I can always make up another time to meet up with a bro.  I would rather see my ATF.  Plus I know this from experience that she has blew off her girl-friends to cum see me.

I got a divorce and I go to the casino with my ATF...

Let’s say your ATF is headed into town for one night and your Bro wants to watch the game.  Do you go to his house or head to her hotel?  

OR, You have a date planned with provider you have been wanting to meet for months (think EC) and your Bro calls and wants to go to the casino that night.  Does the bro take a back seat to the Ho?

Here's another twist...Do Hos ever come before SOs?  SO wants you to come shopping for wallpaper and you had a date planned that night Does the SO come before the ho?

My take is Hos before Bros and Bros before SOs.  The rational...You can blow off your Bro for a Ho and he'll totally understand. And you can blow off your SO for a Bro because she's come to expect it, but if you blow off your Ho more than once or twice, you'll need to find a new provider and you'll have lost a recommendation, which makes finding the new provider a bit more complicated. THEN your SO will wonder why all of a sudden you want her to act like a Ho.



-- Modified on 8/3/2011 2:34:10 PM

You don't have to see your ATF everytime she comes to your city. Providers know we all have lives, and I don't think any mature well minded provider expect you to see her everytime she comes through.

Also you can always see your ATF before going to the game, or after the game.

I'll never put a Bro or ATF, before my SO.

Brother before ho.  You pay for pussy, just give her enough notice and heads up.  Karate here (brother), karate not here (ho).  Now go sand the floor!

Go with whichever one you made the arrangements with first. I treat them all as first come first serve. If there is an unexpected event of some urgency that changes things. With the SO that may be hard to do because she feels that she is #1 all the time. But that's my point of demarcation.

I think your getting your principles mixed up, or letting your emotions filter your decisions. Let me be clear, family is always first. Your Bro (friend), is some1 that knows you personally--as well as your SO. You can never get that mix up. Your provider, only knows you physically, you are paying for a service (for her time) and you can never neglect a personal relationship with your Bro or SO over a provider. You know how many providers are out there, how many Bros and SO you have? Think about that, you know that this is just a hobby right? Its just a hobby, and its just a small part of your life, don't forget about that.

Of course it's easy for me as I rarely book multi hour sessions. So for me the easy way out is tell my "Bro", that I am off to see a "HO", and for him to keep my seat warm for an hour or so.

See how easy it is when you can simply tell the truth.

As for SO's, I dont hobby when in a committed relationship, so that's not an issue for me.

Just happened to me...

Had something planned with a Lady and my Bro called me up a couple of hours before my planned time together to go out with him and some hot girls to meet up with.... VIP table at a hot club on his dime.

Had to pass on my Bro who attracts all of the hot girls and go with My Ho...

It goes to who had the plans set first.

If my Bro would have told me about his plans first then I would have gone with my Bro and put the HO on the back burner for another time.

Occasionally I have to cancel on ladies (well in advance) due to clients and my work but I can't cancel on them because my Bro comes up with something fantastic to do when I already have a date scheduled with a lady.

(No offense to the ladies out there using "Ho's" .... just sticking to the theme of the post.)