I recently rejoined P 4 1 1 after a few years away. I had some personal challenges (cancer) that kept me away from the hobby for the most part except for 2 special friends who took care of me.

So this week, after rejoining, I sent an inquiry to a young lady who will be touring my area.  She responded as follows  
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You do realize your okays are over 7 years old, that’s beyond obsolete. Not sure why you would contact anyone with that
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I thought her reply was a little rude but whatever, it is her choice who she sees. My question is should I go delete all of my old okays and be left with a lot fewer or do I keep them? I actually think they show I have a long history of being a reliable and trustworthy gentleman.

Just see a few newbie friendly p411 providers. Then you’ll have fresh okays and your long track record will be substantiated. I went through a return to the hobby myself after 6 years. Easy peasy

old history Okays are better than no history at all. I see you got a new fresh Okay so things are turning better.

Happy mongering!

...and I am proud of every one!

One girl I inquired with told she wanted to see 2 okays within the past 6 months.  Soon enough I got 2 new okays but lost interest in that girl.  Don't think I missed anything special...just saying.

Some people are set in how they operate, however there are many companions that would be understandably flexible with many different screening options. Might I suggest first sending  an email directly to your next lady with an intro, explaining the situation? And be prepared to also be flexible in additional screening if she requests it.  

And congrats on kicking cancers ass!

-Adriana

I spent a lot of time and resources dancing with the ladies all over NC/SC/VA, doing the same as you(glad you are now O.K.)--taking a break, but now trying to get back in the saddle;P~~~ Also, having trouble figuring out the new ways(  The Indies I enjoyed, have gone on, I hope, with their lives with loving friends, family---actually have a wonderful memory of a lil lady, whose mom told her to stop flipping burgers and get her a couple of regular clients) THANK YOU MOM) I was one of the lucky 3, AND she even introduced me to her roomie, who alternated weeks with me. AH, the good ole days---LOL. Also, was a VIP with all the agencies----Any Wendy ladies still active;P~~~)  O, Well, will figure it out)

You dodged a bullet. If she has that kind of attitude with you, who needs that. Find a couple newbie friendly women and try them. If they ask questions move on. Where are you located? Some regions have more providers than others.

in the past. If they remember you well, they may be willing to serve as references for you. Problem at least partly solved.  Then again, 7 years IS a long time....

Thank God!  After being a Survivor, don't be put off by a somewhat rude reply!

 
Indeed, seven year old "ok's" are not necessarily acceptable to some.  

 
You'd be surprised how some people change in one's demeanor due to  life's unfortunate  
curve balls  or  from a  self-imposed  behavioral  decline.   {Alcohol abuse  &/or
Drug use}

 
e.g.:   Deteriorating health;  Dementia, CTE, Cancer, even Diabetes can sometimes affect
one's behavior.

 
An acrimonious divorce,  financial decline,  job loss,  a death in the family,  or forced  
relocation to an unfavorable state or Country;  

 
All are pretty self-explanatory to reflect one's possible subversive personality change.

In my short six years of Companionship,  I've definitely experienced three notable  
and offensive behavioral changes in said  regular  Clients.   0f course I had to sever ties.

Just as in the "Civvie" world of dating;  people change, and sometimes not in a positive  
manner.

In response to answering your question however,  indeed  I would keep the "Ok's", as  
stated,  that they show a lengthy foray in P4P, with reliability at least from seven years ago.

I would encourage any Provider  with  whom you're  attempting  to schedule with  to do her  
research further.        
Contacting a couple of the  "Provider Ok's",  to affirm if  they'd still agree to visit with you even today,
would be a start.

Good Luck  and  God  Bless Sir,
Angelina Jones