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shudaknownbetter 815 reads
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Being I'm am over 50, not a young stud anymore...  I am embarased that I was so thoughtless (though the women never complained and have even said they were not disappointed).  But I have learned that I real love pleasing my partner, giving her more than I get.  A great lover responds to that by trying to give me more than she gets...  an amazing competition with no losers.  
I've been hobbying a couple of years, less than a dozen ladies...  TER has really transformed this from a crap shoot to an intelligent selection process...  I too am greatful.
skb

Emruson1280 reads

So...One year ago when my curiosity finally ended up here I found information and support.I'm almost 50, was married for decades and totally faithful (which means no sex for the last several years), now divorced 6 years and have finally found TER, the 'hobby' and a great community of people.
And while I've yet to go a second time (and I will), my first time was incredible and the lady very patient (95% of our time was talking...so now I'm anxious for action the next time).  
Maybe this belongs on the newbie board, but have any of you found you want to improve yourself as you continue to pursue the hobby (and these lovely ladies)? Not in the hope of attachment, not at all. Maybe it's just a self image thing...Sorry for the ramble, suffice it to say I am very impressed with most, 97% of the posters I read on the board. :)

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shudaknownbetter816 reads

Being I'm am over 50, not a young stud anymore...  I am embarased that I was so thoughtless (though the women never complained and have even said they were not disappointed).  But I have learned that I real love pleasing my partner, giving her more than I get.  A great lover responds to that by trying to give me more than she gets...  an amazing competition with no losers.  
I've been hobbying a couple of years, less than a dozen ladies...  TER has really transformed this from a crap shoot to an intelligent selection process...  I too am greatful.
skb

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hungry1951443 reads

I had my first encounter about 2-1/2 years ago, and it was a real eye opener. I find it very erotic and satisfying being with a lady who lets you know just what she likes without being a "traffic cop". That's something rarely found with a wife, at least with my two wives. I'm in my late 50's and I know that I can do more now to help satisfy a lady than I could 3 years ago. I'll give most of the credit to the ladies for being very good teachers, but I would also hope that maybe I've been a good student. I'm sure that I fumbled around at first, but these ladies have been paiteint and given me some confidence that I never had before.

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BizzaroSuperdude354 reads

most of us here who have been here for a bit now (5 years) wonder why we are here... and for those of us with a VERY similar story, well you add to our confirmation that we are not oddities or abnormals...  Thank you for your post...

As you say, married (in my case) for 10 years, faithful even though I had opportunities (I am now closing in on 60!).  Was in a sexless, loveless, bitter marriage.  Now?  we are somewhat close to friends.  thank god we did not continue the charade... When the divorce came I thought that I would never be attractive to any other woman... the ladies of TER have provided solace to sooth my soul...  

is it an act? are some of the tender words said to me just part of what I pay for?  not all.  Some I know are genuine.  Some are more than genuine... they are what they are however.  but I do appreciate the time they allow me to spend with them.  And the sex... ain't it great!  even when my marriage was going well, the sex was never like it is with some of these ladies... it is just that good.

this hobby?  saved me from feeling sorry for me.

Newbie board?  nah... I've been at this for 5 or 6 years now...   I still sit back in wonderment...

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