however you use your time that is your choice.But,if you knew you had half an hour left why did you keep massaging her if you wanted another round?How is she to know that is what you had in mind she is not a mind reader?Not every lady is like your ATF if you book an appointment for a certain length of time and you want to stay longer do not expect a lady to see you for that extra time OTC unless she offered.The lady in question should not have told you to come back in a half hr if she had no intention on seeing you again maybe she just said that to get you out the door.

In your post you do not say that you offered her compensation for the extra time.I do not see her tricking you into leaving your time was up you paid for an hr you received an hr.Regardless,of what you look like doesn't matter if you are in shape,overweight,or look like Brad Pitt the fact of the matter is how you look has no reflection on you getting extra time.I say get over it.

You spent 30 minutes giving her a massage? Dummy! You paid her. It's supposed to be the other way around.
When you hour is up, you should have been ready to leave. Of course she's going to keep track of the time. That's her job. Do you think it would have been okay to have the next guy waiting while you give her some lame massage?

It was no trick getting you out the door. It was time management.

BTW, she probably agreed to your return visit just to get your ass out the door. Get over it son and get over yourself.

Dude, you let her spend the last 30 minutes doing nothing, while YOU did the work, for HER benefit. And in spite of that, she still made sure to boot your ass out the door the minute your time expired. And yet you actually thought she was gonna have you back off the clock...and in 30 mintues...as if that would even be enough time for her to take another appointment, even if it was a half hour dump and run. You shoulda knew right then that it was a wrap but your ego convinced you otherwise.

When the ego talks, ignore that stupid fuck, it's even dumber than your dick.

Mine never gets in the way of my brain.
I have a feeling that after today he will realize that being fit and 30 means nothing in this game. At least he didn't say he was intelligent.

Talk about being lonely on a Saturday night...

I was attending a work convention out-of-town and decided to sample the local, bigger pool of talent there.  After some phone calls I met up in the afternoon with a lovely 22-25 year old at her hotel room.  She had plenty of rules, so it wasn't a "gfe" experience (i.e. no kissing) but she had a spunky personality and gorgeous body so I had a great time nonetheless.  I spent the last half hour giving her a slow, erotic massage that seemed to put her in a soft, sensual trance.  Well, surprise-surprise, she woke up on the dot when my time was up.  I brazenly asked for another shot at her (as I had not come in our earlier session; I was also working with the gumption derived from the fact that my "1-hour" appointments with my regular provider back home have recently stretched to 2 or 3 hours; I'm also 30 and in-shape, and undoubtedly ego-centric).  This girl asked if I could come back in 30 minutes--she had another appointment--and I offered to bring her dinner.  She said she would call me when she was ready.  

Surprise-surprise, after waiting in vain for 1.5 hours for her call while I explored the picturesque port-city or did paperwork in my car, I left a polite but disappointed message on her phone and drove home with my tail-between-my-legs.  (Yeah, 1.5 hours was a bit much, but dealing with some highly erratic providers has taught me that sometimes incredible patience gets rewarded--like trying to bring a bear to bay, if that's not too unpleasant an analogy--and I always have paperwork to do no matter where I am).  

So, until this girl offered the "call-back" she was just another instance of fun fluff, but I haven't been able to shrug her off now.  I went to bed with her on my mind and woke up seeing her face.  

I'm wondering if other ladies have used this trick to get a guy to leave.

The only trick there was you

So sere we havea ...

    110# 23 y.o. 'safety girl'
            - VS -
   160# 30 y.o. 'in-shape' man
       from out of town,
     asking about OTC time
      after first seesion
             ???

...based on what you have written, I'd say that PERHAPS you let your desire and unrealistic expectations create a scenario in your head that doesn't exist with providers in general.

Seriously, what is she supposed to do to SAFELY get you to leave, and leave her alone?

I'd imaging that if you would have told her, right then that you wanted two hour hours, starting right then, at her regular rate, she'd delay her next appointment and you'd have your dinner and dessert. Food for thought.


HalfHour

P.S.

Are you REALLY asking the ladies on the board to tell you their methods on SAFELY getting rid of freeloaders, needy-clingy men, clock burners, Captain-Save-A-Ho's or other weirdo problems types??? Seriously???

