I was not going to post this but the post below about rude questions just got my attention so hear goes. I'm sure I will get lots of negative feedback.

In no way am I being rude or disrespectful to the wonderful ladies I have met or have not met in the world of TER. I am not using my login name so that they all will not be offended.

I have had several 9 encounters and a few 10's. However, I experienced a new level of encounter that was completely unexpected this week. I am hopeful that there are other ladies out there who offer this kind of encounter and can't wait to meet them.

All other dates at some time felt like a service, even those I rated as 9. I rate a 9 if for the majority of the time it feels like a real date, But there always seems to be that time when it feels like a service. I only visit with well reviewed ladies with 8 or 9 ratings.  

The difference between this date and all others was that it truly felt like a date, no rude questions and no inflated compliments about what great shape I was in, how attractive I was, how interesting my job was and what a sweet man I was.

No questions during the fun parts like, should I get a condom now, do you want to switch to doggie, do you want to go to greece now. Just two people enjoying the intimacy of each other and letting things happen on their own. We sensed each others needs and wants and did not give direction to each other as to what should happen next, we just let it happen.

This all coming from a date for which I was sure that I would TOFTT, a beautiful mature provider with a body that any 20 something would die for, no reviews on TER and who only advertises on EROS. I thought for sure I would be posting about a rip off but I had to find out for myself. The photos were TGTBT but when I opened the door there was the woman, exactly as shown in her pics. I was so surprised. Things just got better from then on.

She has no association with TER or any other site, prefers to remain discreet, low volume, UTR, books multi hour dates and overnights only and has a loyal following of regular clients.

Now having said that I am sure there are other ladies out there, I hope I can find them.

But, seriously, it's sounds a lot like my ATF

I was lucky (unlucky?) enough to have that experience with the second lady I ever saw in the hobby and it's kind of spoiled me. It's what I look for in each encounter now and it's also why I hobby pretty infrequently. It takes time to find the right ladies, establish some degree of rapport, and get the timing right.

Does it happen every time? No. But it happens more than many would think.

Interesting.  Some of my sessions go like that, others do not.  For a lot of reasons.  It's fantastic when we have an experience where the other person really does seem to read our minds, but I'm reluctant to hold this as a some kind of gold standard.  Asking questions and communicating when you aren't sure is important, especially with a new partner.

But it's fantastic to hear you had such a great connection.

wrong coast

What you describe sounds like minimum expected session requirements. Basically, you are asking for a session with no stupid questions or commentaries, and in which the provider is truly and completely in sync with you, both physically and emotionally. She is not working from a script, and she is not completely passive. You, the client, get completely utterly lost in the moment and in her. Is this really so rare as to rate a 10, let alone a non-existent 12? Many (alright, some) ladies routinely achieve this level. I would not repeat with someone who did not seem at least capable of this level.

If your description fit a session with my favorite lady, I would consider it an off-day, and I am sure that she would too. I can not remember the last time that we were not fully engaged in a mutual attempt to angrily devour each other.  

I would have PM'ed you with : Great Post. But you an alias. So am I but you're correct.
I'm happy to hear you've had such an amazing encounter. We can only hope for that happy surprise on both sides now and again. Write a review for all of us.