Hobbiests,

In the heat of the moment, do you moan out "I love you"?

Providers,

If a hobbiest says "I love you" to you, what is your respond?

...to do like Cher in Moonstruck: smack him upside the head and say, "Snsp outta it!" :>)

- ss

"I love you"????  Oh shit---No F'ing way!!!  Geez, I've even been careful (to a fault probably) of this expression in "civilian" encounters.  Example:  My last girlfriend (lasted a loooong time) said those words to me at least 4 months before I ever agreed that I felt the same.  What I did say in response the first few times was something along the lines of feeling that way only that particular night.  Yeah, in spite of being in genearal a nice guy, I CAN be a prick in certain situations.

Thinking about the question in a bit more depth, & perhaps the gals would be the only ones who could answer this, wouldn't you be concerned about scaring her off if you should say something like this?  I think, while there might be ther extremely rare exception, that the gals are not doing this in order to find either the love of their life OR a sugar daddy.  So if she felt there was any chance the guy was actually serious & getting carried away with the fantasy...wouldn't she find a way to back off/out & not see him again?  Sorry if I'm going a bit deeper into the question than the manner in which it was asked, but there have been numerous threads (& they seem to come up fairly frequently) about client/provder relationships.

Now I will admit to saying a few things in the "heat of the moment", but none of them were bullshit or the sort of things that would either get me in trouble OR scare the gal either.  Example???  I'll try to keep this short & on point---something like "Shit, no one has EVER done that any fuc*ing better--damn, I love it!!"  

To me the key to almost everything in life, is to never say something you don't mean---I'm sure pissing upstream wouldn't be pleasant.

As a known escort, (apprehensively so), yet one with many lightyears to enlightenment, Let's just say that the phrase.  "I love you" is one of the more acceptably heartfelt, yet qualitatively impulsive  phrases along with "Oh My God" and "Jesus". We needn't complicate this.  (AS long as God and Jesus are not offended by those outpourings.)

Simply love. She felt safe enough to say this to you, whether out of passion and/or intent, something was incredibly beautiful.  

Take it or leave it from there.  It was no doubt wonderful.  If you are moreso interested in the lady, be kind, and give it it's own time.  

I have cried out the same words, both joyfully and apprehensively.  Yet in trying to be circumspect and not misleading,  it's a wonderful thing when I feel safe in  crying out those words.  No expectations, just a fullness of the heart.  

Of course I cannot speak for the lady in question, but, if  she captures your heart, then you will be enroute to more questions.  Aren't we all?


xoxo

FF



-- Modified on 8/24/2001 10:05:37 PM

Hey Girl,

I have never had a client say this to me... but have have had a few say... "You are all mine"... or "You are my girlfriend and all mine and no one elses."  It is fantasy but still freaky at times.  

Felicia, I am one of your good friends... I will call you to let you know who I am... You are sweetheart!  Don't ever quit being yourself... I love you!  You are the bomb and had such a good time with you in LV!  Even tho we don't talk much now (due to my stupid new hectic schedule.. stupid me!).... you are in my heart forever!  Once to know you Always to Love you. I am sounding like a stalker but just being stupid... that is how you get when around this beauty!  She drives you nuts!

I will call you soon!

XXXOOO Me

Have to agree with the Foxx that the heart can be full in the moment and the words can spill out.  We take them perhaps too lightly and not lightly enough.  Depends on the context.  If it's a wonderful time of connection, sure why not.  Why not let the love shine?  It isn't going to change who you're eating Thanksgiving dinner with!  It's a full expression during a full moment!  (think I've been eating too many corn chips, cheese 'n salsa, feeling that fullness right now!)  xo Faye Desiree

your post.  I hope I didn't freak you out.  I just had to post my agreement.  Felicia's amazing.  Her bubbly personality will brighten anyone's day. You sound pretty cool yourself.  Maybe our paths will cross one day, I'm always in Vegas, baby, Vegas!!!

I confess.  I've blurted out that exact phrase many times at the peak moment.  And I don't see anything wrong with it.  Most providers know that when I moan "I love you," what I mean is "I love how you are making me feel right now."  I'm not saying, "I'll abandon my life, you abandon yours, and we'll live happily everafter."  Just remember:  Love the one your with.

Why not! What is the deal holding Love hostage? Let it out there to exercise and grow. A little sunshine and a little moonlight (just for balance) and just the right amount of darkness !-D

And who better to give your love to than a woman who will make you feel ten feet tall and bulletproof. Who will send you to bed and then follow you there! Who will teach you how and make you a better lover. Who will let you cum first LOL. Who will let you make her cum. Who will put her hand on your arm and NOT pull it awat like some shcoolgirl's game of "guess."

But love is earned. Someone who can reach inside through the barriers and nourish my soul shall receive my love. And I'm not shy about it neither! LMAO

Who made this dumbass rule that man can only love one woman? Or that a woman can only love one man? What up with that? Love is a good thang. Give it up when you are offered the chance.