Set up a date with a provider and drive to the incall, which was 50minutes away. I get outside her door and call, no answer. Called twice. I was pissed. Does this happen a lot? First time for me.

Hasn't happened to me in quite a while. My Girl always finds time for me.

More often to some people than others. What I mean is, when you have to drive 50 minutes to find a provider, your choices are limited

Twice that I can think of, both a while ago.  Both times BP girls that I didn't Xref against TER.  Little head just commanded me to dial the damn phone number.  Both times a date was set up with time and rough location, second call once I got there for room number (per usual).  Both times got there and called and texted multiple times, waited up to an hour, calling every 15 minutes, then left.
Pissed me off something fierce; can understand a provider getting upset at a NC/NS, they deferred other potential income for the no-show.

if i have to cancel on someone at the last min, i apologize first, gave a reason and make up for the session next time like pay them for 90 min session for only 60 min session or something else if they have in mind.

I hear you bro.  Punctuality is extremely important to me also.

Happens fairly often on outcalls. But what's much worse (and unfortunately more common) is that she is there, collects your donation and performs poorly leaving you unsatisfied minus your play money.

How does "Your Girl" feel about you posting almost daily about how great she is, yet you never give her business a boost by putting her on the provider Friday thread or reviewing her?  I'm 99.9% certain she's fictional, but if she's not and I ever find out who she is I'm going to book a few hours with her and f*** her until she forgets you so we can end these stupid posts of yours once and for all.

I consider it unprofessional & will not see anyone who uses it.  Honestly, I have a bit of a drive like the OP.  BP gals...  typically young...  will post availability.  They will accept any who respond.  They will give all the same call point.  (Look around.  Are there others circling the block?)  
They will admit the first to arrive & then not answer until their first guest leaves.  Akin to street walking...  they need cash and this gets it in the least amount of time...  but they have no consideration for "appointments".   It's darn unlikely that I could get the OK & drive there to be the first to arrive.  Like I said, if I think this is her business model, she's no longer on my bucket list.    

There are some providers I see that are ALWAYS late.   There are others that you can set your watch by.  There are some, I swear, that just make you wait to make you wait.  After seeing them a few times, you figure out which type they are and schedule accordingly.  It's an annoyance - and, unfortunately, you just have to get over it if you are going to enjoy yourself.  Since I take a shower before starting the session - that gives me some time to chill out a bit, regroup and adjust my attitude.  That being said - while I will put up with a bit of it - I have come to really appreciate someone who is always on time.

Funniest post ever

so you can have a number and wait in line.

NEXT....

Your post makes it seem like it was no biggie to do a "very last minute" cancellation. Often ladies are less pissed if you say you will reschedule and then follow through.

Steph

and these were girls off BP, unchecked with TER, so that may have been their business model.  I know better now.

looking around at these other guys with tickets in their hands, wondering whose spunk I'm going to be plunging into.

So...we react stronger to providers being late.

You're not alone. The thing that pisses me off is the providers who are late EVERY damn session and when you mention that it feels like they "overbooked" they go ballistic. Come on, if you're two hours late getting to me, and rushing out the door talking on your phone right when our time is up, it does not take a Phd to figure out you're not on top of your booking game. Guess I'm the dumbass for waiting because I know providers who ALWAYS show up on time. Maybe I need to just book with them from now on. Being late is a sign of disrespect. i.e. my time is more important than yours. Is that so ...

Absolutely agree on it being a sign of disrespect.

I had booked an outing with a well reviewed provider who is often near my area.  She agreed to meet & confirmed the night before.  We did not set a firm call time for the morning...  partly my mistake.  The morning of, there was no answer...  I tried to call several times over the morning until it was beyond the time necessary to get there.  My last call, cancelled the meeting.  No apology, no response at all.  She wasted my time & a precious opportunity.  Had I known, I would have booked with someone else.  I would not book with her now, not even if it was FREE because beyond $$$ is the value of my time & opportunity

If you stay on BP, happily seeing girls with 3 reviews or less for fire sale prices, girls you yourself give a 2,3,5,6, then yes… This is going to happen all the time. In a year you can add robbed at gunpoint, "guy" waiting in car outside, bait and switch and track marks to this experience as well.

And then after a short period of time a wonderful lady that used to post on here a lot informed me that the woman that did this to me is BSC and so it seems things work themselves out.