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I see many advertise a higher education status
escalade1964 65 Reviews 1477 reads
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Many with some college, a degree, some even with a masters.

In today's civie world, that warrants a higher income; Does it in this world?
Do you care about educational status or just appearance and reviews?

Your thoughts if any?

DT_lover 188 Reviews 471 reads
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Another is: "Well travelled" which could simply mean...stayed at many hotels.

Dr. joe 32 Reviews 533 reads
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DATY which stands for Doing Advanced TrigonometrY

So it is hard for me to get excited with a provider who lacks and advanced math degree.

FatVern 307 reads
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Posted By: escalade1964
Many with some college, a degree, some even with a masters.  
   
 In today's civie world, that warrants a higher income; Does it in this world?  
 Do you care about educational status or just appearance and reviews?  
   
 Your thoughts if any?

bbfs4ever 366 reads
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5 / 57

Seems most have nothing more than a GED and that's no problem for most guys.  If I want to hang with a smart woman there's plenty of them around on college campuses.  

I come to fuck women here.  The pics are all that matters to me.  Her Masters degree in bullshit is rhetoric.

I do appreciate those women who take classes in "How to properly suck a cock".  But I don't need to see the accreditation on that either.  Simply the results speak for the skill and achievements.
Posted By: escalade1964
Many with some college, a degree, some even with a masters.  
   
 In today's civie world, that warrants a higher income; Does it in this world?  
 Do you care about educational status or just appearance and reviews?  
   
 Your thoughts if any?

electr0nsrealm 45 Reviews 426 reads
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I prefer ladies with advanced degrees in theology and philosophy.  So when I am having an existential crisis we can talk it out.  I always enjoy a lively conversation about God.

Especially when the majority of that conversation is the lady exclaiming "Oh my god, oh my God, oh my GOD!!!".

Those are the best conversations.

PS: I don't really have existential crises - beer, pussy, and blowjobs exist.  So therefore, I must conclude God exists and he is pretty awesome.  ;-)

Gypsy2184 See my TER Reviews 501 reads
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I'm genuinely surprised... For whatever reason I thought that there would be some appeal there knowing that their provider had a higher education maybe just so that they knew they could hold a decent conversation and were classy?? Apparently not! Ha...

GaGambler 467 reads
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9 / 57

I could care less about college degrees in the women I see. Intelligence and formal education don't necessarily go hand in hand. Ever talk to a jock who majored in basket weaving? A woman who majored in Russian literature is no more well rounded than said jock.

SoapMactavish 10 Reviews 404 reads
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10 / 57

It's irrelevant for a couple different reasons.  

First, a college education and diverse intelligence and business acumen are not mutually exclusive.  To figure out if a provider is intelligent and classy, one reads reviews or through referrals of others that have spent time with her.  A blurb that a provider has a college degree is not what we look for to determine this.

I know a lot of bootleg, suspect people that went to college (it means nothing).

And second, it could be a complete lie and we would never know, thus making something already irrelevant even more irrelevant.

 
Posted By: GaGambler
I could care less about college degrees in the women I see. Intelligence and formal education don't necessarily go hand in hand. Ever talk to a jock who majored in basket weaving? A woman who majored in Russian literature is no more well rounded than said jock.

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 373 reads
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11 / 57

Oh I don't know. Some of those Russian women can get pretty round when they get older...

GaGambler 351 reads
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12 / 57

I think one of them is still claiming to be 36-40 when I am pretty sure that's her waist size.

hgfgs 24 Reviews 402 reads
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13 / 57

One of my favorite's from a hookers on line ad.  

Perhaps they are being dishonest about their educational status to lure you in? Does she have her sheep skins framed so you can inspect them? Degrees from, "Full Sail University" don't count...
Posted By: escalade1964
Many with some college, a degree, some even with a masters.  
   
 In today's civie world, that warrants a higher income; Does it in this world?  
 Do you care about educational status or just appearance and reviews?  
   
 Your thoughts if any?

electr0nsrealm 45 Reviews 370 reads
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14 / 57

Totally with Gambler on this one.

While I am a big proponent of higher education, learning, and all that stuff - it doesn't necessarily translate to the hobby.  It can't hurt (unless a lady thinks way too highly of herself), but it doesn't always help.  

To me creativity, inventiveness, curiousity, a sense of humor, and a great attitude trumps high education any day.  Especially in the hobby.

