wonderful ladies might cut your dick off if you show up with someone you didn't warn them about.

If there is notice, you HAVE to presume that the extra girl would be screened just the same as you, so the question has a simple fallacy within.

I know I'm not a lady, but hey, it's a public board.

Showing up with another escort that I don't know personally is a no-no for me.  Nothing worse then no chemistry with the other person, or them obviously faking (obvious to me...not to client)...which means I am forced to fake too!

And it's a real mood killer to get the stripper hair flip to cover you up while someone pretends to lick your pussy...been there, done that...don't need to repeat.

If a guy has someone in mind that he wants to see me with, I am happy to get in touch with her ahead of time to try and get acquainted and see about mutual interests, etc.  I do love meeting new girls, but I am picky about who I will work with.  

Safety and discretion are important issues for me as well, so I also don't want to work with someone that is not compatible with me on this.

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If I'm seeing a couple, this arrangement should be made in advance, not sprung on me when I open the door...regardless of if you have the appropriate donation.  Suprises can be unsettling...especially if you don't know the client very well in the first place.  My mind could go into protection/cautious mode instead of being relaxed and open.  

I also like to talk to the female SO before the encounter to help break the ice and make sure boundaries are clear, a little bit about her thoughts, etc.  I also do this to gauge the partners true interest...is it her first time?  Is she being pressured by her SO, or is this a part of her fantasy too??  If they are experienced, that comes through, then I know I don't have to go as slow as I would with someone that is new to all of this.

I've seen couples where the woman was a mistress...not quite a pro, but not the SO either...that's fine (and I still talk to them first).

So yes, I care...

I always care about who is coming through my door, male or female, SO or provider.

xoM



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Bringing anybody without letting them know is a major no-no.  I would leave immediately.

Re: NO and NO

How would you feel if I brought some other male client along?

You wouldn't mind as long as I introduced you and cut your rate in half, would you?

Some peoples children, I'll tell ya.

sexymaddy

if he could bring a provider I didn't know.  As I patiently explained, I'm always willing to meet new people, but trying to put 2 ladies together who don't know each other generally leads to a faking of experience.  I, too, and particular about whom I work with.  Needless to say, it didn't work out.

Like the post above, when seeing couples I insist on meeting with her first to make sure she is comfortable with the whole situation, to establish ground rules, etc.

I have been asked if I would be a surprise for the SO.  He was just sure that she was bi and would like to experience another woman.  As I attempted to patiently explain, I'm just not the sort of "surprise" you surprise your SO with....unless of course YOU want a not-so-pleasant surprise.  The same goes for "surprising" a provider with an unknown woman, be she the SO or another provider.

At an incall, not too long ago, her dog tried to "join in". It freaked me out for a minute, LOL.

all a provider needs to know is that she is meeting a couple.. its really none of her business what kind of relationship the couple has.

Most ladies wouldn't go through with an appt. with a surprise guest, SO or provider. When we screen you, we want to know exactly who's going to be in the room. We don't want little surprises like that.

As for the other person, they need to be screened as well. If it's a provider, the ladies often talk up front about the appt. so it goes well for all of them.

By not telling the ladies about this, you deny them both these opportunities, establish that you are untrustworthy and a security risk.

Katie