I connected with a surburban providor via BP.. She has been reviwed here.. both good and bad.. I happen to like her very much.. The thing is that her incall location is like 7/10's of a mile from my house..
Drives me nuts driving by the hotel every day.. and it's been difficult to limit myself to once a week.. Let me put it this way.. I will be seeing her for the 3rd time on Monday.. and I just met her about 10 days before..
I was thinking about telling her that she could text me if she is open and I could be right there.. if she needs a few extra $$ and doesn't mind less than full length visit..
Would this suggestion be percieved as an attempt by me to get a lower price on something that I am paying more for now? I have to be careful as I don't want my new addiction to become another car payment.. but.. I would be agreeable to filling a need for her easily..
I have also considered contacting other providors.. but she is so close.. I have to ask myself ...why..
Why not just be honest. Tell her that you'd love to see her more frequently for a quickie if she is available for a short session. Tell her when would work and just say "call me or text me if you want to do it". Probably even better to make an appointment for the future for a normal session also, and bring this up in the context of 'if you happen to have time between now and then, then let me know'
I'll see how that goes on Monday when I am with her... I saw her today in the supermarket & she was very friendly.. like long lost friend..
It is a bit weird if you are greeting her like a long lost friend in the supermarket in a small town. You are surely not the only friend she has in town.
Posted By: Thoracicsurgeon
It is a bit weird if you are greeting her like a long lost friend in the supermarket in a small town. You are surely not the only friend she has in town.
No, she greeted ME.. like a long lost friend..
Sorry - didn't mean to suggest the wrong thing. I meant it is weird in general. Your neighbors may know her and recognize her. That is all.
Posted By: josulli
Posted By: Thoracicsurgeon
It is a bit weird if you are greeting her like a long lost friend in the supermarket in a small town. You are surely not the only friend she has in town.
No, she greeted ME.. like a long lost friend..
Even if 100% of the population knows what this girl does... That doesn't mean that the OP is doing that with her...
Only her and the OP know that...
I always find it funny when the guys get nervous..
I also always laugh when I have friends visit vegas and they play, "married, boyfriend or temporary?"
That being said, no one knows what's going on with the two of you except the two of you. 
Posted By: Thoracicsurgeon
Sorry - didn't mean to suggest the wrong thing. I meant it is weird in general. Your neighbors may know her and recognize her. That is all.
Posted By: josulli
Posted By: Thoracicsurgeon
It is a bit weird if you are greeting her like a long lost friend in the supermarket in a small town. You are surely not the only friend she has in town.
No, she greeted ME.. like a long lost friend..
Neihgbors won't know her... forsure.. She livses in a monthly rental motel by the highway.. I live in a neighborhood.. NO interaction between the two..
Just be very mindful that she probably has other obligations to tend to (school, kids, etc) so her time may not be as flexible as you think. Regarding the rate/ length of the visit, if you approach her in a nice, polite and honest way, she will let you know, sometimes as much as we would love to accommodate everyone it may not be possible, but it does not hurt to ask nicely, maybe she can work a monthly rate for x amount of visits etc, so she feels more inclined to do it if she has somewhat of a consistent income.
Posted By: palomam
Just be very mindful that she probably has other obligations to tend to (school, kids, etc) so her time may not be as flexible as you think. Regarding the rate/ length of the visit, if you approach her in a nice, polite and honest way, she will let you know, sometimes as much as we would love to accommodate everyone it may not be possible, but it does not hurt to ask nicely, maybe she can work a monthly rate for x amount of visits etc, so she feels more inclined to do it if she has somewhat of a consistent income.
Of course.. I am very mindful of that..
Posted By: josulli
I connected with a surburban providor via BP.. She has been reviwed here.. both good and bad.. I happen to like her very much.. The thing is that her incall location is like 7/10's of a mile from my house..
Drives me nuts driving by the hotel every day.. and it's been difficult to limit myself to once a week.. Let me put it this way.. I will be seeing her for the 3rd time on Monday.. and I just met her about 10 days before..
I was thinking about telling her that she could text me if she is open and I could be right there.. if she needs a few extra $$ and doesn't mind less than full length visit..
