a question for our veteran providers..i recently saw a well known porn star who has been in the business for over 10 years..our post session chat revealed that she is ready to retire..she said the business had become a job..she went to work..had sex..went home..when she first started every day was exciting and challenging..now sex is strictly robotic..the thrill is gone..she saves the intimacy and passion for her SO..my question then is for our veteran providers..do you see your careers following a similar path? as the years go by..are the sessions more robotic..bbbj..different positions..cumshot..leave..if not..how do you keep the thrill alive year after year?

That's why I always pace my fuck meets. I am have been in a hobby for a while 10 yrs. The most I have hobbied is twice a month. If you do it every day, you will certainly face burnout.

That's why I am looking for a real job as well.  I am older and I don't have the patience for last minute cancellations and I don't get those kind of meets because I attract older gentlemen and the young ones almost always chicken out.  I requests for uncovered just boil my blood. Have fun while you can is my saying!! LOL Kalina

Don't see too many guys in one day/week and if they market well, they see the types of guys they mesh well with and by that I mean on every level. My opinion on burnout is, doing too much with the wrong types of guys, with whom you don't mesh well.

I have been afforded opportunities such as travel, advancing my education, owning a home and financial security for the future, that most single women my age could only dream of.  It would be extremely disingenuous of me to mock the very business and the very people that made it possible. I can only hope that I will possess the intelligence to know when it is time to move on and the poise to do so gracefully.

that this hobby can be a great launching pad for one's dreams as long as one sets a GET OUT date, and sets GOALS beforehand.  

For those who don't will become jaded and will have ton of problem..

Easier said than done, I know...But those who can achieve it - well...more power to them...

Ditto. gf60

When I first started 3 years ago, I told myself I would stay in it for 5 years and then get out.  Well, after 3 years, I feel as if I am just starting.  I have great clients and meet even better ones every month.  I don't want to get out in 2 years...I love it!

But will you feel the same way after 2 years? Only time will tell. If you are enjoying what you do, and being successful and making money, no harm in pushing that date out further...

When in a relationship, I usually have sex at least every day. I don't see any reason to have sex any less than that when I am not in a relationship.

I am no longer a kid who has to get laid every hour, but I like sex and see no reason to deprive myself when there are so many beautiful women out there.

at certain things causing me to become a bit annoyed with this business...touring was the issue, not the kind gents I have met. Solution...I stopped touring and got a real job for now. If you are "forced" to work non-stop, it is never good for anyone...both yourself and the men who seek quality service from you. As someone who has never had to see bulk clients, I can say I am more than appreciative, and will quit altogether before I ever slack on the service I am known for providing.

I am realistic. The older I get, the harder it will be to command the rates I need to remain low volume and still make money. I also have a child that is far from stupid and as she gets older, will eventually start connecting the dots of what mommy is doing on the side. I do not want that to ever happen, so another 2 years is it for me. For some, it is easy to maintain a relationship with an SO whilst doing this, but for me that would never work as it does not line up with my ideal mate. Being a provider means I am alone in the real world, and I don't want that life forever.