he's a few steps away from being a stalker to me.  He hasn't even met you yet and he is already "connected" and writes a "love letter?"  If a guy is a successful businessman, there is probably a reason no woman has snatched him up yet.  His behavior just seems creepy to me, but good luck to both of you.  I have you two have great-looking kids.

You don't have very few personal and intimate connections as a result of being a successful businessman. There are millions of successful family men in the world. He chose the lonely route, but he didn't have to. There was no cause and effect at play.  

I don't really care about your forest of "connection." There's gotta be some kind of connection. More than I have with the guy who checks me out at the hardware store. And it's not all about the "happy ending," because I've had a good time without finishing before.  

That's one opinion. I spent the first several years of my career working long hours while taking classes on the side to get to a higher level in my career. I dated rarely during those years, and didn't have a serious girlfriend then. I consciously and deliberately made personal sacrifices for long-term gain, and it eventually paid off. It wasn't until my late twenties that I had a serious social life, and that was because I chose a different work-life balance. I could have pushed harder on the career front to be even more successful now, but I realized that money wasn't the most important thing in my life. But I could see where another professional might have made different choices. At any rate, a guy can be successful and have a family, but not get to spend much time with his family, if his job is demanding enough and especially if work requires a lot of travel.

Honestly, it is.  An actual girl friend experience is not for everyone such as the previous posters. It's not something I am after with one notable exception.  BUT if a true GFE is your thing, establishing a connection for a few hours is part of the deal.  Now I will say that pouring out your soul to someone you have never laid eyes on is a bit worrying..  

become irredeemably jaded, cynical and skeptical in our dysfunctional little world.  

It is the connection you make with the person.  Once that is done, all the other pieces fall into place.

Do you do bbfs?
Can I CIP?
Do you need help buying groceries?

but he should add another question.... Anything you'd like me to do for you ie run errands, carry things up for me, clean the house....?

Yea, it seems like he was just giving you some basic information about himself wanting to develop a rapport. It's not something I started doing until I had been seeing escorts for a while. I don't talk much about my background but rather comment on appearance and what about the girls general attitude I notice and appreciate, along with some basic things about what I enjoy minus sexual references. I think probably this is a big step for him and he did his research well rather than hopping on BP and picking something. He's put a lot of effort to coming to the point of contacting you so he's wanting to make it special. I hope you have a great time!

I'd hate to wake up in your world.

I would hate to have YOU wake up in MY world.  You're the very definition of pussy repellant.  

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Yes he could be genuine but I have had one of those emails too which sounded to good to be true and he was trying to scam people and I can smell it from a mile away. Be Careful.

Back in the day, I too was moved by what a lady said. I did the same thing, writing a 3 or 4 paragraph second email. She never wrote back. I scared her away. That was part of my hobby learning curve. He got so lucky you didn’t send his email into cyber oblivion, floating around forever with mine. Now I’m much more careful when writing to ladies near the beginning. It’s much better to let the connections happen naturally, then reap the benefits. The exception being you

Are you so sweet and adorable?
Will you fuck for diapers/milk?
do You Support random Capitalization?
 

but you are sure naughty Tobi

LOL good catch! I actually thought I covered the diapers and milk in the grocery question, but I totally missed the sweet and adorable part and random Capitalization.

You should have told him he sounds like a pathetic excuse for a man.

He just made parole, now he can actually make the date.