I'm usually completely clueless about how long it takes for  blastoff. So, if I'm seeing a provider, I usually drain the tank at least six hours before, so I'm good for at least 35-40 minutes of straight fucking before blastoff.

i was just wondering how consistent most people are in regards to sexual activity. what i mean by that is, do you usually last a certain amount of time pretty consistently. ladies feel free to respond as i am sure you have seen repeats and maybe you have noticed things like this.  i am really inconsistent. sometimes i can go an hour straight, other times i pop my wad in 2minutes of insertion.  is it kinda the norm to be so consistently inconsistent?

If I can get in about 10-15 minutes of foreplay and build slowly, then I can last a good 10-20 minutes more of heavy action.

But if she wants to get to the heavy stuff right away, I'll pop too soon.

Do you find it always equally enjoyable, regardless of the nature of the O? Don't get me wrong, I like to control my O, want to make sure I get "my money's worth," as much as the next guy. But if the goal is to have the best, biggest, O and most wonderful time I can, maybe my body knows best. Sometimes, it may need 5 minutes and a big burst, followed by 45 minutes laying together, caressing and talking, while other times it may want 45 minutes of screwing, followed by a hasty goodbye and exit, no talking at all.

So my suggestion, for me as well as you, is to loosen up, enjoy the moment however it unfolds and whatever it brings. And if you find certain patterns more enjoyable than others, work on figuring out how to duplicate those patterns, like the poster above.

My answer to your question is yes, it does vary a lot. I do find that things tend to fall into a pattern with each provider, which argues for finding one that works great and going back. I know variety is the draw for a lot of us, so that might defeat the purpose for you, but it is a way to have a consistently great time. And, even if you do not want to stick with a particular provider, you may eventually be able to identify a type that is most likely to bring out that best response in you.

Zig

...usually does the trick for my.... friends.....

And I am not saying this to be braggadocious.... really.

I like to have sessions that last long as far as time length, but I can honestly say that I get some sort of thrill out of bring up my friends' shortcomings... heh heh... pun intended. But, that's what that option of "multiple pops" is for in the review section!

I notice not many guys addressed this one... hmm.