I'm into havin sex! I ain't into makin love..
Most of us feel that way. Just my 50 cent opinion..I keep on reading these bizarre proclamations by johns about making love to their prostitutes.
Are there prostitutes that really can corroborate these statements?
There was at least one prostitute that posted here that told things like they really are. Why do some guys really think that a prostitute is fucking them for anything more than a buck? They don't give a shit about lovemaking. They want you to cum and leave.
C'mon guys, figure this out.
Its always making love. But I much prefer fucking thanks.
Back at it, huh 
I guess if the prostitute doesn't charge the john for fucking her, then maybe it could be some type of lovemaking.
Do you charge your johns?
If a prostitute is charging for sex, then she is just tolerating the john for the time he pays for. If she isn't charging the john, then she is just a slut and not a prostitute.
Back at it, huh
I'm into havin sex! I ain't into makin love..
Most of us feel that way. Just my 50 cent opinion..
50 cent(s) aint gonna get you very far lol
You can still "make" love with a transaction involved just like making money lol. And I LOVE any man who provides the transaction. HUGE turn on for me.
Mo money Mo love lol.
There is plenty of grayish area between black and white.
What if she does charge the john but much less than everybody else? while giving him unlimited time to finish? then while she's at it she's doing things she does NOT do with her regular johns.
It may not fit your definition of making love but it's close enough for me.
Signed me been there done that!
PS: Sorry that never happened to you... maybe one day?
You're still paying for the prostitute to pretend to like you.
When she's not charging you anymore, then maybe she will consider it making love. You should ask her. Or are you afraid she'd tell you no money, no love (making).
Think about it.
PS: Don't assume what I have done in life. Maybe one day you'll understand.
What if she does charge the john but much less than everybody else? while giving him unlimited time to finish? then while she's at it she's doing things she does NOT do with her regular johns.
It may not fit your definition of making love but it's close enough for me.
Signed me been there done that!
PS: Sorry that never happened to you... maybe one day?
how do you know she doesn't do those things with other johns?
she tells you?
you probably make her cum 4 or 5 times a session. at least that's what she tells you !
She charged me for the condoms, the Kleenex and the lube, now, upon further reflection, maybe we were not making love. I don't know, I am confused and conflicted, I thought I was paying for her time only....
It's no different than any other business in that there are always clients you like better than others.
We all tend to grease the skids, so to speak 😆, for those we enjoy seeing
I see from your pictures that you're into music. Maybe one day you'll sing me a love song?
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You should be proud. LOL
I don't mind you hanging out - and talking in your sleep
You got that right.But now I have to fumigate my computer after I downloaded BB-no brain's posts
two people can make love. Under any circumstances, it can happen.
It may not mean they are committed or that they are "in love" or looking for a relationship....
but yes, some moments between certain people (companions/friends?) can rise to the level of making love and not mere fucking. Great moments.
I would never expect it to recur, or assume more from it. I assume it is very rare. But ir can and it does happen when circumstances are right for both partners.
Alas, I credit you with realizing that most of the time it is merely fucking for money. Kudos for being sooooo astute
He masturbates facing the mirror
i do OTC with some clients that i connect with and if they are single of course
i have developed some deep friendships, to me it is not about $
money comes and goes,strong friendships are priceless
bbfs4ever, a guy like you would not understand what i am talking about
you have ice for a heart i assume?what happened?parents did show you enough love?why you are so bitter at everybody??you keep on hating on us, but you still need us to add some excitement to your mundane life....
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I like the honesty in your comments.
i have developed some deep friendships, to me it is not about $
money comes and goes,strong friendships are priceless
bbfs4ever, a guy like you would not understand what i am talking about
you have ice for a heart i assume?what happened?parents did show you enough love?why you are so bitter at everybody??you keep on hating on us, but you still need us to add some excitement to your mundane life....
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I wish she lived closer to Colorado ! She would be a double ATF
i have developed some deep friendships, to me it is not about $
money comes and goes,strong friendships are priceless
bbfs4ever, a guy like you would not understand what i am talking about
you have ice for a heart i assume?what happened?parents did show you enough love?why you are so bitter at everybody??you keep on hating on us, but you still need us to add some excitement to your mundane life....
