I know all of you consider yourselves professional and try to give each client their money's worth. In my business I try to do the same.

In my business there are customers that, for whatever reason,
frequency of purchases, (1-2 visits / mo),
volume of purchases, (2-4 hrs)
ease of doing business, (clean, trimmed, considerate, on time etc) or in your case simply attraction, cause me (you) to give special considerations.

This does not mean that everyone else gets LESS, simply that some get more. (Now if a guy is smart he finds out what those things are that might cause him to "get more" and do those things).

Anyways, when these exceptions are made for one person and that person notifies everyone else of that via review, does that make you prone to make MORE exceptions in the future, or less?

If you let one guy stay past 1 hour and he tells everyone in his review that he stayed for 1 1/2, creating the impression in other's minds it's okay to stay past 1 hour, does that encourage you to let MORE people stay past the hour or less?

If your business is FBSM and for whatever reason you decide to blow a guy or do FS when you might not otherwise, and he tells everyone via review, (or maybe you did'nt but he says you did) does that make you MORE likely to make such exceptions or FEWER?

In my business, if push comes to shove, I just stop making exceptions because I just can't afford to give everyone "the deal". This is of course to the detriment of my special customers who before "got the deal" which is why I tell them not to tell anyone.

How is it for you?

PS, while I realize the politcally correct answer is "everyone gets treated equally" we all know that's just not always the case.

Thankfully so. Reward encourages behavior.

BK


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Personally, I like to reward loyalty, so I don't give specials up front.  There needs to be something special about the relationship between me and client.  Loyalty is huge.

Then I look for ways to give little extras - b.d. gifts, christmas presents, maybe a session sans gratuity.  But bear in mind, these clients are loyal and have for the most part earned special treatment.  

As far as your question, I had that problem once with someone reviewing me on the JAG board, and I refused to see the man after that because of the way that he bragged about it.  Like he'd gotten away with something and now was showing the way to the brotherhood as if they might "also manipulate" me to get more.

I try to be very careful about this sort of thing now.  Doesn't mean false reviews don't happen, ohmygosh, had a rash of those making false claims about my services.



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Why would they treat a rude, smelly, obnoxious guy the same as a kind, clean, respectful gentleman?  I don't think they could, even if they tried.  These women are not robots!

The challenge for the provider is to reward the gems, try not to piss off the frogs too much, and don't let bad or revealing reviews get to you.  I suppose they could ask guys not to reveal too much, but it won't always work.


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It's a two-way street here.  I have also read reviews concerning providers who did the exact opposite, and rushed the customer and didn't really give them what they should have.  There is, after all, a section for total ripoffs.  Point is, in certain cases both buyer and seller beware applies.

Puts me in the position to give every date equal treatment.

Elise [email protected]

Makes for a bad blowjob

My experiences continue to reinforce my basic belief that women are extremely loving, kind and giving by nature.....treat a lady nicely enough and you'll get the world.

I've had two 1-hour dates in the last month that turned into over 3 hours, no additional compensation asked for or expected (I gave it anyway).  I've had everything from additional acts not typically offered given me to a free session just last week.  I understand that these things happen because of how I treat women, and I don't detail this in reviews naming the ladie's name.  When these things happen, feel special, and keep in between you and that wonderful girl.

Uncommon kindness and ultimate discretion is what allows these things to continue to happen.

Jacksonlips

This is a political question and you will get a politically correct answer, both from the ladies and the gents. (just like the ones you see here now).

The raw answer to your question is, the ladies pick and choose and DO NOT treat every guy the same, and the answer you get from the guys here, is sugar coated, the truth is, they will see the ladies who they can get more out of.

That is SOOOO nice to hear I really get apprehensive every time I see a response to a post....

I've made.


I have met a lot of men who I swear were sent to me by the angels.  

I have also met just enough "frogs" to remind me to appreciate the "good ones".
 

xoxo

FiFi


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I just tacked on a couple of hours to a 2 hour session today. I told him upfront to not worry about the time. I wanted to try a bunch of new things that I felt my client hadn't tried before. It was THAT important for me to do that. Sometimes I get inspired and I have to do what I do best. He didn't seem to put much of a struggle. Also...It didn't hurt that that was the only person I saw during my three day stay in Atlanta, (look out Tampa, I've got an itch to scratch---meow!) and that I have been a horny kinky bee-atch since my Belladonna night (Lord Have mercy) AND he brought toys, restraints, champagne, chocolate sauce, and strawberries (that he was later too exhausted to eat) AND I didn't feel like finishing my taxes...you get the picture and the wooden frame on that one. A lot of it has to do with serendipity. I don't feel like others suffer, as I am a low volume provider. I do feel that some of my regulars try to prolong their stay past what time was previously arranged, and it is always awkward to ask them to leave. Its hard to say to a guest: its time for you to go. As far as reviews go, I am noted as not being a clockwatcher, however I have a 2 hour minimum, so I can relax a little. I'm in this for the fun.

And we never even talked about Politics. This is one republican who will vote yes on any proposition from Michelle!!!

Insured for 2 billion.

Looks are great, but classy, charming and nice are the biggest turn-on's. I feel this is the guy's "Special Time". Something an individual has saved up for. I do my best to fulfill their desires. But when a client is super nice it puts  me in an extra special receptive mood. I think if you treat your lady nice they will reciprocate. This goes without saying that the guys really appreciate nice little extra touches themselves.

such favors occur, or if they should occur, or even how to get them. My question was whether or not they should be mentioned in a review.

"""Anyways, when these exceptions are made for one person and that person notifies everyone else of that via review, does that make you prone to make MORE exceptions in the future, or less?"""

BK