Gentlemen (and ladies),

If im doing an outcall I prefer a busy hotel
For incalls I mostly use small very discreet hotels that usually have  secondary, "backdoor" (excuse the pun) entrances.

busy and big
easier to blend in and be discreet...especially makes sense if the guy needs extra discretion and if multiple hour session or weekend session with dinner plans and you are going to see shows in town...

t least twice I have knocked and been kept waiting a bit too long while house keeping was close by taking it all in. I really don't care.

As a man, the only time you are going to look suspicious and out of place is if you feel out of place. I never feel out of place going in or out of a hotel. I am not playing "I Spy" I am simply getting laid. I just for the life of me can not imagine any hotel employee of any hotel in the world giving me a hard time about what I am doing there. I would literally laugh in their face.

Just do not walk around looking over your shoulder and all  around  as if you just robbed a bank.

In order this is my preference:

.... and I do love my heels too!

There is definitely a double standard for the ladies. And confidence does elude suspicion.

There are still decent incall hotels where you can go in back/side doors up steps to the floor with nobody seeing you.

There are advantages to looking average, one of them is that I look like any business traveler just about anywhere. I always wear business casual to a session, I travel extensively so I can spot where the elevators are almost immediately. I am outgoing, so if I have to walk past the front desk and the clerk says hello, I'm not intimidated, I say hello and keep walking as if I'm staying at the hotel. This leads to my not wishing to go to a small quiet hotel, it's much harder to blend in, and if it's too small there is a chance that they know I'm not staying there.

from hotel staff? it really doesnt matter because they won't do anything about it but  I had it happen to me last week.

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"I spend so much time going in and out of hotels I never give it a thought"

What is hotel staff going to do, put out an APB with the cops to look out for a known whore monger?

I just don't care, Why on earth would I be intimidated just because a hotel clerk recognized me and said hello?  

....though I have never gotten even a second look from any of the staff at any of the hotels that I have visited.  

But a lot of people are intimidated by confrontation if they are doing something that they aren't supposed to.

You must work out ...

Yeah, my good buddy Ben introduces me to awesome women, gotta love the guy.

If I already have the room number, then it doesn't matter which type of hotel it is just as long as it isn't shady.  If the lady would like me to confirm with her first, then I would prefer the hotel have plenty of seating in the lobby or have a bar.  It's easier to not feel awkward if there is plenty of space sit down.  Usually I will just sit down and become engaged in my phone.  As others have said, you only look awkward if you feel awkward.  So I do what makes me feel comfortable.

high five the doorman  before  I walk in the elevator for an appointment.

until the local news station does a story on escorts and shows video of you walking in

... It is near my office.

I'm very nervous about incalls at hotels. First, never use your cell phone in the hotel lobby because the staff know that the only people using cell phones are calling their hostesses for room numbers. The women, children and geezers with walkers using cell phones? Probably planted there by hotel management and LE to create a false sense of security.  

They would recognize me whether the hotel was small and quiet, or big and busy, or moderately busy. Answer is still D.  

I was hoping you'd show up with your fireman outfit, you can rescue me from the big bad lobby patrol

The horn rimmed glasses with big nose and oversized moustash, then you'll truly be in cognito and you won't draw any attention to yourself.

As long as the provider is comfortable where she is staying and it is of reasonable quality.  I have spent enough time in hotels for work, vacation, etc it is not a big deal.  Lets be honest the staff has enough going on and see so many people coming that you are just another person.

Thanks Kitty Rains
 - the backdoor does sound enticing!