I would think nothing of an alarm clock on a night stand by a bed. But come to think of it - even though I do not want to take up additional time - where there is a prominent clock,  I am distracted by it.

I wouldn't automatically think that a provider had a clock so either of us could watch the time, unless...


HalfHout

Dear Veronica:
Although you are charging by the hour, the point is to not let the clock dominate and totally obligate you when you are entertaining you clients. Make sure that you are giving optimal entertainment during the course of your rendezvous,because there is a good chance that the session will be chronicled here or on other sites that it will become public knowledge that you are a clock watcher. If the way that you conduct you business has been serving you well, then continue to conduct your business in that way. Also you might want some latitude for yourself because sometimes you might want to talk to the guy for a while before you conduct your copulatory activities. So don't necessarily be intransigent and relegated to the chronological aspects of the date as well. Continue to err on the side of being benevolent with you gifts and being slight over unless you book back to back sessions or have something to do immediately after and your popularity should never wane.

I was having a convo with a few lady friends of mine over a few glasses of scotch and the subject came to clocks in the bedroom. Seems we all have a different opinion about them for varied reasons. I don't personally like them in the room because I find it to be a distraction and see no real point when I'm having fun But one of my friends brought up the idea that it's nice to have one so a gent knows what time it is. Even if us ladies aren't concerned about little details like a few extra minutes, a gent might have somewhere to be and going over could make him late.

I'd love to hear what you guys think. Do you think having a clock in the room is beneficial?

Kisses and more!

Veronica Sweets

I like having a clock where I can see it. Don't want it to be intrusive but still easy to find and easy to see. A small one on the bed side table or a simple wall clock is fine.

I think its a distraction,  maybe you could set a soft sounding alarm or something.you both would know time was up,if he had to be somewhere THAT important he'd tell you if not he'd be grateful for the extra time.I know i would

I have to be honest with you, when I first started hobbying, I was taken advantage of due to my novice behavior. Consequently, providers will realize this, and would take advantage of the time.

Now that I am more experience, I still would like a clock in the bedroom. I am not a clock watcher, I just want my time. If I pay for 60 minutes, then I should get 60 minutes--I shouldn't get 45 minutes or even 30 minutes. I am still surprise now, even with providers that charges $300. So, with some, I pay them $300 for 60 minutes, and they don't have clocks in the room, and when I am done, I really don't know what time it is. Most of the times, when I get back to my car, I realize that I've only spent 30 minutes, so I am loosing $150.

I shouldn't have to feel this way, and I shouldn't have to loose my money. Also, with some providers with no clocks in their room. After I have finish a session, if I wanted to go again, they will try to argue that I've spent 60 minutes already. But, I know that 60 minutes has not past yet. I cannot argue with the provider since I do not have evidence. So, I am loosing money.

Now, I would not see providers that do not have a clock in her room. If she does not, then I use the clock feature on my iphone. When she has a clock in her room, I tell her a specific time for me to finish, and if she agrees, then I will continue the session. If not, then I walk.

You can call me cheap or maybe even given a provider a hard time. But, if you providers charge 60 minutes, shouldn't I be entitled for 60 minutes? And, shouldn't I be able to know when the time is up so I can better prepare myself for my departure? Why should I have to worry about the time? Why should I not have a clue how long I have stayed? Why should I be taken advantage for something that I can prevent? Why should I loose money?

You can view me as how you want to view me, but if there is no clock in the room, then I am walking, otherwise I will have to use the clock on my iphone to manage my time.

Something unobtrusive. That way I can manage my time and energy.

Guess I could always call a wake up service.

I actually wish that some agencies would use them.

but a ten minute warning is not called for.

to me as long as she doesn't care. I went and saw a well reviewed and popular lady in my area for an hour appointment and when I finally left it was two and a half hours later she did not mention it in any way shape or form and I even got an e-mail later saying how she enjoyed our time together and was looking forward to our next visit. Oh and she never asked me nor did I pay for the extra time. There were no clocks in the room and she never looked at her phone or asked about the time even though her cell phone was right on the night stand I even mentioned that it was lighting up and her response was "so I am with you they can leave a message and wait for a call back."

unless the meeting is on a weekend and even then, sometimes!

It's not the presence of a clock that matters, just like it's not guns that kill people.  It's what is done with the device that matters.  Clocks are fine, even desireable.  The sucky part is what the lady does with it.  If she's constantly looking at it waiting for that magic tick to the the end, it's a huge distraction and totally ruins the mood.

I don't want to make the provider tell me when time is up. I want to finish early and get out of there before I'm presuming on her time.

..... I keep a playlist (music) ....yay Itunes....  Rihanna's "Skin" is on ok we have 15 mins left  etc lol.

Posted By: VeronicaSweets

I was having a convo with a few lady friends of mine over a few glasses of scotch and the subject came to clocks in the bedroom. Seems we all have a different opinion about them for varied reasons. I don't personally like them in the room because I find it to be a distraction and see no real point when I'm having fun But one of my friends brought up the idea that it's nice to have one so a gent knows what time it is. Even if us ladies aren't concerned about little details like a few extra minutes, a gent might have somewhere to be and going over could make him late.

I'd love to hear what you guys think. Do you think having a clock in the room is beneficial?

Kisses and more!

Veronica Sweets

I do not wish to go over time if I can help it.  I do not want the lady to cut me short then why should I cut her long.  But I also dont just jump up as the clock strikes.  If we are laying there chit chatting then I dont push it.  But the second she makes any move to end the session, I am on my way.

But actually, that's fine, as it can sometimes help greatly in future sessions.

.... music for me is more of a way to keep a mental note of time more than to just go okay it's exactly 10pm times up etc lol ... if we're chatting and so on it won't kill me if we go 15 mins or so over.

music tracks, just plain guestimation, e.s.p.  but I've had ladies HIDE the d@mn clock so I had no idea.  I think a clock should be in the room but not obtrusive.  I don't want it staring me in the face but don't put it in the drawer.  I might have to sit up to see the clock but without getting off the bed.  Accross the room is good.
One Fav lady has a small portable clock that she would put on a shelf to the side...  I eventually noticed she had moved the clock when we used a different room due to renovations.

I usually have my guests call me when they are outside...that's when I press play on the iPod. I have pre-set playlists (i.e. 60 minutes, 90 minutes, 2 hours, etc.) When the music stops, I know how much time has passed. I have only ever had one guest remark on the lack of time pieces in the room, "It's like Vegas in here!"

xoxo
Caylee

I myself want nothing to do with a clock in my bedroom.  I don't like being fully engaged in a session, seeing the clock and worrying that I have to speed anything up.

If I myself am on a tight schedule, I simply let the gent know that I have to check the time.  Usually, sometime during the session, I ask him if he has somewhere to be soon, the answer is usually no, and we can let the time (within reason, of course) flow freely!

And Veronica, I'll have your scotch waiting when you get home, it's round two tonight girl.   xo.

Arcana

I like the clock. What kinda of Scotch were you and your friends drinking? Ahhh. now Scotch in the room is a better idea than clock

I agree, I dislike a clock and that's why there isn't one at my place. But it seems as if the gents have spoken.....they do like them

Where's my scotch woman!? You offered me tea when I got home. Mmm...but it's good tea

Kisses,

V.

Looks like the overwhelming response is that a unobtrusive, well placed clock is wanted by the gents. I don't have clock in my place. I have my inner clock (no, not the baby making kind!) which ticks right on time Guess I'll go get something small to put in my place since it seems the gents really do like having something to check on if necessary.

Thanks for all the comments!

Kisses,

V.