I'm not saying YOU are one of those assclowns. Got me?

But if a lady THINKS you MIGHT be, then WHAT THE FUCK is she supposed to do??? Call her PIMP???

I'd say the "I have another appointment right now" line might be her best first response.

Just sayin'  

I get text and calls left and right, even late at night. of close I can't pick up cuz the gf is there.  Can't help it when ladies dig my ass.

Sometimes it's advantageous to have a 1 inch willy cuz they know I won't be a big dick.  

unless when it extends to 19 inches.

I am glad you had a great time and it sounds like you have had a great relationship with a previous lady friend..

I have two thoughts.. After the hour was up did you also make the offer to compensate her for her time for the next hour or were you expecting a freebie? ( This tends to make us feel unappreciated and like you are trying to take advantage of)

She should have simply asked what the arrangement would be for the next hour or told you she was busy and escorted you to the door after allowing you time to freshen up..

Honesty is the best. ...

I mean WTF? I got shit to do. I don't have all goddam day to pound your pussy and ass into oblivion.

Just take my cum and go. Fuck.

I'm actually feeling sorry I got into this shit. Thought I'd pay to hit and split. Now they wanna meet my mom and shit. Fucking crazy....

It's great that your regular back home gives you extra hours for one hour but you should not expect that from other providers unless you are going to compensate her for it. What would happen if after one hour, she asks if you would like to extend time and you say yes and she tells you to offer up the addition funds?

I thought we're paying them to leave, not get harassed at 4am in the morning.

Now they wanna meet my mom
and dad, brother, sister, uncle, great grand father, 3rd cousin... lol

DA

u boys cant make up u mind.  I  get the hell out because times up and I know your paying me to leave.  I didnt mind to allow some over time in the past but with so many guys sayin cum and done, I only want u for the hour u paid for what respect or freebies do u think ur gonna get.  None.  We want you to pay our time spend that time and get out.  works for u, works for us.  its not our problem if u cant cum in the time u paid for.  its rude to take advantage and over stay and shouldnt be up to us to tell u to leave.  u want more time then make an apointment.

an apple in their mouths.

You have to remember a provider is a working girl, which you are paying her to do her job. My dentist, and doctor enjoy seeing me & helping keep me healthy, but I know I have to pay a co-pay when ever I see them in order to get the services they provide.

I've given them christmas, and birthday cards before in the past, and they liked them, but I still have to pay when I need them to work on me.

When I see one of my atf's i think of it as the same thing. They are providing me with a service I need at the moment. I would never call my atf and ask for a freebie, and she won't call asking me for money.

Sounds like you're trying to find love in this hobby, and the provider picked up on that, and got rid of you in a nice way. Take it as a listen learned, because the next provider may not be as kind.

I wrote the original post knowing that I was an ass and a clown in the original situation, and, of course, would be inviting abuse for writing and posting about it.  However, writing had the desired effect; I processed the experience and forgot about it for the rest of the day.  Thanks for being an audience.

It isn't my habit to overstay my welcome unless I'm invited.  I also try very hard to assure that the provider always feels very safe with me and not too much put upon (beyond what is normal for a service transaction).  This was the first time I initiated, and I would not have if I genuinely hadn't thought there was a reasonable chance of her being receptive.  Of course, I ignored the strict rule that she should initiate, or, obviously, that I should offer to further compensate her (I would have if I had had the extra cash).  I'm sorry, ladies, for the headaches pushy needy assholes like myself have caused you.

I mentioned my recent history, my physical appearance, my egocentrism, as (at times ironic) explanation, rather than justification, for my behavior.  I'm also well aware what flies high in the civilian world doesn't necessarily count for much in the hobby.  Frankly I don't claim to count for much in either world.

Someone mentioned I'm coming to the hobby for the wrong reasons.  Thanks, I needed to hear that.  It's increasingly true.  Maybe the hobby isn't for me anymore.  Nor public recountings of my personal life.

"Trick" was perhaps an unfortunate word; "device" may have been better.  It was something new under the sun; I thought I would share it and was genuinely curious if it had happened elsewhere.  

Have a good night, everyone.