Would this suggestion be percieved as an attempt by me to get a lower price on something that I am paying more for now? I have to be careful as I don't want my new addiction to become another car payment.. but.. I would be agreeable to filling a need for her easily..
I have also considered contacting other providors.. but she is so close.. I have to ask myself ...why..
I get it.. but that's not a concern.. When I called her, I had no idea that she was so close.. That's just the way it is..
Well , and my opinion , you should have passed ! Okay, let's say she has a bf , or a neighbor runs into you , or she takes your plate down . Look , you can freaking walk there , you know what's gonna happen, your going to like her and she will end up at your house . Do you really want that ?
You'll be in the parking lot with binoculars looking for escalade to pull up , your smitten , yup you r . I'm trying to save you .......and to say its not an issue is nuts ..... because it is , and why did she pick your town ? hell if single go fuck the wives there ! LOL , open a pool company or cut some grass ... be careful that's all ...
Posted By: josulli
I get it.. but that's not a concern.. When I called her, I had no idea that she was so close.. That's just the way it is..
The OP wants her to call him...he wants to be needed. Nothing wrong with that...is there?
That is until she's calling him 4 times a day to come the fuck over and pay her so she can get whatever shit she needs to get. And then he'll be back here crying about what a bitch she is....and that it's all about the money.
Where is FarrahGFE to set this dude straight? I think she's using the OP's money now to get her nails done. But the hooker he's seeing isn't like that...nope!!
She needs this moron to save her...and she's so close LOL
What's the over/under on the "I've fallen" thread? Or is this it?
Posted By: Back_In_Black
Well , and my opinion , you should have passed ! Okay, let's say she has a bf , or a neighbor runs into you , or she takes your plate down . Look , you can freaking walk there , you know what's gonna happen, your going to like her and she will end up at your house . Do you really want that ?
You'll be in the parking lot with binoculars looking for escalade to pull up , your smitten , yup you r . I'm trying to save you .......and to say its not an issue is nuts ..... because it is , and why did she pick your town ? hell if single go fuck the wives there ! LOL , open a pool company or cut some grass ... be careful that's all ...
Posted By: josulli
I get it.. but that's not a concern.. When I called her, I had no idea that she was so close.. That's just the way it is..
Have you seen anessa , help me find the girl who sucked my dick two years ago , and somebody used an alias to tell me my damn joke was funny ? What afraid they'd get kicked out of the mangina club ? And Farrah , dontceven get me started ...
Posted By: ChgoCPA
The OP wants her to call him...he wants to be needed. Nothing wrong with that...is there?
That is until she's calling him 4 times a day to come the fuck over and pay her so she can get whatever shit she needs to get. And then he'll be back here crying about what a bitch she is....and that it's all about the money.
Where is FarrahGFE to set this dude straight? I think she's using the OP's money now to get her nails done. But the hooker he's seeing isn't like that...nope!!
She needs this moron to save her...and she's so close LOL
What's the over/under on the "I've fallen" thread? Or is this it?
Posted By: Back_In_Black
Well , and my opinion , you should have passed ! Okay, let's say she has a bf , or a neighbor runs into you , or she takes your plate down . Look , you can freaking walk there , you know what's gonna happen, your going to like her and she will end up at your house . Do you really want that ?
You'll be in the parking lot with binoculars looking for escalade to pull up , your smitten , yup you r . I'm trying to save you .......and to say its not an issue is nuts ..... because it is , and why did she pick your town ? hell if single go fuck the wives there ! LOL , open a pool company or cut some grass ... be careful that's all ...
Posted By: josulli
I get it.. but that's not a concern.. When I called her, I had no idea that she was so close.. That's just the way it is..
why piss on this guy's parade? Both him and her seem to be happy, WTF is the problem. If she turns all needy and clingy and starts calling him four times a day, either he will actually like it, or he can always turn off his hobby phone. That's the beauty about P4P, you only have to answer if you WANT to.
I like beating up on the clueless posters as much as the next guy, but come on assholes, IF he comes back here with a "i've fallen for a hooker" type post, THEN I will join you in kicking in the head. In the meantime he is happy, she is happy, and maybe he WANTS her to call him four times a day. I've been there, and enjoyed every minute of it, until I didn't and then I simply stopped calling or answering.
