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Was She Out Of Line?angry_smile
TalkToTrees 2566 reads
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On another review board, in a few forums, I posted some stuff.  
Nothing major, just responding to threads and whatnot.

For some reason, this provider sends me a PM, telling me to "chill out" and behave in the forums. (I've had website admins tell me to adhere to forums rules... that's different)

Wow, in all of those years in the hobby thing, I have never had a provider telling me how to conduct myself in ANY review website forums.

2 questions:

1 - Was she out of line by telling me how to conduct myself on a review website?
2 - If you had a date with her this weekend, would you cancel the date because of her actions on a forum or a PM?

The Forest Waits

F.Y.I., Regarding #2, no, I didn't have a date with this provider.

I'm confused.
I'm sure you have problems though.
Good luck with that.

You honestly give a shit about someone sending you a PM to STFU?  Grow some balls.

TalkToTrees798 reads

You were actually in line... in front of her. Why did you push her over?
What were you doing in line?

You didn't answer the questions...  

The Forest Waits

Posted By: ChgoCPA
You honestly give a shit about someone sending you a PM to STFU?  Grow some balls.

1 People go ape shit here every day. people are people. why expect there to be different.
2 Get real,, Who in there right mind wants to go one on one with a pissed off provider. Mr. America, its 10 o'clock, do now where your dick is, now that she removed it.

And no, she wasn't out of line. If you're going to post things in a public forum, you gotta be able to handle some backlash once in a while.

But some dudes would rather hit the RAP button rather than confront other dudes (and some gals) on this board.

Posted By: Tobi Telford
And no, she wasn't out of line. If you're going to post things in a public forum, you gotta be able to handle some backlash once in a while.
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TalkToTrees1057 reads

She sent me a PM, she never responded to my public postings.  

If you're going to base your opinion of me on a review website, I do feel sorry for you.

The Forest Waits
 

Posted By: Tobi Telford
And no, she wasn't out of line. If you're going to post things in a public forum, you gotta be able to handle some backlash once in a while.

Posted By: TalkToTrees
She sent me a PM, she never responded to my public postings.  
   
 If you're going to base your opinion of me on a review website, I do feel sorry for you.  
   
 The Forest Waits  
   
   
Posted By: Tobi Telford
And no, she wasn't out of line. If you're going to post things in a public forum, you gotta be able to handle some backlash once in a while.

With only tin cans and tangled wire to communicate with each other.

But, alas, I'd probably join you in the end, just to get away from the never ending corn fields in the Land of The Normal.

Anyone up for Go?

That's all we have. Or are you going to reveal who you are IRL and then invite her to coffee?

Rather than embarrassing you by posting on the board for everyone else to see. I would take her PM as a kindness and a token of respect.

Gogo and Didi Wait

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-- Modified on 6/25/2014 9:08:05 PM

Text has no emotion unless if you consider when someone caps all the sentencing-then it's suppose to mean you're YELLING .... But  maybe she felt what you write was offensive or not to her liking .... But telling someone to chill isn't out of line... Hope you replied-"mind your own damn biz" in caps then she can tell u to chill!!! Lol 😘😘😘😘

Since, you are seeking some sort of absolution here, who knows you mat have been ass.  

To your second question, no I would not cancel, instead I just may extend by an hour or two.

Don't really care for people like you bringing yor issue or no issue to bords to try and crucify a provider, which shows you are still child in an adult body.  

K, the usual suspects blast away.

When tricks try and tell them how to act on a fuck board.  

I would not worry about it, shit I don't when some uppity trick tries to tell me how to act or my business will fail. Just carry on!

Dudes are running for the hills when you post things like this. My god, don't you care about your business?

The use of irony may require the concept of a double audience. Fowler's A Dictionary of Modern English Usage says:

Irony is a form of utterance that postulates a double audience, consisting of one party that hearing shall hear & shall not understand, & another party that, when more is meant than meets the ear, is aware both of that more & of the outsiders' incomprehension.[4

Because I don't get reviewed I don't get to see board guys who won't fart unless they see a review or ten. So since this is not my market share it matters not if I am anonymous. And you are right, I can be me and not bother to kiss ass when I am not being paid to. LOL

Because no matter whether I see anyone from here or not, I am not about to put myself in a position where some fat assed trick who doesn't like what I say can then do what some of the guys do, check out the website and rip the lady apart. And she cannot retaliate because guess what, tricks don;t have websites.  

And this goes way beyond buyer seller stuff, this is common garden bullshit that gets pulled on here daily. Why do you think some guys resent the fact I am not up for pot shots?  

I mean just listen to the jibes about the photo board. Yeah I want some ugly fuck picking on me. All is fun when one half is hidden and the other out there. I am hidden, you are hidden, so we get to play on an even field.

Being anonymous takes away that element. The guys I see I like and they treat me very well as they get treated. Boards are tough and when one side holds the cards and uses that in an unfair and hurtful way, well, it takes all the fun out of it.  

Being anon, I can play and at least feel there is a sense of fairness. Or maybe I am just a giant pussy and the other ladies have bigger lady balls than I do....LOL who knows. All I know is I actually have fun here and it helps me not look at men as a total bunch of assholes.

Of the way other cultures treat women and for the most part am very grateful to be in a country that is not medieval.  

My comment on "it helps me" is only in reference to how some of the guys on this and other fuck boards treat and refer to hookers. It can be very easy to tar the rest of the male population after being on this board for a week. Realizing that it could be bravado or insecurity that makes them act like that, takes away the sting.

And for the record it is NOT US males that irk me, it is males of any culture who treat women as second class citizens.

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It is your choice to feel anxious and sad. Why I have no idea because I have no complaints. Maybe mind your own business and take care of your own shit and you'll feel better.

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At least you elicited a response.  So, she cared enough about you or at least what you said to respond.

I could some guys, the sub types, getting turned on by a gal who is dominant like that.  Perhaps she was coming on to you that way.  You ought to open a dialog rather than assume she is getting medieval on you for no good reason.

It could be the start of a wonderful relationship, after all.

Being ignored, is the ultimate diss, ain't it?

if a dude sent you the PM saying to "chill out". Why would getting one from a gal be so different for you?

So:

1. Not out of line at all. Maybe you earned it?
2. I might cancel. I might not. Depends upon what was said, how it was said, and how it was resolved, if at all.

It is easy to misread or project when you are reading.  I have made funny jokes that get misread and someone says I am hostile when I was being hilarious.   You can't teach someone a sense of humor plus you don't know if she was drunk or on drugs either.  You know nothing about the person on the other side of a handle.  Ignore and Carry On!  Don't add fuel to her fire.  

 
Madison

TalkToTrees1295 reads

reply out of all of those above yours.  

Plus, your response was the most mature and responsible.

Thanks!

The Forest Waits
 

Posted By: SuperBustyBlonde
It is easy to misread or project when you are reading.  I have made funny jokes that get misread and someone says I am hostile when I was being hilarious.   You can't teach someone a sense of humor plus you don't know if she was drunk or on drugs either.  You know nothing about the person on the other side of a handle.  Ignore and Carry On!  Don't add fuel to her fire.    
   
   
 Madison

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