I need to plan extra travel time.  Once I have located the call point, I withdraw to the coffee shop to linger, rather than drawing attention by sitting in a parked car.  
With ladies I've seen before, I call from the coffee lot (engine on, headed out) and can be at the hotel in 60 seconds.  One time, the lady didn't remember me...  replied "I don't see you!"...  I pulled up as she finished speaking.  So she was watching from a window

whats a "car date" lol

The only way those girls can make money is by sheer volume. They usually operate on a first come first served basis. You got bumped when another guy showed up first, after you got lost. I STILL maintain what I said about girls asking you to park in a VERY specific location- in this case the mall right by her incall. This typically means that the girl or someone else is visually checking you out before things proceed. I've even heard of people snapping camera phone pictures of car plates. But again, what do I know. Lol.

Leave it be... You'll never know her reason(s) and it is not worth your time to wonder why or what. There are many more fish in the sea, throw the hook back in the water and enjoy yourself!

Groping & fumbling at the local lover's lane...hoping no flashlights peer in

Oh geez. Someone else who insists on telling every1 how to do things

Who needs an address for a hotel?  If you know the area, you know the hotels or can get the address VERY easily (most GPS or "map" on your phone).  Worst case would be multiple hotels, same chain: "Marriot? The one at Exit 30 or the one off of Exit 33?"  "Sheraton?  The one in midtown or the one downtown?"  

They're just flaky ditzes. They're thinking $$$, then all of a sudden they're thinking LE... $$$... LE...duh... I dunno,...$$$... LE... oh screw it.

Well, there ya have it.  
15 min? Hell, it takes me longer than that to get my clothes off....LOL.
Although a car date does sound pretty hot with the right women. ( a pro )

I was there on time like 150 minutes before the appointment

Or maybe you're just exhausted and cranky after a long hard day of feeling morally superior and lecturing hookers about their occasional marijuana use? Lol. Poor baby.

Save your money man and see pro's.
I had a date wed and thurs this week.....both were perfect.

haha. Yes I will always appeciate reverse screening. I won't have anything to do with that shit.

Don't you belong somewhere else?

I arrived at the call point, made the call.  Stayed on the phone as she directed me through a series of turns...  and I arrived back at the call point on the opposite side of the street. I parked where she directed.  She opened the door.  I figured she was checking to see if I was alone...  but also might have been a particular spot to park that didn't annoy other residents.

(removes sunglasses)

Kinda giving you two some real cool style ! And with these threads someone gotta sing the BLUES !!!!!!! L8r bro and b gd  ( know u like that

City . And check every car carrying men !

Doubt it... even the cheapest of hotels have their address on the phone in the room. Every hotel I have ever stayed at, had the hotels name, address, city, state, zip code, & phone number listed on the room phone. And if by chance, for some reason, it wasn't... there's always the copy of the check-in bill with the hotel's info. And with GPS, you don't need the address... just type in the hotels name and city/state, & it will give you all the one's listed in that area.  

Oh babe it's one of those there is your version hers and why she did it and the truth somewhere, it's life in this biz xx