Believe it or not, some people can actually handle these types of situations, some people actually thrive on it, I know I do, and you've never seen me on here bawling my eyes out about some hooker I have fallen for, and you never will. So Fuck off you two, and let the guy enjoy himself.
Maybe if you weren't so busy setting up some other O/U's you'd have time to analyze the details here LOL
Let's see...I did comment that the OP may like the clingy shit...who knows till it happens. Of course his being a stones throw from her has everything to do with this. Or perhaps it is just his way of figuring he can get his nuts off and pay her next to nothing for the privilege. Nah...no monger thinks like that.
I don't see the OP as clueless...but rather a calculating monger.
After all he's now seen the hooker twice and is looking for a third time tomorrow. Hell...he may already be paying her BP ads for her?
Sure hope the OP doesn't want to bash me in the throat LOL
Posted By: GaGambler
why piss on this guy's parade? Both him and her seem to be happy, WTF is the problem. If she turns all needy and clingy and starts calling him four times a day, either he will actually like it, or he can always turn off his hobby phone. That's the beauty about P4P, you only have to answer if you WANT to.
I like beating up on the clueless posters as much as the next guy, but come on assholes, IF he comes back here with a "i've fallen for a hooker" type post, THEN I will join you in kicking in the head. In the meantime he is happy, she is happy, and maybe he WANTS her to call him four times a day. I've been there, and enjoyed every minute of it, until I didn't and then I simply stopped calling or answering.
Believe it or not, some people can actually handle these types of situations, some people actually thrive on it, I know I do, and you've never seen me on here bawling my eyes out about some hooker I have fallen for, and you never will. So Fuck off you two, and let the guy enjoy himself.
I'm just curious to see how the discount works out , and how she feels when he's mia on his regular visits and she's short the cash that shes counting on....sounds like a plan but this is one story I'm stating tuned in for ...my mkneys on him ns....and the scene in the parking lot should be good entertainment ....bro your a romantic like me . Hey hope it works and I hope anessas fan club find her too, it breaks my heart that so many are lost and sad ....brings a tear to my ear ( well a chuckle ) .l8r .
Posted By: GaGambler
why piss on this guy's parade? Both him and her seem to be happy, WTF is the problem. If she turns all needy and clingy and starts calling him four times a day, either he will actually like it, or he can always turn off his hobby phone. That's the beauty about P4P, you only have to answer if you WANT to.
I like beating up on the clueless posters as much as the next guy, but come on assholes, IF he comes back here with a "i've fallen for a hooker" type post, THEN I will join you in kicking in the head. In the meantime he is happy, she is happy, and maybe he WANTS her to call him four times a day. I've been there, and enjoyed every minute of it, until I didn't and then I simply stopped calling or answering.
Believe it or not, some people can actually handle these types of situations, some people actually thrive on it, I know I do, and you've never seen me on here bawling my eyes out about some hooker I have fallen for, and you never will. So Fuck off you two, and let the guy enjoy himself.
Hell...I'm willing to put some money on this "Pretty Woman" scenario as well LOL
Maybe he'll find Anessa in the parking lot while his new gal pal blows him?
Did you ever notice how the posts start to change around Holiday time? Yep...lots of lonely guys...and lots of down on their luck gals. It's a match made in heaven.
Posted By: Back_In_Black
I'm just curious to see how the discount works out , and how she feels when he's mia on his regular visits and she's short the cash that shes counting on....sounds like a plan but this is one story I'm stating tuned in for ...my mkneys on him ns....and the scene in the parking lot should be good entertainment ....bro your a romantic like me . Hey hope it works and I hope anessas fan club find her too, it breaks my heart that so many are lost and sad ....brings a tear to my ear ( well a chuckle ) .l8r .
Posted By: GaGambler
why piss on this guy's parade? Both him and her seem to be happy, WTF is the problem. If she turns all needy and clingy and starts calling him four times a day, either he will actually like it, or he can always turn off his hobby phone. That's the beauty about P4P, you only have to answer if you WANT to.
