LR's post got me thinking...So you love the ladies and want to spend tons of $ and time with them, but you are sick of getting screwed (and not in the fun way) when 45+ & 165+ shows up (unless you are into that) instead of 25 & 125 that you were expecting.  What's a guy to do?

1. Discount everybody, and then be blown away when the real deal shows up that looks like her pics.  
2. Do your homework and PM and back channel to get a better picture, or at least a more accurate picture of who you're going to see.
3. Don't shop hungry... Plan your adventures enough in advance so that you can do your homework with a clear head.
4. Don't EVER take one for the team.  
5. Thoroughly enjoy the ladies that you see that exceed expectations and book them again.

Granted this takes some time and requires a bit more thought on the part of the big head, but a little rational thought will go a long way toward making your hobby experiences all 9s and 10s.  


OR, you can keep seeing the $250 BP girls and keep bitching on the boards about how you keep getting screwed.

Now who's going to be the first to add #6...

MT

 #7) Ask the woman how old/accurate her photos are. That way you lay the groundwork to walk away if you arrive and find she bullshitted you too much.
                                                                        Good points MT91151

concerned over the small shit. Lying about 5 lbs or 3 years of age is a far cry from 20 lbs. and 10 years. Learn to see people as human beings vs. a hole to fill or a blow up doll. I am not saying one should lower their standards because I get you can't fk what you're not attracted to, and you damn sure should not have to pay for it...BUT, personality goes a long way.

I can't count the number of men who have seen me knowing I was NOT their type physically, and are now my best clients. Yea, people actually say my attitude is the very reason they booked me ha ha. It does not work for everyone as some men don't give two shits about that if they are not attracted to you and I get that, but if more guys around here would learn to relax just a little and stop looking for love, this would be a hell of a lot easier. The ones who demand this and that from a girl they have only met for an hour, give me the fkin creeps!

Find a girl, book her, pay her, fk her, and stfu about it after you write your review. The way some talk about their ATF gives me visions of Norman Bates! For men who claim they want uncomplicated sex, they sure do fk it up and make it anything but lol. This is supposed to be the EASIEST way to score without strings, and some want to bring their drama and baggage even to a hooker. Save that shit for the wife or GF, and I will save my issues for my pals as well.

right here on TER that i've know for several months and or yrs.
To me, getting to see them for the first time, is gonna be a blast. ( much better than someone i just contacted the day before ).......i know things are gonna be good on their end, cause, they are good at what they do.

1 I expect all providers to look like their pic and don't tolerate those that don't
2 I spend some time reading reviews, most importantly the part that say "were the pic accurate" but rarely waste all day PMing other hobbyists
3 I rarely plan more than a few hours in advance, I hobby more days than not, so planning days or weeks in advance is not really an option.
4 I TOFTT quite often, but I am willing to walk if she is not "as advertised" after all SOMEONE has to be the first.
5 no argument at all with this one.

I see $250 ladies all the time, and you don't see me bitching. This is just sex, it's not like we are shopping for a goddamned house. Why do some of you guys act like this is a life altering purchase, I am sorry but a couple of hours and a few hundred buck is hardly life altering to me

no problems with anything you said, i really dont know or care what anyone on here wants/expects/ anything else....but if a couple hundred bucks several times a month doesnt matter to you ( EX: i hobby more days than not....a few hundred buck is hardly life altering)....you can feel free to send me some of that extra cash

1. Discount everybody, and then be blown away when the real deal shows up that looks like her pics.  
*N/A

2. Do your homework and PM and back channel to get a better picture, or at least a more accurate picture of who you're going to see.
*I do my share of homework every time.  Reading reviews is a pleasure not a burden.

3. Don't shop hungry... Plan your adventures enough in advance so that you can do your homework with a clear head.
*Duhh.  N/A


4. Don't EVER take one for the team.  
*Will do this if her ad has special appeal to me.  Extra homework required, no problem.  Have struck gold more than once doing this.


5. Thoroughly enjoy the ladies that you see that exceed expectations and book them again.
*Definitly a good way to go.


Granted this takes some time and requires a bit more thought on the part of the big head, but a little rational thought will go a long way toward making your hobby experiences all 9s and 10s.  
*You understand the basics.  Congratulations.