I have been with many ladies who's only real education was "the school of hard knocks" who have made me blush and surprise me in bed (exceedingly hard to do), run circles around me in role play (somewhat hard to do), made me laugh (easy to do, but it doesn't happen nearly enough), and carry on an interesting conversation (you think it would be easy to do but you'd be surprised).

And this is coming from a gent that considers himself very well educated and can definitely fall for the occasional "nerdette".  But what I find attractive about nerdgirls is their creativity, curiousity, willingness to experiment, and good ability to improv - not necessarily their overall intelligence or advanced degrees.

And a few ladies I really anticipated meeting to match my wits with disappointed me a bit, honestly.  It seems that often along the line a person (men and women both) trades intelligence for sense of humor.  Which is a damn shame.

If I had to choose between being an intelligent prude or a funny idiot, I would absolutely choose being a funny idiot.

Most folks would say I've already met my goal.

;-)
 
Posted By: GaGambler
I could care less about college degrees in the women I see. Intelligence and formal education don't necessarily go hand in hand. Ever talk to a jock who majored in basket weaving? A woman who majored in Russian literature is no more well rounded than said jock.

hgfgs 24 Reviews 355 reads
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I was smart enough to just kick ball, not get body crushed. They gave me tough class. Had to control breathing while weaving.

 
Posted By: GaGambler
I could care less about college degrees in the women I see. Intelligence and formal education don't necessarily go hand in hand. Ever talk to a jock who majored in basket weaving? A woman who majored in Russian literature is no more well rounded than said jock.
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JackDunphy 380 reads
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16 / 57

It's a breath of fresh air as I am SOOOOOOO tired of fking all those hookers from Stanford and MIT.

ronkini1234 2 Reviews 460 reads
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17 / 57

Well if you went to schools like Yale, Stanford or Harvard or currently in med school then yea I care and would be willing to pay more since you might have actual merit. It can be easily faked though since who shows their clients a diploma with their real name on it?  

For most providers who claim to be "educated" its usually a mickey mouse degree which they only do for conformity and status. There is a slight difference between "educated" and those who are not and its in the way they talk. "Educated" girls are usually more patient and politically correct. That's all I can say.

GaGambler 322 reads
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18 / 57

That has got to be the dumbest thing I have ever heard.

and just why would you pay extra to fuck a woman who went to Stanford over a similar looking/acting woman who went to school right up that road at San Jose St? What is this "merit" you are talking about?

For the record, I hate political correctness and I would pay less not more to have to put up with a politically correct woman that I paid to fuck and suck me.

JackDunphy 441 reads
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There is an ad on TV where a dad is walking off the soccer field with his son and he is holding his sons trophy which states "participant" and the dad, talking to himself says, " we went undefeated. And my son got the same trophy every other kid in the league got? I don't think so."

He then rips off the "participant" label and writes on it with a sharpie "champions." Damn right.

When Madison Ave feels comfortable doing this, one only wonders the blowback as they spend millions to poll test that message.

Political correctness is dying and not a moment too soon.

GaGambler 357 reads
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and I will be more than happy to spit on the grave of political correctness.

I have actually had people berate me for not getting offended about being called "Oriental"

When I first got into the oil business at the ripe old age of 15 in the deep south I was told straight to my face "we don't hire Japs here" and now I am supposed to get offended by the harmless term "oriental" which is simply a take off of the Spanish word for "eastern" Give me a fucking break.

scb19 10 Reviews 389 reads
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increase the chances of me seeing a provider the first time nor does it warrant higher fees on its own. If I were to change careers my present degree would not help me in a different field.  However, if one has a degree and can converse (yes this is how it's said) intelligently that may help with my repeat business.

Posted By: escalade1964
Many with some college, a degree, some even with a masters.  
   
 In today's civie world, that warrants a higher income; Does it in this world?  
 Do you care about educational status or just appearance and reviews?  
   
 Your thoughts if any?

ronkini1234 2 Reviews 335 reads
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Escorting is not just fucking there are people who pay others to attend events with them to look good. At that point its like finding someone for a job and you can use their credentials to help make a decision.  

I am extremely fond of ivy league girls. This is because many friends are from these schools and I feel more comfortable around them as a result. Some programs in the league have a 0.5% acceptance rate. I don't know about you but I respect that and find that sexy.  

