Curious to hear from people who have had good luck getting strippers to meet them outside of the club.  Anyone had any luck?  If so, what's your it rate? Any pointers for success?

Well.. Not all strippers, and not all strip clubs..  

 
I used to be a frequent visitor at Tootsies Cabaret in South Beach (Miami area)  before the pandemic hit. Haven't been back since, but used to go 3-4 times a year. That's not too shabby for a guy who lives in DC area.. LOL.. Actually got to know couple of bar tender girls and security guys pretty well.  Will be going again in August (for the first time since COVID).. Can't wait..  

 
I have been many times asked by the strippers if I wanted to explore the champagne room? That is the code for more intimate stuff, and it's actually a private room in the Club. It's a huge establishment.. 7000 sq ft with 3 levels.  I never took the bait as I am not there to get laid, but I have talked to many guys at the clubs, and you can do pretty much whatever you want in that room - whatever the stripper will allow that is..  You can get BJ, sex, hand job, even snow...  

 
Here is the rub... You will be paying through your fuckin' nose for that kind of deal. I've been promised anywhere between $300-$1000 for champagne room experience.  Again, I am not a sucker for those kinda things.. My point in going to strip clubs is to chill.. Have good food (they got great kitchen BTW), have cold beer, get 8-10 lap dances ($25 a piece), watch some sports, and come back..  

 
Can you get laid at strip club? I can say you definitely can at Tootsies. Not sure about all of them, but Tootsies YES..   Can you take those girls out and fuck them at your hotel.. Never tried it.. I am sure it's possible.. Probably not easy though.. I would think you would have to be a regular, or have some real game and real money.. Wear good shoes.. They really judge you based on that..  

 
Good luck !

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They're professional hustlers, expert at separating men from their money while giving up as little as possible. Then there are the ones looking for a baby daddy, then ones with pimps. And sometimes just hot girls working their way through college or otherwise paying bills until they're ready for a civvie job.

Be careful.  They don't wear a sign telling you which one they are.

..but actually they tell you that they are open to sex, by inviting you to champagne room (or some version of the same).  Some aren't that open minded, and that is the part of the game.  So they kind of wear a sign, and its not that hard to read it.  

 
As far as being hustlers and separating men from their money, I don't see it as a big deal. They signed up to give lap dances, not suck dicks. So if she is trying to hustle you for a quick 1 song private time, which costs like $25 or so... big fuckin' deal..

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I got a surprise CBJ at Thee Doll House  in the VIP room in N. Myrtle Beach about 7 years ago.. but usually hand jobs in other VIP rooms. I did get a girl that had become a regular to come back to my hotel too once. Same club. We would communicate schedules. She would time her trip to MB with mine two or three times over a few years.  For what I paid her.. I could have seen 10 escorts.. I don't do strip clubs anymore..too easy to spend way too much..live & learn

Before finding this site I would have not asked a stripper, but since coming here my eyes are little more open. I mean almost every porn star I've ever wanted to be with seems to be a provider, not surprising once you understand how the industry and life works. And the sheer amount of regular people who are providers and sugar babies is astounding.

Having said that I started to ply that thinking to strippers and came to tow conclusions. One, there's probably a few out there that will, if they like you. Two, they already have a regular job and I think out of all the sex type legal employment you can have that one would be one with less people willing to provide. Just my opinion.

Also in my opinion I would never go to the champagne room they will drain you of every last cent. And not drain you of anything else.

Ask if they do “private dances” outside the club. You’ll find their rates tend to be higher than escorts because they are trolling for the big whale who’s willing (probably in a champagne induced stupor) to spend inordinate amounts of money.

Local laws, club rules, and club policies and practices will vary far and wide. I suggest a few scouting trips. In some Champagne Rooms or VIP Rooms, there is very little privacy. There might be multiple customers with their strippers at small tables or bench seats.  There may be busybody bouncers. Make a wrong move and they'll twist your head off like they're opening an overpriced bottle of champagne. Or some will shine their superbright LED narrow beam flashlights right onto you. "Hands up! Don't shoot!"  
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If they overhear anything that sounds like solicitation (from either party) they might be inclined to fire the offending dancer and/or kick out the offending customer.  
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The more that a club has to lose, the more likely that the rules will be enforced. E.g., Flashdancers in NYC does not want to lose their liquor license or risk forced closure for even one day (of lost revenue). You are less likely to get in-house service there. However, at Sleezy Sam's Gyp Joint with the sticky seats, they are probably more likely to look the other way.  
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BRING BACK THE HARMONY THEATERS! (in New York City) Those were the good old days!
http://vanishingnewyork.blogspot.com/2013/09/harmony-burlesque.html
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If possible, try to find out about the local specs in your area. Which clubs are more likely to be under LE scrutiny and so on due to a recent complaint, even if unrelated to P4P (a fight in the club or in the parking lot, etc.). In the old days of usenet (google it), a lot of up to date info was shared on alt.sex.strip-clubs (some archives at groups.google.com)  
http://www.ibiblio.org/usenet-i/groups-html/alt.sex.strip-clubs.html
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There still seems to be TUSCL, the ultimate s-c list: https://tuscl.net/  
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BRING BACK THE HARMONY!!!!!

BRING BACK THE HARMONY!

I seen guys do this many providers on line  have also work as stripper. Have phone out, get a table dance tip, ask number. She may give it to you. I not into spending exter but seen girls have strip. I personally quit strip club when got arrested duid and drop charges.

It can be done. I do it often. Click the link I included below.

Plus more to the stripper.. an escort is a lot less..

