It's no secret that good hygiene is a plus for both providers and hobbyists.  Guys like women who smell nice and clean -- all over.  Even providers who smoke can get brownie points by making an effort to keep the room fairly smoke-free, and their mouth minty-fresh.  As for hobbyists, experience has taught many of us that the more we care about our own hygiene, the more providers will be interested in the intimate stuff that turns us on.  So where am I going with this?  I met a girl a few weeks ago with whom I really connected on a personal level and I suspect the feeling was mutual.  The "other stuff" was very enjoyable as well.  But yes there was a pretty heavy cigarette smell.  And when we arrived "down there," the experience was not unpleasant, but let's just say that more soap and water etc. would not have been a bad thing.

So if I want to see her again, and esp. if I have the opportunity to see her outside the "office," how do I bring up this subject?  I'm sure I will get suggestions that I invite her to take a shower with me, which isn't a bad idea, but is there a non-offensive way I can get my point across so that a joint shower would be optional but not necessary?  And BTW, what products do women use to keep them smelling so sweet and clean?

Soap and water and the use of a commercial vaginal douse would solve the odor problem.  She can simply not smoke before or during a meeting with you to solve the cigarette ordor.  Maybe she was just having a bad day when you met her.  You should ask her not to smoke before meeting you next time.  You should also bring up the issue of how she smelled in other places also, believe it or not many women, if not most, prefer knowing that there was a problem and will fix it.  I had a similar problem happen years ago with a provider, who was otherwise very hot.  Her and I wanted a second meeting but upon her contacting me to set up the second meeting I mentioned the odor problem from the first meeting.  She was upset, not at me but herself and told me that I should have said something on the spot.  My second and a subsequent third meeting with her were problem free.

Next appointment, ask her if you can be her first client that day. Bring some flavored gel. Some ladies I've seen have some great tasting gel, so after sex, she doesn't taste like latex, and neither do I. Good Luck!

But that would be a little harsh.

Honestly, I'd just sweetly say, "Honey, would you like to go freshen up?  It's not that you smell bad but as I look out the window I see seagulls circling around our room."  Okay, maybe not that last part but you get the idea.  Hey, we're all grown-ups here and should be able to recognize that from time to time we all get a little stinky.  It can be awkward and embarrassing but it's a part of being a human being.  However, it doesn't mean that we have to lie and pretend that the smell isn't driving us backwards like a 70 mile per hour wind.  Just use tact and diplomacy and be as kind and gentle about it as possible when telling her.

FWIW, taking showers or a bubble bath in a jacuzzi together is an awesome way to not only get clean but dirty, too!  I highly recommend it.

FDS "Pursonals" feminine deodorant spray.

If a provider likes to be dirty, that's her business.  Trying to change someone isn't nice.  But then I'm bad at confrontation.  If you insist on letting her know, as you leave, just say "so long stinktown!"
cheers,
cy

But I would just tell her straight up. It would be a lousy thing for others to experience.
Personally, I would love to be a naked sushi model sometime. Anyone seen that? It would be soooo much fun.

Altho I guess there's no reason guys SHOULD know, but it's shocking how little you guys know about feminine hygiene. FWIW if you ever need to give advice to anyone who doesn't have a woman to ask and hasn't figured out the internet....

NO DOUCHING. It's REALLY bad for women. If there is bacteria in the vagina, a douche pushes it up further and increases the likelihood of infection. The vagina is what we call a self cleaning environment... it keeps itself just fine, PH balanced and everything else. When you douche, you rid the body of its natural fluids, throw off the PH, open yourself up to infection... yucky! NO NEED for it after a session. Gosh I think we should all have BIDETs, but a bidet does not go all up inside like that... it gently washes the OUTSIDE, the folds, etc. That's all that is needed.

FDS purse spray... the gent below who offered that, I'd say... do you want to go down on a pussy that smells like perfume, or one that smells like FEMALE? I mean, women do SMELL LIKE WOMEN. We don't naturally smell like baby powder, or flowers, or "mountain rain" or anything else. But in general, deodorant in the vagina is a NO NO.

Soap and water are all that is needed here. A womans taste and scent is stronger at diff times of the month due to her cycle... during ovulation, much much stronger!  This is NORMAL. Now if you are smelling FISH... (OMG!!!!!!!!!) There is something wrong and that woman needs to go to a doctor. Healthy horny pussy does NOT smell like fish. It smells like heatlhy horny pussy!  

I like to take a bath in between session so I can soak my coochie a little bit. But I do not use any special deodorants, douches, scrub brushes, or anything else! My body can handle it, thanks very much. And I have a sweet pussy. I know, I check

To the gent who posed the original question, I see NO WAY for you to drop a "hint" about this and not ruin the chemistry you established with her. I mean there is just no way a woman would not be either a) horribly insulted or b) horribly EMBARRASSED by that and refuse to see you either way. Maybe there is a way... I just cannot see it!  Your own idea about joining her in the shower or tub is the best.

Hugs*
Tamara

http://www.4woman.gov/faq/douching.htm
http://www.lippyimp.com/smell.htm
http://www.argonaut.uidaho.edu/archives/091203/opinion3.html

Thank you, thank you, thank you!

There are too many WOMEN who do not even know the information you posted above... or why else would the feminine hygeine market be viable?

xxoo,
D.