I don't mean politically correct as in Obama or Donald Trump but more as in dealing with people. I would invite an escort to go to a social or the bosses' wedding so I don't look like a weirdo going alone but I also want to be confident the escort won't go off and drink too much or say things that could cost a job or promotion. The degree like any other job makes me trust her more with these events.  

Its kinda snobby if you think about it but yea if all you want to do is fuck then I guess education makes no difference.

GaGambler 303 reads
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It's about the only explanation that would not have generated more abuse from me. lol

I can see if you are higher an actual "escort" to be seen in public with around people you actually know, but very few of us here hire women to be escorts in the way that you are talking about.

Your last statement convinced me you aren't delusional. 99% of the time, all I want to do is fuck so education makes no difference at all. I can and often do make "pillow talk" with women who can barely speak English, much less have Ivy League educations.

hbyist+truth=;( 400 reads
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No niggers, spics or jews, just rich, fat, arrogant, entitled white pricks. Instead of "I prefer the company of Caucasian gentlemen."

JackDunphy 366 reads
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"cracker tricks" and you would have nailed it HT. LOL

GaGambler 320 reads
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I am sure it was an oversight, but don't let it happen again.  

and how about the Irish? I mean "All right we will takes the niggers and the chinks but we don't want the Irish."

AnastasiaKane See my TER Reviews 239 reads
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I believe it is postulated that there are nine types of intelligence, though it's up to you whether you put stock into that. I do to some extent. I agree with Alyson, just because someone is "book smart" does not mean they can utilize that for any practical purpose. However, some advertising mediums like P411 actually ask for your highest degree of education.  

My idea of why providers put blurbs about their education on their sites is simply to have some degree of commonality. Humans are simple creatures, we don't like change or the unknown. So we believe if we have some tie that binds us, then it will be a more comfortable experience. For instance, if you were going out on a date with someone, you might want to have a similar hobby or career. Otherwise what are you going to talk about?

If your goal is to see the provider for an hour, no chit chat, then education doesn't matter. But if the provider wants gentleman to book longer appointments, it's a good strategy to put something about education or hobbies on your website

ronkini1234 2 Reviews 380 reads
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When you get to a certain level in the company everything turns into politics. I haven't had an escort with me to a social before but relatives have.  

Same thing with a restaurant I wanna try. Ever since that book came out called "Never Eat Alone" when a guy I know sees me eating alone at a restaurant they would pity me. So now I do mostly take out which sucks since the containers spoil the meal. But those fancy places that don't do takeout for some reason you have to actually go in and if you go alone everyone thinks you're a weirdo. So I would bring a friend that's a girl and if she's not in town that day then its going to be an escort

JackDunphy 224 reads
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30 / 57

It's a way for some to separate themsleves from the more blue collar girls.

It isn't too dissimilar to a hooker calling herself a "courtesan" because she feels the need to tell the world she isn't JUST a plain 'ol ordinary escort.

LillianWest See my TER Reviews 313 reads
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LoboGris 3 Reviews 350 reads
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those bog trotting, mackerel snapping micks ? the ones that built the Erie Canal and the eastern "half" of the transcontinental railroad while the slopes were cutting a path through the Sierra Nevada ?

GaGambler 333 reads
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especially since most of the nicer restaurants are more than happy to let you dine at the bar.

Guys, (and gals) who travel on business dine alone all the time, I certainly do and no one looks at me like a weirdo, except of course those who actually know me. lol

Oh well, each to their own. I don't pay for companionship, I pay for NSA sex, but if you want to pay to have some one eat with you I suppose that's your business.

noway30333 339 reads
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he has seen every issue of Playboy and Penthouse since 1971 when pubic hair was first shown:)

GaGambler 286 reads
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It's a good thing we had the Irish, or people would have thought Mel Brooks and company could only make Chink, Nigger and Jew jokes.

Southern_Gentleman 358 reads
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I think it does make an ad more interesting if a woman has a higher level of educational achievement.  That is not to say a degree is a requirement, but as someone who is Master's level educated I find in the civvie world that I tend to have better experiences dating women who have at least a Bachelors, and sometimes and Advanced, degree.  I think maybe women who are looking for that market think they will get more responses from a higher level clientele.  

I think it makes for better shared experiences.  Plus, maybe our biases come into play and we think a woman who is college educated in this world is on a pedestal over someone else.  

Not saying it is right or wrong, but it is what it is.