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....but it is still a truism: you generally get what you pay for. If you're looking for GFE, PSE, XYZ, whatever, a quality experience is going to cost some ducats.

MfSD>>>>

Totally agree with you London.....very astute. Thank you for sharing your perspective.

Glad you have so much to blow. The ladies probably like you a lot.

Thanks for articulating important points. Attitude and personality make any encounter a more memorable experience in my limited hobbyist experience. Additionally, to listen well allows for better communication, which is also very important for any enjoyable mind-body connection.

Wishing you and all in NO much safety with Isaac's wrath.

provider has a ring to it that saghorny weaver was to the alien eggs , hooker is coarse though ive heard someone here refer to themself with that handle. Now "fucktard" is what implies success , fucked hard & suc seed, now thats porno .
Oh , and i wont abide by the advice , ive found amazing nymphos by luck of the draw.
Im  a fisherman . Not a master baiter

and I don't part with it to ROB's. I will walk in a second if I think I am being deceived. OTOH, i can afford to lose a few bucks in search or new talent. I know these two attitudes might seem contradictory, but really they are not.

My hobby budget might be higher than most here, partly due to "no kids" and "no wife", but I don't waste my money on ROB's or HDH's, I have no problems seeing the $250 BP girls that are so derided here, but unlike many of the spineless guys here, if the lady is not "as advertised" I simply walk and either see a different lady that night, or wait and see someone else the next night. Maybe I should have said more accurately that I don't mind blowing an hour or two out of my life to see if a new lady is "for real", because it's rare that I will part with any of my cash for a B&S type gal.

You are very welcome. Sending positive thoughts from Chicago! Stay safe and know we all wish you well!

By definition, you'd be reviewing your unreviewed "finds".  Btw, you're spontaneity approach has positively influenced me here.

Now why would I pay to fuck a lady I am not attracted to, lie, or no lie about looks.  I can go get a wife for that, although the wife would cost more, hmmmm....maybe...

and I am glad I have had at least some positive influence here.

Or do you forget where you were?   Keep a diary, send it to me, I'll charge for it and split it with you.

I do have to confess, I do sometimes wake up and it takes me a few minutes to remember even what country I am in. Maybe I do need a diary, and some one to monitor it for me?

... where I woke up in the morning next to one or more naked women, and naked myself, having no clue where I was, how I got there, or whether or not I finished the deal.

In my Army days, I once woke up in the women's dorm at Chapel Hill with 4 women from the volleyball team and 1 recruit they were hosting. I hope my buddy who was also there doesn't read this because I just exposed myself otherwise ... lol.

it comes with the obvious risk (and rewards).  Stumbling upon that undiscovered jewel can be an amazing experience.  Personally I don't enjoy kissing all the frogs in between.  The only issue I see with the a "walk away" mentality is that you ended up blowing an afternoon or evening without even getting blown.

I hobby pretty much exclusively on the road (local talent isn't that exceptional), and for me having a sure thing lined up beats rolling the dice every time.

MT

It's not like just because the lady doesn't have any reviews, she's a virgin. I would be willing to bet you won't even have been her first that day.

I guess if you get some form of adrenaline rush from exploring the unknown, I get it ... but I'm sure that "jewel" was discovered long before you ever get there.

I've TOFTT on a number of occasions. I get grandfathered in at a low rate and get OTC that I never asked for. The good ones don't forget that you wrote their first review and can reward you handsomely.

I'm not concerned in the least with saving a few bucks before a lady raises her rates. The potential to completely waste my time and money far outweighs the possible savings when I don't need them.

I rarely repeat more than once (only done so with 2 ladies) and I spend plenty of OTC with both of those ladies.

I would take no pride in being the first to write a review. I'm sure the lady has had sex many, many, many times before in her life.

There is no sense of excitement in doing so for me.

The lady is not UTR because she doesn't have reviews. She is UTR because she doesn't advertise ... ANYWHERE. You find out about her from a friend, fellow monger, or provider. In that case, it isn't a TOFTT situation.

although because i am a provider, i understand that sometimes its more about the orgasm. I mean you dont wanna bitch and complain to people you really care about and you dont want someone to later throw it in your face. so why not open up your issues to a provider and get another perdpective or at the very least someone who will listen to you vent and make you feel better inside and out, then go home more realxed and with peace of mind to the one you plan on being with