I like to get laid BEFORE i go to a strip club. You'll be more relaxed and you won't make any dumbass mistakes, like going to the VIP room and spending 300 on a 30 minutes or 4 song HJ.  
I'll usually go around 2 am (Vegas) after my date has hit the road. I'll call the driver, they'll cover for you at the club, you meet a girl, chit chat, do a couple of lap dances and then you ask if they you can take the party on the road. Usually it'll be after their shift, which could be around 4am. Had a couple of girls swing by and it was a good time. Damage was 500. Had one girl come over at 4:30am, and she left at 1pm. We crashed alittle, had room service and that was that.
I don't do it ALL the time but every now and then there's that one girl who seem to "Get it"

of getting a nooner before going to my Miami adventure next month. I usually have someone lined up afterwards back at my hotel. Not a stripper, but one of my Miami regulars.  

 
But the strategy you suggested makes a lot of common sense.  Get laid before going.. You can truly chill.  

 
BTW, I am a big Vegas traveller too - at least was before COVID. I wasn't impressed by Vegas strip clubs. Too many restrictions, and only one fully nude club that serves alcohol.  Local laws got to change. Those assbackwards laws make no sense in a place like Vegas.

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This sounds like a bad idea to me. But I hate throwing money away.
Funny though, I was just at a massage parlor and the girl advises me to try to get laid by a strip club girl. I thought it was a very weird thing for her to say. She was offering FS and I was considering the offer. I guess another example of running the mouth without thinking.

The closest I came to dating a stripper was a waitress at a strip club. I only know she worked there because that's where she had me meet her before going BCD.

... But of course with me it's a totally different rationale and approach. I actually prefer staying in the club for action rather than taking it outside. I'm probably in the minority on that one, lol.

That has inherent risk associated with it.. Stings by LE at FL Strip Clubs are very common.

Line up a no-rush date with a trusted provider at a reasonable price and a safe place… and then go to a strip joint an hour or two before - get as much tease as you want, enjoy it to the fullest without the desperate need to score at any cost because you are already too wound up.

I'm having to revise my post earlier, just a tad. After making that post I ventured up to Portland, stripper capital of world (seriously). I went to a club I know and now that I have the lingo and understand what the code words are I got two phone numbers.

One was a lady I wasn't attracted to, but did BDSM stuff, but implied it could be whatever.

One, very cute, petite, and drugged out lady who told me she's sugar baby. Now until I opened my mouth it was all business then I said, confidently, I'm a sugar daddy. Boom, hand on dick. But she was pro trying to convince me or herself that she wasn't. She told me her rate was $500 for an hour. I told her women in my area were $300-$500 and my dates last 3-5 hours. I got her info and she told me I could buy videos of her having sex on her onlyfans sight.

So it can be had.

Over the years I have had some success getting strippers to provide service outside the club, but more often it's a no go.  Most clubs will fire a girl working on the side (they want you to spend your money in the club).  If she is pulling in a few G's a night, she is not likely to risk it for a few C notes on the side.  

However if that is what you want, be discreet about it but go ahead and ask.  Any girl working in strip clubs has had to answer that very question often.   Sometimes the girl you proportion may not do it,  but she can connect you with another girl that does. (tip her accordingly for the assist).      

I've had a LOT of success getting extras from strippers. But always remember, never trust a stripper. 1) Buy them a drink to see what their vibe is. 2) get the lapdance and see how much you are allowed to let your hands roam, and how much HER hands roam. If it's a no go, no harm no foul, just move on.
3) ask for her number and if she wants to get together outside the club.
If she's not into it, just move on.

Great advice.

Here’s what works for me:
1.  Don’t dress like you’re going to a Nationals game.  
2. (Optional) Go with a hot girl already - my SO is a PS and we do this on special occasions. Sometime I roll in with a fancy car I valet (rarely).
3. Give your waitress, if she is experienced and not a newbie, an outsized tip for the first drink. She will then invariably ask you what you want. Tell her your type. She will pass on that you’re generous and looking for company. A few your type (if the club is any good) will find you.  
4. I play like I’m going to the VIP/ champagne room— even tour the floor sometimes— but I don’t do it anymore (that was the mistake of my youth)!
5. As others have said, I buy every girl a drink and maybe a dance to check out her body language, but i really want to negotiate her out of there into my bed. Spend too much on the other stuff and you’ll be seen as a sucker to be drained over the night!  
6. I always go to my home. Because it setup for this sort of thing.  

Whoever wonders what kind of ho you’re getting (pro or amateur) at the initial “Pull”, who cares! Only times it matters for me is if we are deciding later whether to go bare…

All this is assuming one still wants this kind of experience… which is kinda boring now that it is almost a given to work.

Been there and done that.  I suspect that probably about half of the strippers would do it if the vibe and price was right.  At least that is probably about what my success rate has been.  Probably about half of the time it will take a a few visits for her to be comfortable with you.

Over the years I have had some success.  
It does not matter which part of the country I was in.
A few dances with a little conversation, I always mention that I am on the road for work.
When the topic of the champange room comes up, I always say I would perfer giving here the money direct and not to the club. If she is interested, she will try to give me her number, however I never take my phone inside so I get her to log my burner phone number into hers.  If she is interested I get her to send me a text.
It works around 5% of the time
As they say, It never hurts to ask.

You are crazy to try and get a striper to see you outside of a strip club. They are taught to have no contact with any guys in the adult industry outside the STRIP CLUB. Although, Some ignore that rule. It's due to the fact that Strip Clubs do not want the Strippers to make more money & Have the drama enter the strip clubs.