That being said, I have seen very interesting profiles where women do not brag about educational achievement.

AnastasiaKane See my TER Reviews 218 reads
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No, you wouldn't. So why is this any different? The purpose of whatever a provider puts on her website/in her ads is to attract business, not to put down other providers. Furthermore, why is stating a fact considered bragging?

JackDunphy 218 reads
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Ever see a soccer moms car with the "my kid is an honor student at Bill Cosby Elementary School." They are bragging right?

And if you don't think hookers post things to make them look/feel superior, you are delusional.  

Numerous hookers here have had major issues when they were referred to as an escort. They chime in with the "I am NOT an escort, I am a courtesan" bullshit. That's not a demand of superiority???

I never said a gal should omit anything. I merely stated it is bragging, a point so obvious yet you can seem to get yourself to admit it.

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GaGambler 222 reads
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There is also the matter of HOW you say it. If it's mentioned in an off hand, btw type fashion it comes across much differently than it does if you brag about it at every opportunity.

and yes, the goal is to attract business, not drive it away. If I think a woman is rather "full of herself" I avoid her no matter how hot her pictures might be or how good her reviews are.

ThePeopleRule 435 reads
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There is one local provider whose ads include the statement that she has a Masters in Engineering.  Why does she include that fact?  So that potential clients know she is familiar with such basics as pumping, screwing, pistons....etc?

Probably not.  It could be sending this message to local cops:

"Most of you guys have only an AA degree from a community college.  Don't waste your time thinking you can fuck with me because I am smarter than you are."

DT_lover 188 Reviews 304 reads
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A classy hooker swallows instead of spits.

DT_lover 188 Reviews 282 reads
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DT_lover 188 Reviews 343 reads
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...she says with a smile and her head hanging over the edge of the bed.

hgfgs 24 Reviews 327 reads
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Siting in your room eating take out is worse. Have met a lot of interesting people. The Sr. US Senator from Illinois to the then basketball coach at Texas Tech are a few. My wife and I prefer to eat at the bar than take a table for that very reason.

Posted By: ronkini1234
When you get to a certain level in the company everything turns into politics. I haven't had an escort with me to a social before but relatives have.  
   
 Same thing with a restaurant I wanna try. Ever since that book came out called "Never Eat Alone" when a guy I know sees me eating alone at a restaurant they would pity me. So now I do mostly take out which sucks since the containers spoil the meal. But those fancy places that don't do takeout for some reason you have to actually go in and if you go alone everyone thinks you're a weirdo. So I would bring a friend that's a girl and if she's not in town that day then its going to be an escort.  
   
 

ajoi2you See my TER Reviews 335 reads
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expressing your accomplishments is simply a way to connect with those interested in actually having a conversation. I also state I am a veteran of the Air Force and Army on my site, not to brag or get atta boys but to find similarities with those who can appreciate the experience and know that we have similar things in common. And yes some of us actually have no problem sharing our diplomas with nay sayers. That is when I brag, when they say or act as if your attempting some crazy scam to seem more intelligent than you actually are, just slap them in the face with the papers and call it a day. intelligent people understand that knowledge comes in many different forms. Attending classes and taking tests, writing a few papers here and there does not mean intelligence, education is mere memorization. Any fool can get a degree but how many idiots are intelligent? they are not synonymous, in fact totally different. IMO  

now on the other hand, the thing that bothers me the most is when a lady writes "book fast" as her time is limited because of full time work or full time classes at the local university and you find her traveling for escorting every week to a different place across the country. I always wonder what kind of job do you have that you can be available days and evenings with one hours notice. Not that it's not possible but how sway how?  

yes a lot of ladies do lie to pump up the imagery of being sophisticated and worldly by claiming things they are not but those ones are easily exposed by paying attention to the details. Others are just giving you a true idea of who they are and their life experiences. No harm no foul.

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 202 reads
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Posted By: AlysonParker
I think there are some men who look for women who can hold an intelligent conversation either because they find it erotic, it's something they feel is missing from their life or they bring providers to work and/or social functions. But having a "formal" education certainly doesn't guarantee intelligence, curiosity or conversational and/or social skills.  
   
 For that reason, I would imagine that most men would say that they don't care about education per se but I am surprised in reading this thread that it's more along the lines of not caring because brains aren't a factor in any regard.  
   
