If provider offered options of working with a male escort?

Would it be a turn off? A turn on? Could not care?

Thank you!

Lina

Though for me, another male, paid or not, in the same room with me and the lady, is not an option.

In your particular case .. would it make you NOT book appointent with a Lady if you knew that she advertises working with a male escort?

Or does it completely make no difference since you will not be partaking in this highly specialised package?

At least we know answer to one question - it won't get you excited ))

Lina

With so many providers to choose from, I doubt that I would choose a provider that advertises that she works with a male provider. Most guys that would be interested in booking the two of you would be either gay or bi.

Call me a homophobe, but even praticing safe sex, the risk factor goes up tremendously, not to mention getting the mental image of my mind. Same goes for women with multiple reviews by guys that frequent trannys.

I am not saying that any of this is fair, but you did ask for opinions, I think it would be a bad business move, unless that is the type of clientelle you wish to attract.

And thank you for the answer.  

There was a lot of talk about male escorts lately.  And we all know that curiosity is something commonly shared by both Ladies and cats (we also know what it did to the cat) so i checked out few of the male escorts web pages.

What I noticed is amazing number of links to female escorts who don't really advertise working with male escorts.

Guess I now know why

Lina

which I definitely am not, but the sight or really even the thought of another dick in the same bed with me, takes the wood right out of me.

I couldn't swear to this, but I am pretty sure my POV is not uncommon, and I would think that my opinion is probably that of the majority of guys.

Would not bother me at all but I am probably in the minority.  Actually prob a turn on...

No crossing swords here. I'm with Ga. 100%.

temporary girl friend vibe.

If the lady I have been seeing for two years started placing ads with that? It would cause some issues.

Just sayin

Just because you're in the same room with another guy with a hard-on doesn't mean you'll find it stuck up your ass when you're not looking.

I shower in a locker room at the gym with other men all the time and never once have I found their dicks anywhere near me.  

Some men are just so fearful of their own sexuality they can't fathom the interesting Non-bi, non homo things that can occur when two men and woman are together.

I've been attending swingers parties for years and in most cases when couples swap, both men and both woman (if not three couples or more) are in the same room.  I've never felt intimidate as long as his focus is on my wife\partner and not me.  

Just being in a room in close proximity to another hard on isn't going to turn you into a flaming fagot.  You don't catch homosexuality like a cold.

Personally, I have a fantasy of being in a room with two other men while they both have at my provider.  (I'm a world class voyeur) Watching the action feeling the passion and sexual exchange during everything from kissing to double penetration on the lady makes me tremendously excited.  

That is what's sooo cool about the Hobby.  This is the place one can make those type of fantasies a reality!  I bet most providers especially ones who are comfortably bi would find exciting

The problem is finding two guys who have good chemistry together and with the lady.  One doesn't have to bi just to feel comfortable being around other men with hard ons.

it would not really bother me as long as we were alone for a session. Does it really bother these guys that you are with many other men that week?? etc.etc.?? Whats the difference.??

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he was part of a package deal to see her.  I book time with girls, not time with girls bringing a guy along with her.  No interest in having another dick in the bed.

Swim

Are you gay, bi, and or do you see trannies?

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LOL.

Most guys (not all) that are into that type of thing have "tendencies" lol.

Like I said, care to make a small wager?

Yes, I am bi


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...I have this theory (which I know you won't like) that we all fall somewhere on a bisexual spectrum. And men who aren’t interested in threesomes with other men may be on the not-so-bi end of the spectrum, but they're on my spectrum. Sorry GG.

No, but seriously, I do believe in the theory above. Also, I think any man who is willing to have sex with another man in the room is either gay, bi or simply straight yet comfortable with his sexuality. To be honest, I think there are many guys who just want to be able to say they shared a girl with a friend, as if it's an accomplishment. It's kind of like checking off the list that they had sex with two girls, or received oral in the movie theater. Some guys want to say they did a train on a girl with the football team. And this isn’t exclusive to men. I’ve had a few sexual experiences that I did just to check them off my personal naughty list. Memories...

Xoxo.

FWIW I don't really care who is straight, gay, bi etc, except when it effects me, which only happens when we end up sleeping with the same women. That is when another person's more risky behavior does have the possibility to impact me.

You also fall into one of the other categories I mentioned, you see trannies. I am not exactly giving away state secrets here as you made your announcement on the tranny board under the same alias as you are using here. and I will make an admission, I already knew that when I posed my question. lol, but thanks for your honesty.

I think some of us are so far on the "not bi" side of the scale as to not be on it in the first place.

I also agree that not every guy that does a MFM is gay or bi, but I do stand by my position that the vast majority of guys that are truly turned on by the prospect are way, way on the bi side of the spectrum you are referring to.

No point in lying on an anonymous internet board, right?  I am using the alias for obvious reasons, I do enjoy seeing women and may have a lot less options on here but for the alias.

In my area there are 3 couples that escort. There is no Male-male contact required. Also, the Male being part of the scene is no required. However, you cannot see the lady without the man being present. They seem to do well.

Since we know each other, I will share my insights via PM, if you want...

one dick per session.

It seems clear to me from the responses in this thread that many providers DO work with male escorts -- they simply do not advertise it.

Personally, as someone who is very selective, I want as much information about a provider as is practicable without it being a security concern.

Therefore, if she works with male escorts, I think it entirely suitable that she put that factoid on her website.

The fact that a provider works with a male escort (when not in a session with me!) is not necessarily an issue. After all, hetero male escorts, while still rare, DO exist -- and we all know that many providers have S.O.s. So the likelihood that the provider has sex with the male escort is not necessarily any different than the fact she had sex with the last X clients she saw.

However, one phenomenon I HAVE noted is that sometimes this partnership with a male escort goes awry due to interpersonal issues and can negatively affect the provider's availability to schedule paying customers. (I said "sometimes" not "always.")

There are sometimes (again, *sometimes*, not always) other ... unique ... aspects of that partnership that one would typically expect to be reserved only for an S.O. that can prove troublesome over time in dealing with some clients.

I don't really permit myself much in the way of self deception. I already know a provider I am seeing makes a living by having sex with men; and has possibly even seen hundreds (maybe dozens, or maybe thousands in some cases) of men before me.

The fact that she might also be having sex with a male escort is irrelevant; especially given that some hobbyists have likely had sex with more women than many male escorts have.

But I WOULD appreciate the fact that a provider works with a male escort, particularly if she works primarily with one such escort frequently, be put on her website.

I do pretty careful analysis of the ladies I see; and any factors that can be provided (that don't compromise security) are appreciated.

I personally consider  MFM encounters as an absolute no for me. Everyone has their limit and this is mine.

As a matter of fact, when I visit swing clubs it is my #1 rule.

I am surprised however at such strong reactions from gentlemen.

As I said, all this talk about male escorts sparked curiocity as to what effect it may possibly have when a lady is knows for doubles with male provider.

I'll go back to my world of FFFFFFMFFFFF play!

Xoxo

Lina

U got pm

Lina

... just give me a quarter. It's not the amount that matters, but its offer. LOL

I am with you on the no MFM. I love FMF with lots of time with the lady.

John, you do know that TER is not paying you by the word, don't you??? lmao

It sounds to me like you are agreeing with the consensus, and that while this might not be a turnoff to you, it would be considered a negative factor.

It wouldn't be enough, all by itself, for me to eliminate a provider from consideration.

But, yes, it WOULD go down in the "negative" column in terms of my evaluation. All by itself, no biggie. But combined with a couple of other negatives it could tip the scale.

You mean that check I keep waiting for from TER is never going to arrive? Dang!