I like beating up on the clueless posters as much as the next guy, but come on assholes, IF he comes back here with a "i've fallen for a hooker" type post, THEN I will join you in kicking in the head. In the meantime he is happy, she is happy, and maybe he WANTS her to call him four times a day. I've been there, and enjoyed every minute of it, until I didn't and then I simply stopped calling or answering.
Believe it or not, some people can actually handle these types of situations, some people actually thrive on it, I know I do, and you've never seen me on here bawling my eyes out about some hooker I have fallen for, and you never will. So Fuck off you two, and let the guy enjoy himself.
Your on to something , with the changing season and holidays approaching it does seem like many are reflecting on their lives or.trying not to and loosing themselves in a fake sense of love .... I mean is a freaking hour or two really that good , can certain agency girls really be the hidden treasure or king tuts tomb ? What's the real problem here , well looks like Dr. Phil will. Stay on the air .... and I'd say many here tune in but won't admit it !
Posted By: ChgoCPA
Hell...I'm willing to put some money on this "Pretty Woman" scenario as well LOL
Maybe he'll find Anessa in the parking lot while his new gal pal blows him?
Did you ever notice how the posts start to change around Holiday time? Yep...lots of lonely guys...and lots of down on their luck gals. It's a match made in heaven.
Posted By: Back_In_Black
I'm just curious to see how the discount works out , and how she feels when he's mia on his regular visits and she's short the cash that shes counting on....sounds like a plan but this is one story I'm stating tuned in for ...my mkneys on him ns....and the scene in the parking lot should be good entertainment ....bro your a romantic like me . Hey hope it works and I hope anessas fan club find her too, it breaks my heart that so many are lost and sad ....brings a tear to my ear ( well a chuckle ) .l8r .
Posted By: GaGambler
why piss on this guy's parade? Both him and her seem to be happy, WTF is the problem. If she turns all needy and clingy and starts calling him four times a day, either he will actually like it, or he can always turn off his hobby phone. That's the beauty about P4P, you only have to answer if you WANT to.
I like beating up on the clueless posters as much as the next guy, but come on assholes, IF he comes back here with a "i've fallen for a hooker" type post, THEN I will join you in kicking in the head. In the meantime he is happy, she is happy, and maybe he WANTS her to call him four times a day. I've been there, and enjoyed every minute of it, until I didn't and then I simply stopped calling or answering.
Believe it or not, some people can actually handle these types of situations, some people actually thrive on it, I know I do, and you've never seen me on here bawling my eyes out about some hooker I have fallen for, and you never will. So Fuck off you two, and let the guy enjoy himself.
Hobbying close to home increases the risk you or your vehicle will be recognized. A gal was offering in call near my home... I never saw her there... drove 3/4 hour to see her rather than park where my vehicle would be recognized
It doesn't seem like you are concerned about people noticing you, just if its ok to ask for a break in the rate for not a full session.. (Lack of a better way to say it, you get what I mean)..
My suggestion - I very rarely see people where I live. Only if its someone that I have seen a few times and that's still questionable.. That being said, there is one local that if he wanted to set up a "I'll come by in the morning twice a week" I would most definitely cut him a break. He's nice, polite, respectful and it would get me motivated to start my day.
Being in this industry off and on since 2006, he is one of two people that I would extend that to. The other one was in New York and it worked out perfectly. He would text, "I'm by the train station are you free?" If I was, he came by for three seconds of chatter and a oral fix. It worked out perfectly for both of us.
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Papers for the office √ and daily "oral fix " √ , new menu item , blow on the go √√√+ , that's cute ...
..ummm any chance your near me ???????......
Posted By: alyssainnewyork
It doesn't seem like you are concerned about people noticing you, just if its ok to ask for a break in the rate for not a full session.. (Lack of a better way to say it, you get what I mean)..
My suggestion - I very rarely see people where I live. Only if its someone that I have seen a few times and that's still questionable.. That being said, there is one local that if he wanted to set up a "I'll come by in the morning twice a week" I would most definitely cut him a break. He's nice, polite, respectful and it would get me motivated to start my day.