 I will say that I understand why women might put it on their website beyond wanting to signal that they might be a good fit for those looking for someone they can talk with: although men might say they don't care about education and/or intelligence, many of them like to throw their education around as if it automatically makes them superior to the provider, who they assume is both uneducated and unintelligent. It can be exhausting to have men stop in the middle of a conversation and explain words they assume you don't know or raise their eyebrows in surprise when they find out you've read the same authors.  
   
 I have an advanced degree and even though I know that all it means is that I have more debt than those who didn't go to college/graduate school, it's still infuriating when I'm talked to like I must be less educated *and* less intelligent than the client simply because of my job.  
   
 When people say things like "Oh, is that a book in your purse? I didn't think women like you read books.", it's hard not to snap at them and get into an educational pissing contest. But I know that would only reinforce the idea that someone must be educated to be smart, and that one is only smart if they went to school, and it would be wasting my breath on someone who already thinks my thoughts are less valuable than theirs.

VOO-doo 393 reads
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I take a broad view of education, to encompass life experience and intellectual acumen/curiosity rather than academic attainment (not that the two are always distinct, but the presence of the former, or the absence of the latter, is not necessarily an accurate indicator of intelligence).

I guess every person in this world has knowledge that I do not have... But, when someone tells me that he listens to Taylor Swift, plays pool for fun, and watches the NFL in his free time…oh, and once in a while, he might take a trip to the local mall to eat at Friday’s…that he prefers BBQ wings to hot...that’s terribly boring to me, sorry.

I personally prefer to meet men who have a lot of curiosity about the world, and whose lifestyles, interests, and knowledge reflect that…

It’s definitely a turn-on for me to feel a bit fascinated and awed by my partner. To learn something new from him/her…

I’m sure that there are men out there who feel the same

ontheprowl14 18 Reviews 334 reads
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Just like any other asset, physical or otherwise.  There's certainly nothing wrong with being well educated and I like it.

kerri.bound See my TER Reviews 372 reads
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Does higher education automatically equal smarter? No. Obviously, there are people out there that have somehow managed to get a degree in something yet are clearly not a quick study, and there are people with no formal education who are very bright. However, even though educational status does not always indicate intelligence, people do use it as a proxy for intelligence.  

So, who cares about intelligence? Some (probably most) don't; some do.  For those to whom it matters, they are usually looking for conversation & connection as well as physical intimacy & want to find commonalities.  Some also find it a turn on, and as you can see from some of the responses, others find it pretentious and a turn-off, but there is someone for everyone in this hobby

Willfully_Educated 356 reads
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Us providers started to dehumanize ourselves like most hobbyists do! Maybe we *should* just advertise objective traits.

Who cares about Masters degrees when we have slightly waxed pussies with a hue of pink on the inside.

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 367 reads
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Funny thing is (or maybe not so funny) is SOME guys are dead-ass serious about just that and care about only that (or rather that's most important). YMMV though....SOME are looking for an equal or close in a p4p companion (as far as education and/or intelligence) and SOME are just looking for warm holes to fill.

Posted By: Willfully_Educated
Maybe we *should* just advertise objective traits.  
   
 Who cares about Masters degrees when we have slightly waxed pussies with a hue of pink on the inside.

VOO-doo 309 reads
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One of my first agencies marketed its girls that way - their ads were (slightly) more tasteful, but same idea. Pics showing tits, ass, leg, and hair. List of physical stats, including height, bra size, and waist-to-hip ratio. Ethnicity, if she was 'exotic' and/or it was not obvious from the photos. No bio. I had a rather unpleasant experience with that agency. I have NEVER before or since dealt with such cretins.

I don't expect any guy I see to appreciate my more refined talents, lol. But if I just threw up a few raunchy pics and a flashing 1-800 number, I'd expect to hear exclusively from timewasters, wankers, and animalistic creepazoids.

hbyist+truth=;( 260 reads
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hbyist+truth=;( 307 reads
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A bragging trick is unctuous to say the least. I could care less what he does for a living, just pay my fee, show some humility , get on with what you came to see me to do and then leave.  

I swear arrogance/elitist posturing  is my trigger. I get an email like that and it goes right into the trash. nope no reply, that ass does not deserve one.

Alyson said it so very well......

GaGambler 254 reads
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but if you think this is "PCless" you should hear how I talk in private. Or even better how I joke with some of my black running buddies. If you didn't know we were friends, you'd think we were trying to start a race war. lol

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