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You don't get it, and likely never will. End statement.
Why did they write thousands of (long) otc emails? Why do retired ladies still write? Why do their sessions end with breakfast, lunch or dinner every time? Why do their sessions include actual gifts for special occasions? Why did she ask me to spend the night? Why did she, after a gfe 'lovemaking' session, invite me to partake of her one hour fbsm skills at no extra charge? Why did she say she's got our lives planned out? Why do their one hour sessions last four hours? Why does she say she loves me when we're 'making love' for money? Why do they offer me free sessions? Why does she ask me, when I'm on my way out the door, if I won't stay and make her cum just one more time? A little respect will take you far.
I don't know man. I think you're searching for the wrong girls. But then, women have highly tuned skills of perception, their sixth sense if you will. They can easily pick up on your attitude towards them. I'm not sure I'm the one who should figure things out.
... You do realize that you are responding to the equivalent of a fabricated, one-act cartoon character right? The theme is always the same, and OP succeeds every single time, in drawing attention to himself and riling people up. He (she?) in all likelihood doesn't even believe this repetitive schtick. Responding as if this is a real person simply causes him to toddle off and dream up the next outrageous thing to say.
OP must be thrilled and amazed that the one-act cartoon, and all the re-runs still have legs after all this time, and that he has so many puppets that are willing to be played over and over again. Pavlov would have been amused at how this plays out.
All of you seem like nice people, but you are wasting your typing fingers and energy in this case.
...as I said yesterday, so eloquently corrected by Afro-desiac, let's ignore him and at least force him to come up with an alias...
Thanks CB! It's all good. I had tons of fun remembering all the great things that have happened to me in this secret little world. I sometimes sit at work and shake my head in disbelief at everything. People walk by me and ask why I'm smiling. Trust me. It helps with those long tedious days. Not to mention, thinking about the next lady.
Oh, and I thought of one more thing these beautiful ladies have done for me. Many have sent tons of sexy pics my way, including face shots, and other glorious body parts. I'll be smiling all day thinking about those. So thanks to cartoon character for getting me through a long Friday. Off to work now.
I develop real friendships with many gents you see me...ever hear of polyamory?
My ATF mentioned polyamory, and that's the first thing that came to my mind when I read this thread, too. I thought I knew what polyamory was until I did a little research.
I agree with you, that some do have genuine friendships with some of the gentlemen they see, and will go so far to say that with that caring, absolutely do make love at times, even if there is money involved.
I know no one will understand or admit that, but yes, it does happen.
And then there are civvie ladies that claim to love you and get wet at the very thought of you but yet want to treat you like crap. I'd rather be intimate with someone that treats me right rather than someone who is simply attracted to me. I personally don't want to put up with the drama of someone that "loves" me one day and goes BSC the next and threatens my livlihood if I leave them because I am the best boyfriend they ever had and they never loved anyone so much. There are pros and cons to everything. There is no unicorn perfection. I personally think you have a low self-esteem issue.
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Some people refer to this as passion. Nothing wrong with making love in the hobby and I do love many of the gentlemen I love fuck.
I don't think you love yourself, how could you love anyone else? Really sad.
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Are there prostitutes that really can corroborate these statements?
There was at least one prostitute that posted here that told things like they really are. Why do some guys really think that a prostitute is fucking them for anything more than a buck? They don't give a shit about lovemaking. They want you to cum and leave.
C'mon guys, figure this out.
The dumb motherfucker refuses to wear condoms.
I can never understand posts like this.
If you aren't looking for some kind of connection with another human being giving pleasure to each other, aka "making love" then why not just masturbate and be done with it. Or get one of those dolls to do it with.
The choices are:
1. You marry your true love. You will pay.
2. You have a Girlfriend. You will pay.
3. You see a professional. You will pay.
4. You become a Priest.....OMG
Bottom line the only that gives you what you want is the Pro. They are a blessing to humanity. We all sell our services.
I'm a HO but happy.....HAHAHA