Being in this industry off and on since 2006, he is one of two people that I would extend that to. The other one was in New York and it worked out perfectly. He would text, "I'm by the train station are you free?" If I was, he came by for three seconds of chatter and a oral fix. It worked out perfectly for both of us.
But if you click on my name you could easily find out if you are near me..
That being said, it's happened twice in my time involved in this.. It would take a lot to find a third.
Xx
A
You sound like fun , if you have a sense of humor , are romantic , got a cute bod and a grin for sin , your my gal xoxox.
Okay would you have a cup of coffee waiting for me ?
Yup I'm that easy xoxo.
Posted By: alyssainnewyork
But if you click on my name you could easily find out if you are near me..
That being said, it's happened twice in my time involved in this.. It would take a lot to find a third.
Xx
A
Seriously, the two things that I needed when I went back east were my:
1) rain boots
2) Keurig!
That being said, my username is very misleading.. It has half changed to Alyssa Vegas. I'm no longer in New York.. I will be in November.. For the end part of the week after thanksgiving.. Pretty sure the chain hotel that I stay at always has a coffee maker, though the coffee they provide is disgusting.. So it's all yours.
Left the bad apple for sunny days , kinda a change of pace place . However I do go often and will extend my visits when a lovely lady is waiting ...okay we skip the coffee and grab some brunch then who knows how bout we leave it up to fate xoxoxo........
Posted By: alyssainnewyork
Seriously, the two things that I needed when I went back east were my:
1) rain boots
2) Keurig!
That being said, my username is very misleading.. It has half changed to Alyssa Vegas. I'm no longer in New York.. I will be in November.. For the end part of the week after thanksgiving.. Pretty sure the chain hotel that I stay at always has a coffee maker, though the coffee they provide is disgusting.. So it's all yours.
I am in the same boat, my handle GaGambler stands of course for "Georgia" gambler, but I haven't lived in Georgia for quite some time now, I now make Dallas Texas my home. I do still stay active on the Atl board however, which of course reinforces the impression that I live in Ga. lol
...the day she texts to come on over she needs a few bucks & you can't or don't have it. Then you open up a whole other can of worms. I say don't do it. It's very easy to get sucked in even when it's your own doing. Keep it business and keep it where you call her when you want to see her.
It's not that big a deal, I have done it countless times where I tell a lady that I happen to like that she can "call me anytime" In my case it has led to more than one OTC LTR, not that the OP is looking for something like that, but as long as he stays in the "real world" what's the harm?
People like to project their own weaknesses and attitudes onto others, just because one man turns into a puddle of goo because he falls for a hooker doesn't mean that every other man should steer clear of having anything but clear cut business relationships with providers.
Some guys like the idea of a hottie "Calling him" for a booty call, the fact that it's P4P really is irrelevant IMO. I say go for it, and who knows, she might be the one to OFFER a discount without the OP ever having to ask.
...was simply to point out one more thing to think about. I wouldn't do it. There are others that have told stories of this situation going south. I was sure someone else would give an opposing point of view. I don't have a problem breaking it off and/or saying no when it's time.
I book 1 hour dates but rarely stay more than 45 minutes.
I pay for the hour.
Asking if she would see you for a shorter visit is not.
She can either lower her rate or not. That is up to her.
How you ask it could be viewed as haggling.
things that can be perceived as good or bad so the safe thing to do would be to keep as is. You are asking for trouble in the long run because your attraction subside over time.
Posted By: anonymousfun
things that can be perceived as good or bad so the safe thing to do would be to keep as is. You are asking for trouble in the long run because your attraction subside over time.
THat's a great point.. time will tell..
though you're paying, you know.
Maybe limiting and abiding by her time frames will help you not look like a stalker.
Don't worry I won't fall for her.. She is friendly but business like and I have already been burned by a stripper last year.. who flew all over to see me and then got upset because I wouldn't pay her rent.. she was gorgeous.. (a lot more than my provider now).. and very sweet... but not business like.. but burn me once..
I'll see how this turns out.. The 1st time the providor was col.. The second time.. she was smoking in the room.. I don't smoke... but I will overlook that of course.. but it kind of pissed meoff.. so I have my eyes open.. and I have no intention of trying to "save" her..
