So, in so many of the reviews I have read, I
notice that intercourse is performed with a
condom. Yet, all types of mutual unprotected
oral sex is taking place. I understand the birth
control aspect...but from an STD viewpoint this
dos'nt make sense to me.I think any type of
oral with a condom or dental dam sounds terrible
and boring, but the alternative seems awfully
risky. Is it just that, or is there something I am overlooking?

It's really none of your business what others do, frankly. Yes, they happen like you say and the provider has the right to not give them in that manner and the hobbyist has the right to demand a condom or a dental dam or not to partake at all. Don't over think it.

Most of the experienced people on this board acknowledge the STD risk, but insist that it is remote with oral sex.  Some profess to having seen over a hundred women without ever getting an STD. If you research Herpes, it will scare the hell out of ya, but the consensus here would suggest that the risk information is inflated. I dunno.

Thanks for the responses. BTW, I know it's not
my business what you do, I was'nt asking for
details, just general info. I think if I was
going to overthink something, one of those things
would be STD's.

The risk for transmission of almost all STDs through oral sex is very small. Chalymidia is the notable exception.

STDs can be transmitted even if one uses condoms so we can never reduce our risk to zero. Just do what you feel comfortable with.

Get tested, and re-tested a few times annually. That is as much thought you should put into it. Beyond that, you are living in a world of what-if and that and 1.99 will get you a cup of java and a refill at your coffee shop. The only prevention for STDs is behavior. Watch what you do. Accept no kisses on the mouth, nothing bare, and maybe even stay home and be only carnal with your wife. That's my prescription, that should give you plenty of time to wax philosophically about STDs.

Oral is one thing, but what I think is even more risky is all the rimming that goes on according to the reviews. Putting that thing near and around either hole without a cover is just plain stupid.

Not to mention covered anal followed by covered vaginal without changing condoms, ladies do you really want the rear end stuff up the front end?

Or did you ever think of BBBJCIM, followed by DFK and then DATY, talk about hello kitty?

Ya, I was pretty much including rimming in
"All types of mutual, unprotected oral sex."
And what about the guy who CIM before you, and
then you DFK her? I am not trying to be silly
here, and I know a high-end provider is going
to be as clean as possible.

My point I guess is that I love giving and
receiving oral with women, but I am not much
of one for Russian Roulette.

Casinos win millions with the odds at 49:51. Yes, the life impact of an STD is much greater than losing your mortgage payment, but much less likely.  I've been with more than 100 women, am careful, get tested regularly, and have had no issues. Your body decides when it will allow a bug into its system..not much you can do about it.  So, if you can, stop worrying if you are doing what you need to do.

are the stupid words that come out of my mouth! (now and then)

''Chlamydia uncommonly infects the throat, and it is rarely if ever transmitted by oral sex.''

http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Chlamydia-from-oral-sex-and-very-little-vaginal-penetration-Plus-antibiotics/show/249343

H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D is trhe exopert and this is a great forum .NGU can be caught thru oral too easy and can be cleared up easy with antibiotics.

over shit like that!  Yes there are risks, but much less with oral than unprotected intercourse.
Maybe you should quit driving, someone might T-bone your car with his jacked up 4 wheel drive pickup, and an empty 6 pack on his seat, and you will be miraculously saved, but will have lost all 4 limbs and your penis.

Look, go to your next (or first) date wearing a hockey mask, latex gloves, and a female condom in your mouth.  Don't forget to ask for a CBJ.
Won't be much fun, but at least you'll be able to sleep at night!  Geesh!

There ain't no way in hell I would rims an escort

Every few weeks topic comes up.

Repeat after me- "Oral Sex is Good". Enjoy

mouthwash does didly to prevent STDs

Repeat after me NGU

Ya, thanks for not being too harsh. I appreciate
the viewpoints. I am new at this, and am just trying to gather info before I just leap in. I know my post was a bit ridiculous, like when you
ask somebody a question that you already know the
answer to, but you are hoping to here something
different from people with experience.

I am not a prude. I have always had unprotected
oral with the women I have been fortunate enough
to be with in my life, and can't imagine it any
other way. Thanks again for sharing your input.

Nor I a client.

Don't let others here belittle you, your concern is valid. Everybody has to decide what they will and won't risk. What they will and won't compromise on.

Obviously, a bbbj is gonna feel better than a cbj. But not only wouldn't I get blown without a cover, I'd be wary of being with a provider who's willing to do so.

And as much as I love having a girl cum on my face, I can't even fathom going down on a provider. Even in my dating life, I have to feel pretty comfortable with her before involving my tongue.

Do some research. Find out the stats and relative risks. And only do whatever you feel comfortable with.

On a tier of high risk of std's & uncovered sex. oral from woman to man is at the bottom. I very rarely let a guy daty of course it only takes one time but. Any guy I've given a cbj never complained though so either i'm that good or ultra thin or extra sensitive condoms help.

Ya, thanks man. I don't think it takes a tough
guy to go out and dance around in a minefield.
That's more just suicidal. I am not criticizing
others here who do choose to engage in that
behaviour either, cuz It's pretty freaking tempting, especially with some of the ladies
I see in the photos from the top-end agencies!




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